BFP - Dec 2015... Son born 2016, Traumatic Birth, coded on the table. Woke up 15 hours later. TTC - Jan 2018 - Hoping for a healing birth. Lupus diagnosis - Benched July - Oct MC - Jan 2019 Heart condition found, Lupus diagnosis reversed - Benched Jan - June 2019. TTC number 2, or coping with dealing one and done not by choice.