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GTKY- Valentine's Day

What are you and your SO going to do for Valentine's Day this weekend? Are you V-Day haters? Just plan to use the excuse to HIO a whole bunch? Do you usually do something different that you're skipping this year thanks to the Pandemic? Tell me all about it.



Re: GTKY- Valentine's Day

  • We have always been low-key Valentine's Day people. The last few years DH has trekked to a butcher and made a surf and turf dinner, and then I actually shave my legs and wear something sexy. I know, I know, we are overwhelmingly romantic, and not at all cliche.

    When we lived in California we used to go to our favorite restaurant for Valentine's Day and our anniversary every year- an old supper club/dive bar that had a grill in the middle, and you could order steaks and cook them yourself on the grill. They had the BEST marinated flank steaks and garlic bread, and this drink called the Sneaky Tiki that had three types of rum and a ton of fruit. They go down easy, but two of them will get you properly tipsy. We haven't found anything quite like it anywhere else, and even though DH's surf and turf is fantastic, I will be missing my flank steak and fruity rum this weekend. 


  • We will be doing absolutely nothing special. We're not big into the holiday, not that we hate it or anything. We just have found that going out to eat tends to be a shit-show on that day, so we just do our regular thing. 
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  • @mrs_tacos “actually shave my legs” 😂😂😂 that’s amazing and also me 

    I’m similar to @Lisa337...don’t usually do much but also don’t hate it or have issue with those who do make a deal of it. I have no issue with people wanting to celebrate as it’s always nice to show someone you care. We usually have some wine and get some take out...so really no different than any other weekend night. 😂
  • jackie_dunnyjackie_dunny member
    edited February 2021
    @mrs_tacos wow a surf and turf from the butchers! Nice!

    DH and I are also low-key. My birthday is in November, then Christmas, and then DH’s birthday is in January so I think we’re just worn out with gifts by the time Valentine’s Day comes around lol if we are doing gifts, we just do something homemade. DH once made me a little comic book (with stick figures, he’s no artist) of the story of the night we met and I love it so much. This year, we’re just having a steak dinner and we’re making our own chocolate covered strawberries and baking a chocolate cake 

    edit: typo
    Me: 29 | DH: 28
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  • @jackie_dunny That comic book- so sweet! I really love that. And chocolate covered strawberries- :love:


  • We don't usually do a ton, and between money being super tight and pandemic, it'll be pretty low key. We do have a couple chunks of prime rib still in the freezer from when the grocery store gave us an 8.5 POUND roast at Christmas, so we'll pull one out to cook Sunday. We'll probably start to HIO since I'll hopefully ovulate next week. And that's about it.
  • We don't do much because my birthday is 3 days later... and we are usually on a trip then (we typically take a trip every February). Of course, can't do it this year. 

    Loving all of these cute traditions!!
  • @fifilala516 love your 1st VDay story! Was he embarrassed? I'd have died... 
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    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
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    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
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    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • Normally we would either go out somewhere, or cook something special at home that we normally don’t have time for. With everything going on, we’re just going to stay home like a normal weekend! I did just get a positive on my OPKs though, so perfect timing! Haha. 
  • Our usual V-day is pretty chill.  We started dating in late February, so a lot of times we would go out to a nice dinner the weekend after Valentine's Day when nobody else is out!  My meal kit box arrived late this week so I have some fun things to try cooking.  I think especially with the pandemic, our local restaurants will be slammed so maybe we'll order something really special next week.

    And we'd normally share a bottle of wine or bubbly but since I'm close to O, probably not so much.
  • @fifilala516 love your 1st VDay story! Was he embarrassed? I'd have died... 
    Haha, no, he was more like, "I'm dumb." I found it funny. We got engaged 7 months later.
  • @keikilove lol, romantic cookbooks are apparently very like minded when it comes to art choices
  • @fantasyflyte LOL wow - I didn't even notice!
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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