Me: 33 DH: 35 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
| biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22

DS born 7.19.22 after induction
Re: WTO Fri-YAY 7.31
CD: 29
WAYDTGKU: WFAF - expecting AF today
R/R: super busy day ahead today. We're going ahead with my family vacation, which starts tomorrow so there's a lot to do to get ready. My parents rented a huge house for a week for them and all of my siblings. It's definitely going to be a smaller group this year since 2 of my siblings and their families can't come this year (one lives in Texas and can't because of covid restrictions and the other is in the process of moving to Italy). Most of us live locally and have spent the last two weeks quarantined (aside from going to work) so that we're as safe as possible staying in the same house together. The only out-of-town sibling that is able to make it is driving non-stop from Colorado to join us. So altogether there will be 11 adults and 3 kids staying together for a week (our full group would've been 15 adults and 6 kids if everyone could've been there this year).
I've had a lot of anxiety and have gone back and forth a lot about whether or not going on this vacation was the right thing to do. But cases are super low in my area (4 active right now) and we've all quarantined ahead of time and won't be going anywhere while we're there so I think we're being as safe as we can be given the state of things. Anyway, I likely will try to stay off social media, including TB, as much as possible next week to enjoy being with my family.
CS/Q:
@gingermama29 I hope you have a fun, relaxing time with your family! I agree that it's easier to go on a vacation with people knowing that they're also taking things seriously. Where I live, the cases are really high, so we're basically still quarantining.
Month/Cycle: 18/1 AL
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: HIO, OPKs, temping
R/R: I got my first positive OPK this morning... excited to HIO over the next few days!
CS/Q: n/a
Me: 35 DH: 34
Married: April 2014
DS born 9/16
TTC #2 since December 2018
BFP 8/19 MMC 10/19
BFP 5/20 MC 6/20
@mamasloth Have fun
Month/Cycle: 3/3?
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: Nothing, we have been benched.
R/R: TW: Loss Mentioned
CS/Q: doesn't really matter
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@mamasloth get it girl
@DoubleUp8 ugh, sorry you're benched! That sucks that you have to wait so long.
Month/Cycle: 37/27
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: just seeing AF out soon, then HIO, supplements, GF and DF diet, temping, OPKs
R/R: my brother planned a great time (sarcasm) to fly up to see family. DH and I are getting dinner with him at Bonefish Grill. They don't have a location down in AZ so we took him there over Christmas and now he wants to go there again today after he lands. Funny thing is, yesterday was DH's birthday and he wanted Bonefish for his birthday meal so we have leftovers of that in our fridge
Lots of salmon this weekend for us!
CS/Q: temps are still dropping, nothing else exciting.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
@gingermama29 have a great time!! Your trip sounds like so much fun and so relaxing. I would be comfortable going since you're all from the same low case area and quarantining. How many siblings do you have? Do you all get along?
@mamasloth yay for a positive opk! Good luck over the next few days!
@DoubleUp8 I'm so sorry you're benched, especially if that's the reason why. FX the bleeding stops soon.
@inthewoods23 enjoy the time with your brother and all the bonefish grill!! I love salmon, sounds like a yummy weekend. How long is he staying?
Month/Cycle: 15/14
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: day 3 bloodwork tomorrow and then an HSG next week (hopefully- my nurse said they've been crazy booked for them). Plus all the usual stuff we do all the time
R/R: happy Friday! It's rainy and overcast today which is a great break from the high humidity and heat we've had. I can't believe July is over. Nothing much going on otherwise- I feel like I'm stuck in a loop with the same stuff every day, and we're still quarantining for the most part. AF brought a ton of cramps this round and I'm cranky so just trying to lay low today.
CS/Q: nothing to see yet
@gingermama29 I hope you have a great time on vacation!! It can be hard to decide what is and isn't okay during this time, and it sounds like you've done your due diligence in considering every factor. Have a relaxing week!
@mamasloth Yay!!! Hope you enjoy HIO
@doubleup8 Sounds like a rough few days. Sending hugs
You and I have an appt the same week in August!
@inthewoods23 There's no emoji here to accurately express my solidarity with your feelings about your brother flying (from AZ, it sounds like). But I hope you have a great time together and enjoy the fancy food again!
