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Re: TWW Thursday 10/31 🎃
Month/Cycle: 11/12
CD/DPO: 25/12 or 13
Timing: Either -1,O or O,+1
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Don’t worry guys, I took one more test today “just to be sure.” 🙄
R/R: Happy Halloween! I hope everyone is having better weather than we are for trick or treat tonight. It’s the only day of the year that I feel neighborly. The trick or treaters need to suck it up though so that I don’t have to eat all of the leftover candy. I can feel AF starting any minute so my next post will probably be in WTO, hope to see none of you over there!
CS/Q:
Edit to make sense
Month/Cycle: 5/3
CD/DPO: 54/13
Timing: -2, -1, O, +1
Typical LP length: 11-13 based on last cycle
Testing: WFAF
R/R: Happy Halloween! No AF yet so I'm still here waiting for her to show. School will be a sh*tshow of sugar and craziness today. But I'm looking forward to my students having a parade in their costumes. Tonight's weather is supposed to be crappy with 60 mph wind gusts and heavy rain. No idea how that will impact trick-or-treaters (we live in the village and get tons of kids every year). We failed at actually getting around to carving our pumpkins this year so I guess they'll just sit on our porch as fall decorations throughout November. Whoops.
CS/Q:
@gingermama29 your weather sounds worse than ours! I think the snow stops around 2 or 3 today, so it should just be cold during the trick or treat hours. But 60mph gusts and rain? Yuck! Those kids better have ponchos on over their costumes!
Month/Cycle: 28/23
CD/DPO: 35/6
Timing: -1, 0, +1
Typical LP length: 13 days
Testing: only if AF is late
R/R: I've been going back and forth about what to wear for a costume at work today and I've sort of randomly decided to be a backpacker. I have hiking boots and I'll just dress in a lot of layers and bring my backpack that is what I actually use as my carry on bag for flights. I'll stay warm for the weather. It'll be great lol.
CS/Q: still no solid CH but whatevs
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
@gingermama29 +1 to not actually getting around to carving pumpkins. It’s just so much work! Fall porch decorations for sure.
AFM:
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 23/7
Timing: -4, -2, -1, +1
Typical LP length: not sure
Testing: 10dpo
R/R: Happy Halloween! Shitty rainy weather will probably curb the number of kids at our door, but I’m just glad it’s not snow. Completely unrelated: I work a super part time job at a tennis club and one of my shifts is Friday nights. Switched with someone else this week so now I have Friday night with DH. I see a White Claw or two in my future
CS/Q: slight temp spike today
Month/Cycle: 5/4
CD/DPO: 41/10
Timing: -1, O
Typical LP length: no idea
Testing: WFAF
R/R: im trying to raise money for a playground at the local public school in my neighborhood and asked my state rep for help and she gave me some advice but I see that she’s helped another school get a grant and I’m like...why didn’t you tell me exactly what you told them? I think it’s making me feel a bit anxious because we have a lot of ground to cover in regards to raising money.
Month/Cycle: 18/11/2(AL#2)
CD/DPO: 32/15
Timing: Pretty good.
Typical LP length: 14-16
Testing: I’ll test again tomorrow and/or Saturday if AF doesn’t arrive before then.
R/R: Happy Halloween everyone! We are getting crappy weather for trick or treating too...pretty chilly and high winds! We normally sit out with our neighbors and pass out candy all together, but it looks like we’ll be in the house this year. We bought a huge bag of candy from Sam’s, so our trick or treaters may be getting handfuls of candy if there aren’t many of them!
CS/Q: None. Temp went down a bit, but it’s still pretty high...so who knows at this point!
@bows22 I’m so sorry for another BFN and that you feel like AF is on her way!! Sending hugs! 💜 I hope the weather doesn’t keep the trick or treaters away!! We’ve already decided we are splitting up any leftovers and taking them to work, because we do NOT need candy at home!
@gingermama29 hope AF stays away indefinitely! Also hope school isn’t too crazy!! A parade sounds fun for the kids though! You did better than us...we didn’t get around to buying pumpkins this year and our mums died while we were on vacation, so we have no Fall decorations! We will do better for Christmas though!
@inthewoods23 your costume sounds cute...and definitely warm, so that’s nice!!
@kmalls nice temp spike you got there! Sorry you have crappy trick or treat weather too!! Yay for having Friday night off with YH though!
@pocketrose good luck with the fundraising! That’s nice your state rep gave you some advice...maybe it wouldn’t hurt to reach out again to get some further help if you feel like you need it though.
@kmalls the pumpkins last longer uncarved, so extra fall decor bonus. Your chart looks great so far!
@pocketrose good luck with the fundraiser! I'm glad you were able to get input from your state rep.
@bluetickgal I'm crossing everything for you still. Sounds like we're going to have similar weather with the winds. Hope you still get plenty of trick-or-treaters!
