Sorry

annaclausen

Sorry

anniemarie887

i'm surprised you want to read stories when you can't seem to read this: The Ultimate TTGP Guide -- Newbies, Read This First!! - Page 4 — The Bump

acleverusername

annaclausen said:

AF is 4 days late as of today (May 14th) but I'm 19dpo but still get BFN. Please let me hear your stories where you get a late BFP just so I know I'm still in the game. 

I have nausea, headaches and cramps so it's hard for me to believe it's AF but not preggo symptoms. 

QFP

kgg2241

Well...we can't give your stories since this board is for those TRYING to get pregnant. Many of the ladies have never seen a positive pregnancy test. You might have more luck on the 1st Trimester board. 

acleverusername

@annaclausen Sorry girl, but these types of questions aren't welcome on this forum. We're a tight knit community of women who have been here for variable length of time. But the one thing we have in common is that we have all taken the time to invest in giving into this community, which in turn gives us the benefit of sharing our stories, and asking questions, and offering support/advice to others who have questions. 

You've just arrived on the scene unannounced, and asked what is perhaps the most hurtful question anyone can ask on this forum. We don't know who you are, we don't know what your fertility story is, so how are we supposed to help you? And why would we want to?

Anyway, if instead of asking random questions you'd like to join our warm, knowledgable, and friendly community, please read the guide as @anniemarie887 suggested and start looking around to learn how this community operates. Feel free to jump into the daily/weekly/monthly discussions. 

If you're not interested in making that investment, then perhaps another TTC site (there are plenty of them) will be a better place for your question. 

Since you asked though, if you're 4 days late, and are getting BFNs with no AF, you're likely either stressed and your period is delayed, or you might have a cyst. But, you're definitely not pregnant. 

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OR!  you're most likely NOT actually 19dpo cos you really have no idea and you are using a "period tracker."

My money's on Door No. 3
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acleverusername

@BusinessWife YES! I totally forgot about that option. Doh! Sometimes I forget that... well... ppl don't always know what they're doing. 

rachelredhead

@annaclausen I’m sorry you’re struggling with your BFN.

You’ve posted on a board for women trying to conceive. Some of us have had BFPs, some of us have not, and all of us have been where you are. You can probably imagine that asking for stories about a “late BFP” in a crowd of folks anxious to get their own BFP doesn’t feel great. 

The truth is, pregnancy tests don’t lie. You are not pregnant. Is there a remote chance you might get a positive later? Sure. Always a super remote chance. But no amount of stories on the internet will alter that BFN.

If you’d like to introduce yourself and engage with the board as provided in the link posted above, I think you’d get some nice support here. 

annaclausen

Damn girls, it was just a question, no need to attack me. Obviously I made the wrong choice of asking for ANY advise here. But hey, always good to feel rejected by a group of people INSTEAD of a helpful comment that I posted in the wrong place. Jeez

rachelredhead

@annaclausen you weren’t rejected, you were corrected. Join the community, give before you ask to take, etc. Or just check out a different board if you want random folks’ BFP stories. This just is not the place. 

annaclausen

There, I fixed it. 

bows22

annaclausen said:

Damn girls, it was just a question, no need to attack me. Obviously I made the wrong choice of asking for ANY advise here. But hey, always good to feel rejected by a group of people INSTEAD of a helpful comment that I posted in the wrong place. Jeez

annaclausen said:

There, I fixed it. 

A BFN means you are not pregnant at this time. Is that helpful?

inthewoods23

technically @anniemarie887's comment was helpful directing one to the pinned post of the rules which states you can't ask if you could pregnant even in the most roundabout manner possible.... such as asking for late BFP success stories. And she was the first to comment!

anniemarie887

attacked eh? i mean the reality is you failed to read and follow rules. i didn't call you names, but like i can if you want me to?!

jlbaker08

I'm curious about what people think is going to happen when they post questions on the internet... they have seen Reddit, Twitter, Quora, literally any of the internet 'places' you can post a question and have the general public respond.  No matter where you post, 90% of the answers are not going to be what you're looking for (for better or worse)
edited because words are hard

acleverusername

All... 

bows22

She took her question over to first tri lol 

acleverusername

Good to see that 1st Trimester has our back. 

meggyme

*lurking*

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