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2 sh!tty phrases in one day...

JenyMJenyM member
in TTC After a Loss

1. My cousin who had 2m/c herself but now has a beautiful baby was asking me about my long a$$ cycle and said, "well, at least we know we can conceive." AWESOME! so comforting to know that not only can i  create life but kill it as well :-) yay Angry

2. My mom and I were going shopping and i was running late from work and had to let the dogs out, feed them, etc. So, i was a little stressed when she got here. She's like, "what are you going to do when you have kids?- I guess kill myself because i will never be able to manage my time geeeeeezzzzz! Super Angry

Seriously????What is wrong with people?

 

BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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Re: 2 sh!tty phrases in one day...

  • Mrs.KernMrs.Kern

    I'm sorry.  I especially hate phrase number 1.  I also feel that way.  Or I get mad that I did everything right when I was pregnant, no alcohol, no fish, no cold medicine, but yet I didn't get to keep my baby.

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  • bannedmonkeybannedmonkey

    I'm so sorry. Those comments make for a long day. I have to admit, I actually am releived that we can conceive. I know it's hard to hear from other people though because it trivializes your m/c.

    My favorite thing a friend said to me was "don't worry, 6 months from now you'll have forgotten all about it".

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  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    ouch....
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