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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Monday 5/6
Month/Cycle: 10/9 (fourth cycle AL)
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, fertility tea, OPKs, first appointment with RE on the 23rd.
R/R: Kermit says it all this morning.
CS/Q: Nah. I had a glass or two of wine each night this weekend, so I think that explains the temp rises.
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: benched this month... BBT, OPK until I’m off the bench
R/R: back to work 😩 this weekend went way too fast, I have a paper to write for my masters degree class that I haven’t even started and is due at midnight... stressed to the core. But, teacher appreciation week is this week. And MH is currently cutting out things I laminated for school today. He’s a good teacher husband ❤️
CS/Q: nope. My chart is super weird AL. I can’t wait to have a normal looking chart again.
That's sweet that your DH helps you. My DH is also a teacher (different grade, different school) so needless to say, we spend a lot of time sitting on the couch together grading papers!
@ejoseph16 that’s so sweet of your H helping you out!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: OPK, CM, pre seed, PNV
R/R: This weekend pretty much sucked and I know next weekend is going to be rough too so I’ve really got nothing to look forward to for a while and it’s bumming me out today. Trying to just take it one day at a time. (This weekend we had to see my parents and I don’t have a good relationship with them so it was rough. Next weekend is with the ILs which I love but the timing of everything is really crappy so it’s going to be a pain.)
CS/Q:none
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: calling the RE for an appointment today
R/R: I chickened out of calling last week because I wanted to make sure I was onto cycle 6.
CS/Q: sigh... damn short LP
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Month/Cycle: 5/6
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: Nothing as DH and I are in different time zones now but hopefully we did enough
R/R: Had a really fun weekend in NOLA, now gearing up for my conference for the next couple of days. It will be a lot of information so hopefully will keep me distracted from thinking about if I O’d yet
CS/Q:
CD: 2?
WAYDTGKU: IVF cycle starts this month!
R/R: well, we couldn't get everything we wanted in the dumpster, but they had little care when tossing the deck into the dumpster. There was a lot of void space towards the bottom that were hard to get to or only small things could fit through the open space at the top to get down there. Didn't toss the old table and chairs like I wanted, so it'll just have to be donated.
In other (TMI) news... (Doesn't need a TW but it's gross so I'm protecting your eyes)
CS/Q: nope
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: prenatals, Ovia app, eod, cm, evening primrose oil, preseed
R/R: Such a nice weekend and it at least really looks like spring here today...I'm always cold so it could always be warmer for me but it is beautiful out. Also obsessed with this restorative yoga class I went to last night where the teacher handed out these "oracle cards" (like tarot cards) so we could like, meditate on them or whatever. Sounds silly but it was just so nice! I want to do it every Sunday evening now, I'm somewhat convinced it will transform me as a person and turn me into a relaxed dreamy earth mother/fertility goddess (ha.)
CS/Q: nope
@varimama sorry your weekends aren’t great. I hope you can find something fun to do this week to try to make up for it
yay @inthewoods23 so exciting that IVF cycle is here! that’s a bummer about the dumpster!
@whitealbum29 that’s so cool about the yoga class. I loved doing yoga, I should really get back into it. It’s hard to find the time but I always feel better/stronger!
@varimama Sorry your weekend sucked. One day at a time is a good way to take things!
@NYTino24 Hope you’re able to get the appointment and start making a plan!
@bows22 So glad you had a good time in NOLA!
@inthewoods23 Sorry things didn’t work as planned with the dumpster.
@whitealbum29 Oh that sounds like a fun yoga class! Restorative yoga is one of my fav ways to relax in the evening.
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Ava, Acupuncture, OPKs
R/R: So tired after a full weekend (3 days) at work. I just slept for 10 hours and now feel like crap. Here, coffee!! I got the date for my scope next month (so I can be “officially” diagnosed with Celiac), which is good since I was told I could be waiting months. But that means I need to add gluten back into my diet, so hopefully it goes ok.
CS/Q: nada
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
Month/Cycle: 2/1 AL
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture 1x/week, PNV, BBT, HIO 2 days on, one day off in FW & Pre Seed.
R/R: I love this point in my cycle. Seriously CDs 7-11 is my sweet spot. AF is gone, FW has yet to begin and TWW is in the distant future. There is ZERO crazy that happens from CDs 7-11 and I embrace it each month. Haha! I'm heading into NYC this afternoon and I look forward to wandering around Central Park. I miss the park in the spring! Can't wait to enjoy it today
CS/Q: Just started temping today for this cycle so there's nothing to see.
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@NYTino24 I'm so glad you're making an appointment with your RE! I hope you get some answers.
@bows22 NOLA sounds like a great time! What a wonderful way to keep your mind off TTC for a bit.
@inthewoods23 WAHOO! So excited for you!!
@whitealbum29 That yoga class sounds amazing. So many good vibes!
@misshelen86 Thinking of you. I hope all goes ok for you over the next few weeks!
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@misshelen86 I’m glad you don’t have to wait too long for your scope so that you can start making a plan!
@NYTino24 - Sorry for the short LP. Fx for your RE appointment.
@bows22 - Glad you had such a great weekend! Sounded like a lot of fun!
@puppylove8910 - Enjoy your non-crazy window!
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opks, temping, ff
R/R: I had really nice weekend. Got part of the house clean. Spent lots of time outside enjoying the sunshine and warmer weather. DH made some really tasty tri tip with his new smoker.
CS/Q: Nope
@whitealbum29 Anything that helps with relaxation is cool in my book!
@varimama I’m glad you got through the weekend. Hopefully you get a break before seeing them again!
Thank you @bows22 @puppylove8910!
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Will probably start temping again tomorrow and then all the things.
R/R: The sunny weather is much appreciated. The SAD has been at bay all day, even though I didn't get a lot of sleep and working most of today.
CS/Q: Nope
@ejoseph16 good luck on your paper and also big thanks to you as well for all you do ♥️
@varimama keep your head up! I hit slumps too. Wishing you brighter days ahead 🌻♥️
@NYTino24 hope your appointment goes well ♥️
@bows22 DH and I had the same problem last cycle! Sending you positive thoughts ♥️
@inthewoods23 woohoo!!! IVF !!
@whitealbum29 that sounds amazing!! I have been wanting to try out yoga ♥️
@misshelen86 glad you are able to get things done sooner. Hope all goes well ♥️
@puppylove8910 I’m so jealous you will be walking in Central Park! I haven’t been to New York in over 15 years! Have fun ! ♥️
@spacemountaineer mmmmm that sounds delicious 😋 been thinking about getting DH a smoker ♥️
@sorarose I hope you can get some more sleep soon