Month/Cycle: 4/3
CD: 23
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, PNV, other vitamins, Mira tracking
R/R: I have today off of work because I was supposed to be flying to Portland for a girl's weekend. Ended up canceling because I didn't want to fly such a long distance right now with Covid going on - but also secretly because if I do ovulate this cycle, it should be this weekend. And, for the first time since I started using Mira, I got a spike this morning!! So I should be ovulating tomorrow, but will keep testing using that and the ClearBlue digital OPKs I've been using for awhile. It's nice to have the day to relax, read, work on home projects, and cook something healthy/yummy.
CS/Q: None. My cycle is normally super long and I seem to be ovulating only every 2-3 cycles. (Dx PCOS)
@mamasloth yay for the positive OPK!!
@DoubleUp8 I’m so so sorry, sending tons of love your way ❤️
Month/Cycle: 9/8
CD: 28
WAYDTGKU: temping, tracking CM, OPKs, PNV, baby aspirin, progesterone after O
R/R: Happy Friday!! We are going to hang out with some friends tonight, but the weather is not great currently. Hoping it clears up during the afternoon so we can stay outside! Other than that we have a boring weekend planned. Since I still haven’t O’d, I think I’m going to tell DH I want tacos and margaritas for dinner Saturday...because why not??
CS/Q: OPK was slightly darker today, but I’m not getting my hopes up for tomorrow.
@gingermama29 i hop you have a great time!!! and i cannot believe 3 months has passed already and you aren't benched anymore!
@slothmama yay for positive OPK! enjoy!
@doubleup8 i am so sorry to hear this. hopefully something frees up and they can see you sooner
@inthewoods23 i love bonefish! bang bang shrimp? yes please! enjoy time with your bro
@_orchid_ sorry for CD2! and yes im loving the lack of humidity today!!!! gotta get out to the garden because ive been putting it off due to heat
@priyadoc Fx for O for you!! would make missing the trip more worth it!
@runningoncookies tacos and margs cure all!
Month/Cycle: 7/7 (AL)
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: all the things
R/R: ugh yesterday was super rough with work. my project went off and things all beyond my control did not go well (in fact, every single thing i didn't have a part in) so today is damage control day! i was actually so overwhelmed last night i went to bed at 9pm. in a much better headspace today and hoping to get DH on board HIO beginning tomorrow (not overdoing it this cycle because last month he got burned out too early when i O'ed late. Fx!
CS/Q:
@_orchid_ Ugh sorry about AF pain
@priyadoc yay for the spike!! Hopefully O does come tomorrow!!
@priyadoc I love when timing aligns nicely for O!
@runningoncookies mmmm tacos!! Sounds like a great plan!
@asf0613 If DH wants to get it, I might indulge in just a few bang bang shrimp because they've got the breading on them! A few shrimp can't really hurt right? Hope today at work goes better than yesterday. Those rough days really suck!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
Jumping over here since AF showed up today.
@gingermama29 - Enjoy your vacation!
@mamasloth - Woooooo!
@doubleup8 - ugh that sucks, I'm sorry.
@inthewoods23 - I hope you enjoy your time with your brother even though the timing sucks!
@_orchid_ - we're still mostly quarantining too, and I'm so freaking over it.
@priyadoc - yay for a day off work but boo for a cancelled trip.
@runningoncookies - tacos sound so good right now.
@asf0613 - Hope you're able to get the damage under control. Work stress sucks.
Month/Cycle: 9/10
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: Going to focus on cleaning up my diet and getting active. I don't think it will help but it will make me feel better physically and mentally. Other than that just a whole lot of DTD after AF ends. I've stopped tracking O to attempt to lower my stress over the whole thing. Also talking to my doctor at my annual in a couple of weeks to see if she'll do CD21 bloodwork to check my progesterone and discuss next steps.
R/R: It's Fridaaaaaaaay! This has been a busy week and I'm ready to log out of work and not deal with people for two days.
CS/Q:
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@priyadoc how long have you been using Mira? What are you impressions? I invested in a Tempdrop 2 months ago and considering returning it and maybe getting something else. Also canceling your trip was likely the right call. Enjoy your long and relaxing weekend!
@asf0613 I’m sorry work was so rough! I’ve been following your updates for the past few days and was hoping you got to enjoy that bottle of wine! GL with damage control and with pacing HIO / YH. Lol. A sexually burnt out hubby is no good for TTC!
Month/Cycle: 6/7
CD: 10!
WAYDTGKU: everything, but obviously not enough.