Month/Cycle: 13/11/1 (AL #2)
CD/DPO: 17/3 dpiui
Timing: -4, -3, IUI +PM
Typical LP length: 14 with the medication
Testing: Beta on lucky 11/11!
R/R: I got a lot of much needed sleep last night, but man, I am still tired...also, holy bloated belly, Batman! It's a rainy day here, but thankfully it's supposed to stop raining for a few hours right around trick or treat time (and then we get hit with the storm), so yay!! I'm only working a half day today, so 2 more hours to go and then I get to go home!
CS/Q: nope!
@bows22 I love you, friend!!
@gingermama29 good luck with your crazy sugar filled students today!! At least they will be extra cute, right?!
@inthewoods23 I think that's a perfect costume! Especially to keep you warm! It's actually really warm here today, 73!! Which is crazy for us at Halloween time!
@kmalls yay for having Friday night off with YH!! We live on a main street, so we don't get a lot of trick or treaters to begin with, but I'm hoping we don't get any less than normal because I do NOT want to be stuck with all of this candy!!
@pocketrose I think it's amazing what you are doing!!! How fabulous!!
@bluetickgal oooooooo, friend!!! I am keeping everything crossed so tightly for you!!!!!!!!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
ive been here the past couple of days in spurts. I just haven’t had time to post and ghost!
@gingermama29 hope your students aren’t too crazy today! I actually wanted to keep one of our pumpkins in the porch through November but everywhere has sold out the big pumpkins so I carved it! Oh well, I still have a little one and a dead mum. 😂 sorry for bad weather! Everyone is having funky weather today!
@kmalls enjoy your night with DH!
@bluetickgal it sounds like everyone will be eating a lot of candy tonight! How did you get your RHR to go along your chart like that? I’ve been playing around with it and I cannot figure it out! Your chart looks good!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 23/13
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 12-14 days
Testing: WFAF, bfn at dpo
R/R: We’ll be doing Halloween this afternoon with our friends! After they’re done trick or treating they’re coming over for chilli and hot dogs and a Halloween themed dinner. The weather is also weird for us today. So far it’s the coldest day of the year. So if we go out we’ll have to bundle up! I’m going as a cat, kind of. I’m wearing ears and makeup and normal clothes. Lolol
CS/Q: small drop this morning, I’m hoping it’s because the weather is cold and we haven’t turned the heat on yet.
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Month/Cycle: 6/6 AL
CD/DPO: 27/12
Timing: N/A
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: WFAF
R/R: I decided to jump back into the dailies because I’m way too excited about my body’s behavior. I had zero spotting post O until today! AF should be here tomorrow or Saturday. But this is the first time in MONTHS that I haven’t had spotting on and off throughout the entire TWW.
CS/Q: Nothing exciting to see.
@bows22 Ugh, sorry about the bfn 😞
@gingermama29 that weather sounds awful! We didn’t get a chance to carve our pumpkins either but using them as fall decor is a great idea.
@inthewoods23 your costume sounds comfortable and functional. Which are the only kinds of costumes I like to wear 😂
@kmalls Enjoy your Friday night off!
@pocketrose Can you write her back and ask her for advice on how you can get a grant like the other playground did?
@bluetickgal Sorry for the crummy weather. If you do get any trick or treaters they’re gonna love you and your fist fulls of candy!
@kpearse99 Yay for a half day! Enjoy your short day and Halloween festivities!
@photographerwife Awww a Halloween themed dinner sounds fun! Enjoy!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: CD18/3DPO
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Typical LP length: no idea! Last month it was 13 days...
Testing: We’ll see if I can wait until November 10th...
R/R: my sister is getting married on Sunday! I’m so excited for her and to see my Dad who I haven’t seen since my wedding last June! It’s going to be a great weekend
CS/Q:


TTC #1 9/2019
@jtdamm2018 Oh a wedding weekend sounds wonderful!!! I hope you have so much fun!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
@inthewoods23 your costume idea sounds fun yet practical. I like it!
@tyrion_ yay for no spotting so far! That's an awesome improvement.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
@tyrion_ eek! Keeping fingers crossed for you!!
I guess I'm moving over here now even though I never pinpointed O day. Feeling hopeful, gotten some interesting vaginal cramps and low abdomen cramps TW
Going to test mid-week next week, probably Wednesday.
@kpearse99 the costumes are school were super cute! Sorry you're feeling bloated. Hopefully it's because you're KU!
@photographerwife I love you Halloween plans! I hope you had so much fun! Tell AF to stay away!!
@tyrion_ so glad to hear you've had no spotting during the TWW! I hope it has been a nice mental break taking this cycle off.
@jtdamm2018 have fun at the wedding this weekend!
@NamelessAria thanks friend. I'm not the magical unicorn this month though as AF showed up right before bed. FX you don't follow me over to WTO!
@mama_mea FX for you!