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PGAL Check-in w/o 1/30

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Re: PGAL Check-in w/o 1/30

  • @yoshi882 SO glad everything is fine with you and that you changed doctors! You definitely didn’t need to keep using an office that treats you that way when you call, already stressed out. 
  • @yoshi882 that’s great news!!!

    No ginger but i did have a sneaking suspicion that the B6 and unison combo that saved my life with my TW first pregnancy was somehow making me sick this time. I stopped it yesterday and today is already better. Who knows! 
  • @yoshi882 -- I'm so glad to hear that your LO is okay! And yay for dumping that OB and the hospital full of jerks. <3 I hope the new one is much better all the way around!
    ---
    ♥ Married since June 2009 ♥
    TW: Living children & Losses:
    Mom of sons "Alpha" (Feb 2012) & "Beta" (May 2016)
    Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
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  • @yoshi882 glad all is well and that you dumped that OB/office!!
    *TW*
    Me: 31 │ DH: 34 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 EDD 9/5/19 Please stick little one!!


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  • @yoshi882 I'm so sorry you had horrible experiences but I'm glad you advocated for yourself and got a new doctor! 
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  • I stumbled upon an article on Pinterest that talks about being pregnant after a loss. I’ll include it in a spoiler for your reading pleasure, I really enjoyed it. 


  • I want to thank all of you for your continued support and best wishes.

    **TW**
    Unfortunately I will not be completing this journey with you all as very early this morning we did lose the pregnancy. It was all very sudden, especially after having the u/s on Friday. We are not giving up hope and the doctor who compassionately guided us through this believes that we'll go on to have healthy pregnancies. 

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 
    sunshine2417rms924dolewhipper
  • @yoshi882 I am so very sorry. Sending so much love your way. 
    *TW*
    Me: 31 │ DH: 34 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 EDD 9/5/19 Please stick little one!!


  • @yoshi882 I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family. 


    Me: 29 │ DH: 34 
    TTC #1 since 12/16
    MMC dx @ 11w 6/18
    EDD 9/23/2019  <3


  • @yoshi882 my heart is broken for you. Pregnancy loss is so incredibly unfair. I hope you can take some time for yourself and your DH. 
  • @yoshi882 I am so very very sorry you're experiencing this. Please take care of yourself! I hope you get your rainbow very soon <3 
    STM - EDD 9/15 - Team Green <3 
  • @yoshi882 So sorry for you. Hugs to you today. 

    And now for my not so great update...
    A confirmed loss today for me. Details in a spoiler if you feel like reading more-- no pressure.

    No heart beat today at my 8 week u/s. Looks like bebe stopped growing around 6.5 weeks. We are obvs heartbroken, tho I am pretty numb at this point. Glad DH was there with me. I will be going in for a D&C Friday if bod doesnt figure it out on its own btw now & then. Here is to hoping we can try again soon-- I feel like I never knew how much I really wanted to be a Mom until I had my first loss, and I hope my bod will cooperate to someday make that happen for us. Thanks for all the support you each provided along the way. So much love to yall. 


  • @kagesstarshroom I am so so so very sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself. 
    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words are failing me right now. Sending you lots of love and strength today and for the days ahead. ❤️

    DS: 05.2017

    #2 EDD: 09.2019

    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom oh no. My heart dropped seeing this. I am so so sorry. I'll be thinking if you.  <3


    Me: 29 │ DH: 34 
    TTC #1 since 12/16
    MMC dx @ 11w 6/18
    EDD 9/23/2019  <3


    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom as soon as I saw your update I just started saying “no no no”. I’m so sorry! Sending you so much love and you will be dearly missed in this group.
    *TW*
    Me: 31 │ DH: 34 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 EDD 9/5/19 Please stick little one!!


    kagesstarshroom
  • @yoshi882 & @kagesstarshroom -- I am so, so sorry for your losses. <3 Sending love to both of you.
    ---
    ♥ Married since June 2009 ♥
    TW: Living children & Losses:
    Mom of sons "Alpha" (Feb 2012) & "Beta" (May 2016)
    Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom my heart is aching for you. I’m so very sorry. Take care of yourself ❤️
    kagesstarshroom
  • @yoshi882 & @kagesstarshroom sending so much love and healing to you both. This isn't fair
    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom I have been anxiously waiting for your update and am so so sorry to hear this. Big big higs and sending lots of love your way.  <3 <3

    Me 30 DH 31
    MC 1/4/18 @ 21 weeks 
    CP 5/6/18 @ 5.5 weeks
    MC 6/22/18 @ 6.5 weeks


    kagesstarshroom
  • @kagesstarshroom I’m so so very sorry😞 You will be missed. Take care of yourself. Sending hugs. 
    kagesstarshroom
  • @yoshi882 thinking of you. So sorry to hear this after that rollercoaster of events you endured. 
  • Had my U/S today at exactly 7 weeks. Just an empty 15mm gestational sac. He said to come back in 2 weeks. I feel like what's the point. I've been down this road before, my chances are pretty slim
  • @40momma I’m so so terribly sorry. I’m heartbroken for you 😔
  • @yoshi1230 and @kagesstarshroom I'm so so sorry to hear about your losses, what a struggle it is for a few of us to become mothers.