R/R: Oh boy! I thought my biggest update to you would be my HSG, but nooooooo. First, HSG was okay. The most uncomfortable part was the balloon they inflate to keep the catheter in. I had a really good X-ray tech who explained everything to me and the radiology fellow who did the procedure was really nice and also explained things. I was a bit crampy overnight but other than a bit of spotting yesterday, no after effects. And results were good! No blockages. Also, Fallopian tubes are soooo tiny!
Now, excitement of the day: DH and I went to get our remaining blood tests done (before IUI hopefully next cycle) and, well, DH has always told me he’s afraid of needles and in fact getting him to go to a doctor is about as likely COVID being over by August. Anyways, he PASSED OUT! 😱😱😱 And that’s after a bout of seizing and making ungodly noises. Scariest thing ever for me. I got called in/did my tests first and was patiently waiting for him in the waiting room when the phlebotomist called my name again. I rushed over and saw it all happen. He was so pale and clammy and sweaty. Anyways, after a while he came to and the 2 phlebotomists took him to the back area and had him lie down for 5-10 min while he recovered.
CS/Q: for anyone using Premom, what do folks think of the new user interface? Also temps are lower than normal this cycle. Not reading into it though since bbt interpretations is like reading tea leaves.
TTC #1 since 02/2020
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023
@asf0613 ugh I'm sorry your project start didn't go smoothly and you had to do so much damage control. Hopefully today is better and you get to your garden! I spent a decent amount of time this morning weeding bc the ground is so wet- things came right out!
@runningoncookies we're doing tacos tonight for dinner!! One of my favorites. Enjoy those margs!
@inthewoods23 yeah I'd be sanitizing my hands too, and probably wearing a mask for a bit too. If he's here for a week though I'd feel pretty comfortable by the end. I'd still keep 6 feet apart but wouldn't worry about the rest too much. Have fun! We have family out by Phoenix and one of them had classic covid symptoms in June but couldn't get a test. It's been crazy out there!
@gusgus14 sorry to see you over here! Being active every day definitely helps me mentally. I haven't been getting out every day bc the heat and I definitely feel the difference! Hope you can get out this weekend.
@acleverusername oh no for your poor DH! Is he feeling better now? Glad your HSG was not too bad. My initial consultation was last week on CD6 so I was hoping to get right in for the HSG, but they couldn't schedule me. My nurse told me yesterday she's going to keep checking the schedule to see if I can get in this cycle. They're still super backlogged from when procedures were cancelled in March/April.
@mamasloth yay for your positive OPK!! Get it!!
@DoubleUp8 so so sorry to hear you've been benched. I hope the time goes by quickly and you can get back in action soon. Hugs.
@inthewoods23 enjoy your salmon!! I've been never been to a Bonefish.
@_orchid_ I have 5 siblings (4 older brothers and a younger sister). We all get along great and are very close. We have several group chats and talk every day. I'm very lucky to have such a good relationship with my siblings. Hope you're able to relax and enjoy a quiet day today. Glad you're getting a break from the heat and humidity.
@priyadoc sorry you're missing your girls weekend. I probably would've made the same decision. I hope you enjoy your nice quiet day at home! Sounds like it'll be a good one!
@runningoncookies ooooh tacos and margaritas sounds amazing!! Hope the weather clears up!
@asf0613 thanks friend! It felt like forever at the time but it really did kinda fly by! Glad you're in a better head space today but I'm sorry to hear yesterday was a rough day at work. Hopefully damage control won't be too bad.
@gusgus14 sorry for AF. Sounds like you have a good plan going forward.
@acleverusername thanks friend. I'm still holding out hope that the governor will say no to schools opening. It just doesn't feel responsible. Another shutdown seems inevitable - I feel like we should work to have a better remote plan in action for when that evening happens rather than trying to force going back 100%. And woah! Glad YH is okay! How scary!!
@gingermama29 I think you all are doing all the right things to be able to enjoy spending some time together. Have an awesome time with family!
@mamasloth YASS girl, get it!
@DoubleUp8 That is so frustrating to take that long. I'm sorry you're going through this.
@inthewoods23 I think a couple of shrimp would be fine. Enjoy Bonefish round 2! I think it depends on the airline how crowded they are, but I think most of them are at least requiring masks now, so that's good.
@_orchid_ sorry AF symptoms are rough this week. Good luck with the labs and HSG, FX for an uneventful week next week.
