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WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, temping, OPKs, fertility tea, cutting down on alcohol, exercise
R/R: Where did the weekend go?? It's going to be a crazy week at school, but spring vacation is on the horizon!
CS/Q: Huge temp drop this morning but looking back at my other charts it's not unusual. I am pretty sure it's not my O-day temp dive because I have no other signs of O. And thus begins the BSC...
@emeraldduchess Hope your week goes quickly too! Do you have any plans for spring vacation?
@bows22 Yay for last week of crazy hours! Makes it hard when there’s so much tension.
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Ava, CM, OPK, SMEPish, acupuncture
R/R: After a busy weekend at work, I’m going to spend the day relaxing at the spa with my SIL and MIL. I have been feeling pretty stressed lately, so hopefully this helps me recharge!
CS/Q: nope
Me: 35 DH: 35 TTC since 9/2018
Dx: MFI 10/19- First RE visit 2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles 7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN 9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal 11/20- Mock transfer/ERA 12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN 3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021 12/21- Baby girl born!
R/R: I'm being such a debbie downer today that I feel it's necessary to put this in a spoiler in case people don't want to deal with my &%$# !!
In case anyone remembers my deluded chirpy hopeful and positive R/R from Friday about how I was excited to be heading into FW...um yeah, I'm in it now and so far it's not going that well. HIO didn't work either day this weekend, I think it was a combination of pressure/anxiety (even though I've been chilled out SO still caught on that it was the important days and I think it got in his head) and also he's just better with EOD rather than two days in a row (we did it Friday which I think may have been a day early). Also I think preseed is um...leaking out after I use it and it's confusing me because it looks like EWCM...or maybe I am actually seeing EWCM in which case I'm probably wrong about when I'm expecting O. Anyway I think next month I might give my brain a break from tracking things and trying to figure out FW and just do our very best to do EOD all month long. In positive news we do still have a couple days I think and we're not mad at each other over this weekend, just both stress cases.
@ruby696 - mild sunny spring days sound amazing! We have snow/frozen mix forecasted most of this week. I'm sorry for CD 1
@whitealbum29 - I'm sorry your FW didn't turn out like you hoped.
Is it just me or does it feel like most of us just don't have much to say this morning?
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD:11
WAYDTGKU: pnv, temping, rhr, FF
R/R: My brother is getting married at the end of the month and I realized I still haven't bought anything to wear. I didn't know if I was going to be pregnant and having to hide first trimester bloat and part of me was hoping to lose weight. I ordered some dresses from amazon and if those don't work I think I've got time to order to order from somewhere else.
@whitealbum29 try filling the Pre Seed applicator to either 1.5 or 2. Anything more than that tends to cause a slip and slide effect. Also, I'm sorry your HIO weekend didn't go as planned.
Me: 37 | H: 44 **TW**
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture 1x/week (Fertile window, 2x/week), PNVs, Pre Seed, CM tracking, BBT & HIO two days on, one day off since I'm not using OPKs
R/R: Oh my gosh! It feels like summer today. What a tease, but I am loving every minute of the warm weather and the sunshine. My FW starts tomorrow so we will begin to HIO two days on, one day off until I confirm O. No OPKs until a few months of trying because they really stress me out. So far I'm feeling relaxed. Hopefully, I stay that way!
CS/Q:
Me: 37 | H: 44 **TW**
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
@ruby696 I am so sorry you are back here. 💚 Lots of hugs to you, friend. @bows22 hope the work craziness is short-lived! I wish we were going somewhere for spring break, but since it's the same week as Easter, travel is more expensive than usual. Boo. But our wedding anniversary is next week, so we will definitely go out to celebrate! @misshelen86 I hope that you were completely pampered at the spa today. @whitealbum29 sorry the ttc stress is getting to you and your H. We went through that last cycle, too. I hope it gets better and you can chill. So much easier said than done, I know. @spacemountaineer I hope you find a cute dress. Please share pics if you can! @puppylove8910 good luck with timing!
