Me: 33 DH: 35 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
| biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22

DS born 7.19.22 after induction
Re: Healthy Habits Check-In w/o 2/24
What habits, goals, or resolutions do you have for yourself this year? Or which goal(s) are you focusing on this week? To move my body at least 5 days a week. Also, for TTC purposes: limiting sweets/no sugar, gluten-free & dairy-free diet.
How's everything going? I feel like they’re not going great but then my Fitbit report tells me otherwise.
What has you motivated or struggling this week? I have been feeling exhausted lately. Even after 8 hours’ sleep. But I’m making myself take a walk at sunset everyday as the bare minimum for movement.
What questions/help do you have/need to help you achieve your habits, goals, and resolutions? MH needs to stop being such a junk food addict & leaving all his pizza, pastries, & candy sitting out on the counter. Makes it hard to stay on my healthy diet!
What's a "small win" you have from last week? Although I only averaged 8,500 steps daily last week instead of at least 10,000 (and gained a couple pounds), I DID move my body all seven days last week! That was a big win. Some days I went to the gym for 30 minutes and did the evening walk for 30-45 minutes, so celebrating that & trying to improve on my step count this week. P.S. @kpearse99 I used your playlist from the IF thread as motivation to get moving when I wanted to sit on the couch. Thank you!
What habits, goals, or resolutions do you have for yourself this year? Or which goal(s) are you focusing on this week?
Gluten and dairy free diet, improving mental health
How's everything going?
I feel I'm being too lax with the diet. Like really I should try not having french fries at fast food places since they are often in the same fryer as chicken tenders, etc. I've been good about not eating something with gluten or dairy just for the sake of having something to eat. Like I did not eat dinner last night, because we don't have much in the house right now.
In other news, my therapy appointment is on the books for the 12th so yay! Looking forward to getting that started.
What has you motivated or struggling this week?
I'm motivated by the weight I'm losing! Definitely struggling because I'm traveling this weekend for a wedding and a robotics competition the following weekend so I REALLY hope I have good options for myself so I don't end up eating chicken tenders. I guess I'll just have to look like a loser eating just a hamburger patty 😟 whatever keeps the gluten and dairy away.
What questions/help do you have/need to help you achieve your habits, goals, and resolutions?
Nothing 🤷♀️
What's a "small win" you have from last week?
I opted out of having a pizza and went for salad instead at a restaurant where we were having a fundraiser.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
I hope your weekend food options aren’t too limited! You can always wrap the burger in a “ lettuce leaf bun” like all the low-carb people out there.
The tricky part is that brands are different in their ingredients for the same food. My favorite chips are salt and vinegar and I think it was Jimmy John's that has milk as an ingredient for their S&V chips, but the Lay's brand doesn't! I also swear I've checked the same bottle of BBQ sauce over and over. I'm slightly paranoid about accidently ingesting gluten or dairy in sauces and stuff! I should probably chill 😬 but it's hard not to be!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
How's everything going? I think it is going pretty well. I have a bunch of canned chicken, cream of chicken soup, and pumpkin that I am trying to eat up. So been looking up lots of recipes using those items.
What has you motivated or struggling this week?
Ash Wednesday and then Lenten Fridays have me a little off this week. I didn't take into account the fasting and no meat while meal planning. But my DH came home for lunch, so I made one of my meat dinners for lunch today.
What questions/help do you have/need to help you achieve your habits, goals, and resolutions?
Any suggestions for my food items? Chicken pot pie, chicken salad, and pumpkin chili have been heavy in rotation over here.
What's a "small win" you have from last week?
We decided to go out to eat after meeting with accountant about taxes. It was a late night and just knew cooking wasn't going to happen. Got BOGO wings and brought a serving worth home. Was dying to have Chickfilia the next day, so I used my points to get some fries and a drink. Then came home and ate them with the leftover wings. So didn't spend any extra money,a ate leftovers, and still satisfied the craving so I wouldn't lose it later.
Also pasta was 10 for $10 at the store and I didn't buy any. Normally I would buy a bunch of it. Last year I bought like literally 40 lbs of pasta and then found out we were moving. (I make a lot of casseroles for church, so pasta gets used up quick at our house- just not eaten by us).
@keikilove and @inthewoods23. Good job with the gluten free and dairy free. Hopefully after we move, our family will get better on both those accounts. Also awesome work with the exercise. I got a few walks in this weekend before the rain descended on us again.