@priyadoc enjoy some relaxation time. FX that O happens ASAP!
@runningoncookies YASS to tacos and margs! Have fun!
@asf0613 ugh, that sucks. I was hoping you were enjoying a well-deserved glass of wine last night. I hope you are able to wrap things up today and enjoy yourself this weekend.
@gusgus14 Sorry to see you in this neck of the woods. I hope you are able to get some answers, and hopefully peace of mind with the CD21 labs.
@acleverusername Oh my gosh! I'm glad your HSG wasn't too bad, and that the results were good. Your poor husband; that is rough!
Month/Cycle: 13/11
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, timing, OPKs, tracking CM, first Clomid cycle
R/R: My rave is that it's FRIDAY and it's our anniversary weekend! We can't really go anywhere because of COVID but we got sushi from our favorite place (where we had our first date) and since I haven't O'ed yet, we also have a couple bottles of wine in the fridge for the weekend. I usually make homemade grilled pizzas on Saturday, so that is the plan for tomorrow. I think DH got tickets for the arboretum, which is where we got married, so I'm excited about that. Mini rant is that I still have no EWCM...come on O!
CS/Q: Nope
Month/Cycle: not sure how to count this anymore, but 1/1 AL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: Tracking temps at this point, but I am not sure now if we should even try this month
R/R: TW loss
CS/Q: I actually remembered to take a temp today! So that makes one.
@gingermama29 I am legitimately jealous of your vacation. That sounds awesome! I am also jealous of your area, it sounds like you all are doing a great job. I had 4 patients of mine come back positive yesterday alone, so we are definitely still in the thick of it.
@mamasloth Gotta love the first positive OPK, always weirdly exciting!
@doubleup8 So sorry that you are dealing with all that. I hope they can get you better answers when you can get in.
@inthewoods23 The salmon at bonefish is always my go-to "fancy" meal when I am sticking to weight watchers. I hope you enjoy it!
@_orchid_ I am with you on the cramps, not fun. I have always loved the rainy overcast weather, I hope you enjoy it this weekend!
@priyadoc I also had to cancel a girls weekend in Portland in May of this year, and I am still annoyed about it. I hope you can do something fun this weekend to make up for it.
@runningoncookies Tacos and margaritas sounds wonderful, I hope you enjoy!
@asf0613 Gotta love how we need to manage the male half of this equation
@gusgus14 I hope that your annual can get you some answers!
@acleverusername Crazy about your husband! It happens so much more often than you would think.
@bbrahmbhatt Happy Friday! I hope you have a lovely day at the arboretum.
@DoubleUp8 I am so sorry you are benched
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: BBT, PNVs+, OPKs, HIO ED, pineapple core after O (if I can figure it out)
R/R: My sleep got interrupted so I have no idea if I have a temp spike!!! I was super productive this morning which is great but need a few things that keep being out of stock for our grocery pick up (generally go to the store once a month for a few things).
CS/Q: My first temp was at 5am when my temps are normally taken between 5:30 and 6am, so that didn't give me a "triangle" for being out of range. The first temp (5am) was 98.02 so a small jump and the second temp at 7am was wayyyyy higher at 98.43 (so I added a note). Will add my chart in spoiler from my phone but what do you think? It's been so long since my peak OPK (1.43) and I'm sick of HIO lol.
@inthewoods23 I love salmon, yum! But weird of your brother. I'm definitely not getting on a plane right now if I can help it.
@mamasloth yay for a positive OPK! Are you using the CB digitals or LH strips? This was my first cycle using them and I loved it lol.
@_orchid_ good luck with your testing next week! And enjoy relaxing
@priyadoc enjoy the extra time off and yay for O soon!
@runningoncookies glad OPKs are finally getting darker! Is your surge usually slow? I went from super low to somewhat darker in the evening one day and my peak the next morning. This is my first month using them and you all have been helping me so basically I know nothing except that everyone is different but slightly darker turned into a surge so fast for me I was shocked.
@asf0613 I'm glad you're in a better headspace and have a more sustainable HIO plan. I am your husband lol (although we were doing ED timing). I'm sorry that things out of your control are hitting the fan today but at least it's almost the weekend!
@gusgus14 sorry about AF. Hopefully not tracking is easing some stress.