And I would just like to say HOORAY MONDAY IS ALMOST OVER.
Re: WTO Monday 4/8
Month/Cycle: 9/8 (third cycle AL)
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, temping, OPKs, fertility tea, cutting down on alcohol, exercise
R/R: Where did the weekend go?? It's going to be a crazy week at school, but spring vacation is on the horizon!
CS/Q: Huge temp drop this morning but looking back at my other charts it's not unusual. I am pretty sure it's not my O-day temp dive because I have no other signs of O. And thus begins the BSC...
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Sex EOD and tracking CM
R/R: Last week of crazy hours at work! I am so ready to be done. Everyone is moody and it’s so annoying.
CS/Q:
@emeraldduchess I agree the weekend went soo fast. It was beautiful here though! Are you going away anywhere during spring break?
@bows22 Yay for last week of crazy hours! Makes it hard when there’s so much tension.
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Ava, CM, OPK, SMEPish, acupuncture
R/R: After a busy weekend at work, I’m going to spend the day relaxing at the spa with my SIL and MIL. I have been feeling pretty stressed lately, so hopefully this helps me recharge!
CS/Q: nope
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: Clomid, OPK's, Ovia, preseed, prenatals
CS/Q: nope
@emeraldduchess I hope your week flies by and spring break starts soon!
@bows22 I'm glad this is your last crazy week. I hope it goes by quickly!
@misshelen86 A spa day sounds wonderful. I hope you have a great time and are able to relax and let go of some of the stress while you're there.
@whitealbum29 How much preseed are you using? We barely use any - never an applicator full. Maybe less would be better?
Month/Cycle: 19/11
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: All the things and then some. Ava, FF, low dose aspirin, 4mg folic acid, Ubiquinol, maca, FSH injections, IUI, no alcohol and decaf.
R/R: I am so tired of rainy weather. It just won't stop. I need mild, sunny spring days!!
CS/Q: Nope
@ruby696 - mild sunny spring days sound amazing! We have snow/frozen mix forecasted most of this week.
@whitealbum29 - I'm sorry your FW didn't turn out like you hoped.
Is it just me or does it feel like most of us just don't have much to say this morning?
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD:11
WAYDTGKU: pnv, temping, rhr, FF
R/R: My brother is getting married at the end of the month and I realized I still haven't bought anything to wear. I didn't know if I was going to be pregnant and having to hide first trimester bloat and part of me was hoping to lose weight. I ordered some dresses from amazon and if those don't work I think I've got time to order to order from somewhere else.
CS/Q: nothing today
ttc #1 11.2017
dx: unexplained
letrozole + trigger + ti: bfn x 2
iui #1 9.25.2019: bfn
iui #2 10.23.2019; bfp 11.3.2019; edd 7.17.2020
dd 7.6.2020
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture 1x/week (Fertile window, 2x/week), PNVs, Pre Seed, CM tracking, BBT & HIO two days on, one day off since I'm not using OPKs
R/R: Oh my gosh! It feels like summer today. What a tease, but I am loving every minute of the warm weather and the sunshine. My FW starts tomorrow so we will begin to HIO two days on, one day off until I confirm O. No OPKs until a few months of trying because they really stress me out. So far I'm feeling relaxed. Hopefully, I stay that way!
CS/Q:
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@bows22 hope the work craziness is short-lived! I wish we were going somewhere for spring break, but since it's the same week as Easter, travel is more expensive than usual. Boo. But our wedding anniversary is next week, so we will definitely go out to celebrate!
@misshelen86 I hope that you were completely pampered at the spa today.
@whitealbum29 sorry the ttc stress is getting to you and your H. We went through that last cycle, too. I hope it gets better and you can chill. So much easier said than done, I know.
@spacemountaineer I hope you find a cute dress. Please share pics if you can!
@puppylove8910 good luck with timing!
And I would just like to say HOORAY MONDAY IS ALMOST OVER.