    @40momma my friend had the exact same thing happen last year at 7weeks 2days where there was no fetal pole, but by week 10 fetus was showing and heart beat strong, she went on to have a healthy baby boy. Fingers crossed for you!!

    What is everyone's coping mechanisms to get through the first trimester sane when the worry is always present? Having a tough time keeping positive this week and worried for my panorama test tomorrow..
    kagesstarshroom
  • I am gutted, @kagesstarshroom. Sending hugs and healing vibes your way.  I’m so sorry, lady. 

    @40momma and @yoshi882, I am so sorry for both of your losses. So heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 
    Me: 34 DH:38
    DS: 18 months   <3
    Dx DOR AMH .2
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    @40momma Did the sac measure 7 weeks or was that based on your LMP? At my first ultrasound I was 7 weeks based on my LMP and the sac was empty measuring 5 weeks. They had me come back 2 weeks later, and there was a baby and heartbeat. I ended up ovulating late so they changed my due date. Fingers crossed for you. Thinking of you 

    @kagesstarshroom so sorry to hear. Sending you hugs! 
  • @septoctkids I'm not really sure. He just said it measured 15mm. Looking on Google that shows 6 weeks but hope is such a cruel monster. 
    septoctkidssoralette
  • @40momma I am sending you all the positive vibes I can muster. I’m so sorry you’re in this awful limbo. Hugs.
    *TW*
    Me: 31 │ DH: 34 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 EDD 9/5/19 Please stick little one!!


    septoctkids
  • I just wanted to check in one last time to give my condolences to @kagesstarshroom and @40momma and to also thank you for all of your wonderful messages. It's definitely been a difficult couple of days. 

    Sending hugs and my best wishes to you all.
  • @40momma, I'm so sorry your ultrasound was stressful and uncertain.  I agree with you that hope can be a cruel monster, but I am hoping hard for you that the next ultrasound puts you right on track.  
  • @yoshi882 @kagesstarshroom I'm so so sorry :( Love and prayers to you both as you navigate this awful time.
    @40momma I'm hopeful that you were just early!! Fingers crossed! 
    @naveed7 thinking of you as you have your Panorama done today!! <3 


    naveed7
  • @40momma I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know hope can be a bitch, especially given history. Sending BIG BIG hugs

    Me 30 DH 31
    MC 1/4/18 @ 21 weeks 
    CP 5/6/18 @ 5.5 weeks
    MC 6/22/18 @ 6.5 weeks


  • @40momma My apologies, I read your post wrong. Sending plenty of positive vibes.
  • @40momma hoping that it's just early. FX that everything is ok. :heart:
  • @kagesstarshroom I am so very sorry for your loss. Hope you get your rainbow very soon <3 In the meantime, please do take care of yourself.

    @40momma praying that you were just a bit off on your estimated due date and that things look great at your next visit!! Is there anyway he'd see you next week to check for growth, rather than have to live in uncertainty for 2 straight weeks?
    STM - EDD 9/15 - Team Green <3 
  • Thank you for all of the kind words ladies. I'm bouncing back and forth between thinking this is my 4th loss, and hoping and praying that we will have a better outcome in 2 weeks. Of course Dr Google doesn't help my anxiety but I have done a ton of digging and found that those women with tilted uterus's (which I have) will often have troubles with earlier scans as it's hard to get the best picture even with a tv/us.

    I'm 7w1d based on my LMP. My symptoms are still there and if anything, ms has actually started to kick in just about 3 days ago. Still sore boobs and vivid dreams. No cramps and no more spotting. @MsBeachNJ he did say I could contact them with any questions so I'll give it a few days and if I'm still feeling pregnant with no bleeding, I'll see if I can get in for a scan next week. 
    soraletteMsBeachNJ
  • @40momma I had a similar visit today. I am measuring 2 weeks behind at only 6 weeks 1 day. So they said it is too early/small to say it is a MMC. I have to go back in 2 weeks for another US. I did get my levels checked today & have to go back Friday for another round of labs to see if numbers go up or down. I WANT to be hopeful, but it just doesn't look good to me. I am just so upset. I don't understand why or how this happens. It seems so unfair. 
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