@bbrahmbhatt Yay, happy anniversary weekend! Hopefully you can make use of this and O comes. Your plans for sushi, wine, and the arboretum sound so lovely
@fitzfizz sorry about the delayed test results/limbo and so sorry again that you're back here.
@_orchid_ Sorry about the cramps. I have been having them too and they are the worst. I hope your blood work goes smoothly tomorrow!
@priyadoc Sorry you are missing your girls weekend, but enjoy a nice quiet weekend at home. I hope you O this weekend and I hope we both get some answers from our doctors.
@runningoncookies Yes, all the tacos and margaritas!
@asf0613 I hope things get better at work, enjoy your weekend. Hoping DH hangs in there this cycle!
@gusgus14 Enjoy relaxing and focusing on selfcare. I hope your doctor can help.
@acleverusername OMG, is DH ok! How scary! Did they manage to get any blood?
@bbrahmbhatt Happy Anniversary! Enjoy your weekend staycation!
@fitzfizz I'm sorry the data is not in yet.
@kvh22 Yay for productivity! I had the same thought of calling next week to see if there are openings.
Thank you all for your support. This is really hard. DH is really sad, which I was a little surprised by since I was more excited to start trying than him. I guess it's a good sign he is on board. Ugh, cramps suck.
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
@acleverusername yay for a good HSG! But oh my gosh your poor husband! Hope he's feeling better now
@_orchid_ I think they finally mandated mask wearing, but I'm not sure if it's in effect yet? I don't know. DH was like, I google it and I get nothing about it. And it sounds like it's all worded as "should wear" vs "must wear". I think a lot of our counties are saying not to call about violations and the police won't be out enforcing it so it sounds like we're left to enforce it ourselves if we don't want people around us without masks.
@gingermama29 that sucks that your brother and his fiance won't be joining you!
@bbrahmbhatt happy anniversary! An arboretum sounds like an amazing place to get married! We got married at an audubon nature center on the lake so we got pictures in the woods and along the beach (lake beach, but a beach no less!). Nature is amazing.
@fitzfizz that sucks that your results got delayed. Do what makes you comfortable about trying. I'm very much a "want all the facts" person unless the missing information isn't super critical.
@kvh22 I'd keep with the 5am temp since that's pretty darn close to your normal temping time. Maybe keep note of the other temp though if that works better in the chart later
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
@acleverusername This is my second cycle using Mira. I find it really easy to use. I also think it's pretty accurate, since I've been testing with the clearblue digital opks as well, and the results have correlated. Last cycle it didn't catch an O - but based on the length of my cycle and the fact that I already knew I didn't O every month, I don't think that was inaccurate. I don't know if it's necessarily worth the cost but I love seeing the actual numbers - and H is very data-oriented so it's getting him involved in the process too. Now that I have a good indication that it's accurate, I'm going to stop using the clearblues and just use the Mira.
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@gingermama29 I am hoping the governor / school district both come to their senses and put a stop to this!
@bbrahmbhatt Happy Anniversary Weekend! I hope you get your EWCM and HIO the heck out of the weekend! Woooohooooooo.
@fitzfizz I will definitely have more sympathy for ppl who tell me they don't like needles or get queazy from needles. I am so sorry that your genetic results aren't back yet and I totally get your hesitation about trying before they come back. Listen to your body/mind and do what you think is best. Will be sending you lots of positive thoughts and hopes that those results come back quickly.
@kvh22 LOL @ "sick of HIO". A classic "You know you're TTPG when..." line. I hope you get that spike soon; show us your chart! Also, I hate it when FF "shames" you for not temping @ the normal time.
@DoubleUp8 yes, they managed to get _some_ blood, but I'm not sure if it's enough. They definitely didn't get as many vials as they were hoping but I talked to the phlebotomist and I guess she said that will make do? In any case, she said we'll be hearing from them if they need more. PRAYING that we won't have to repeat. And also, it's a good thing that I have a strong stomach. If our roles were reversed, this TTC thing would not work out.
@inthewoods23 pizza makes everything better for MH so yeah, he's doing MUCH better. But we had to go to the store to get pizza and I was NOT comfortable with him going on his own.
@priyadoc hmmm, that's a positive review. Maybe I'll get Mira, and return my Tempdrop.
@chindimples04 You know what needs to happen?! WE NEED TO GRADUATE MORE PPL so that there aren't so many in one or the other thread! Good luck to us all!
TTC #1 since 02/2020
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023
TTC #1 since 02/2020
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023