I like the practical reality of this board....Now I am extremely frugal and not even pg yet.....I always figured I would wear my husband's dress shirts with a jacket clip to take in the excess room and my slacks until they couldn't fit anymore.
so I'm wondering where did you shop for maternity slacks/clothes since I'll probably need to have at least 2 maternity suits. did you shop Women's Plus Store or maternity store and which maternity store?
Re: Work Appropriate Maternity Clothes
Not sure if you're OK with this but I actually had good luck shopping at Goodwill for maternity clothes. The one by my house is really big and pretty nice and had a whole maternity rack. It seems that many women wear their maternity clothes for a few months then donate them, because I often found like-new stuff from Motherhood, Liz Lange, etc. at Goodwill prices. Granted, you have to sort through mumus to find the bargains, but it was worth it :-)
I also got a lot of basics at Target - solid color shirts that I would pair with (non maternity) cardigans or suit jackets, etc. I got a few things at Motherhood maternity on sale, and also some things at JC Penney.
I don't know about you and your DH sizes but I would have looked silly in my DH's shirts, even clipped back, because his arms and shoulders are so much longer and bigger. I think you'll also find that plus sized stuff doesn't fit right, I'd go with actual maternity clothes - I felt frumpy enough while pregnant, I wanted clothes that fit me right.
I honestly got most of my maternity clothes at "motherhood." The clothes are pretty inexpensive, the quality is not that great, but you really only need them for a few months. I got two dresses from Ann Taylor maternity, and two dresses with an empire waist two sizes bigger than my regular size at a regular department store.
I had an awful time trying to find a suit jacket. They have to be kind of stretchy, which is a wierd material for a suit. The one I bought never really fit right. A lot of them had little bows above your belly (what person that seriously needs to wear a suit wants a little bow on it? I think that your feminity is proudly on display with your giant pg belly). So, I stuck with the dresses and heels mostly.
black maternity skirt and slacks (w/ adjustable panel so it grows w/ you). i was able to pair these w/ my old black suit jacket unbuttoned. this totally saved me from buying an entire new black suit.
i bought a bunch of maternity dresses and just wore them w/ my old suit jackets, again unbuttoned.
I did not buy a single maternity top - the whole babydoll style was in two years ago (I guess it is still fine, I am not "on top" of fashion trends). I have a lot of stretchy tops, so I wore those and bought a bunch from Marshall's.
I wore skirts - the ones with an elastic string for the waste. I had some already and I bought a couple from a non-maternity store and I still wear them.
Pants is what I had to buy maternity specific. I had issues finding my size (it's XS or S), so I resorted to eBay. I am a little particular about used clothes, so I bought new, but for very cheap - like $10 each. I only had 4 or so of them so I rotated them with skirts and wore them every week. I was not one into buying an elaborate maternity wardrobe that would only last 6 months.
Forget DH's shirts. It sounds great but in reality will probably look frumpy.
I got almost all of my maternity pants at Target - they had pretty nice dress slacks in a few basic colors. I also liked the waistband. Not fancy but in neutrals - just fine.
As for shirts - I shopped around - Gap, Motherhood, etc. I was lucky to be pregnant in the winter so sweater coat/cardigans and a silky tee were my friends most of the time for work.
I shopped a number of places, but the most reasonable professional maternity clothes I found were from JC Penney. You pretty much have to order on-line (the selection in stores isn't great), but you can return to the store if they don't work. I also shopped the sales at www.figure8maternity.com for a lot of my work clothes.
You definitely want to wear maternity v. plus size clothes (which won't fit right and will look baggy and unprofessional).
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