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  • @prpl11butterfly Good thing she's cute! :lol:  The cute ones get away with so much. 

    Me: 32  MH: 36

    TTC since Dec 2017

    Aug '18: PCOS dx

    Nov '18: SA - 19mil

    Dec '18: Letrozole + TI - BFN

    Jan '19: 30lb total weight loss since Aug '18. Natural monitored cycle + TI - BFN

    Feb & Mar '19: Letrozole + TI, BFN

    Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN.  Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)

    May '19: Natural cycle. MH reaches 50lb weight loss since Jan '19. BFN.

    Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)

    Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol. (MH: 16mil)

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  • @b_1029 Ugh, I hear you.  That's so hard. There was actually a girl complaining loudly about being pregnant at the next table over from me at lunch today, and I had the same STFU thoughts.  I also finally had to ask my pregnant friend to stop telling me about her symptoms and her announcement ideas, etc.  I'm sorry your you time got ruined like that!  
    **TW**
    Me: 34 | H: 39
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS: Nov 2016
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19 at 12 DPO
    EDD: 5/3/19  *please stick, baby*


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  • @b_1029 That is seriously SO ANNOYING. I have two coworkers that are like that and it's just becoming irritating! 
    TW

    TTC #1 10 Cycles
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
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  • @b_1029 ugh, I am sorry you had to deal with that.  One of my friends has been doing daily(!) updates/complaints on social media. I had to hide her posts.
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP October Signature Challenge: Hocus Pocus, Betches!




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    @emeraldduchess daily?!!! Good grief! 
    married 10.2016
    ttc #1 11.2017
    dx: unexplained
    letrozole + trigger + ti: bfn x 2
    iui #1 9.25.2019
    galentine
  • My friend made a Facebook group about her pregnancy. 


    Me: 30 DH:32

    DD 3/11  

    MMC 2/12

    DS 1/13

    TTC #3 since 2/17.  Malignant molar missed miscarriage 8/22/17

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  • @b_1029 yup. Every day there are multiple updates about morning sickness, cravings, hormones, nursery decor...
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP October Signature Challenge: Hocus Pocus, Betches!




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    @holly321 I second @ruby696!!! That’s insane. People are so self absorbed. I can maybe understand a private one for like family to keep them updated, but otherwise...no. 
    married 10.2016
    ttc #1 11.2017
    dx: unexplained
    letrozole + trigger + ti: bfn x 2
    iui #1 9.25.2019
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  • @b_1029 Right? I mean sure, if something is going on, give me a call and let's talk. But I am not invested in anyone's pregnancy enough to need to be part of a FB group. I would probably be part if a FB group about toddlers. Toddlers are crazy. At least that would be entertaining 😂
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  • @holly321 that takes the cake.  
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP October Signature Challenge: Hocus Pocus, Betches!




  • kbrown2385kbrown2385
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    @holly321 for real?? 

    @cmdesigner first person fetus? :D What is up with these people?

    is it bad I’m ignoring my sister and all of her updates? I don’t want to go as far as asking to be removed from the family text message....but I just don’t care she’s on #2 right now 🤷🏻‍♀️. 

    Edit because I wasn’t finished
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  • @kbrown2385 Not bad at all. I would think the message updates would get old quick, especially if it's all routine info.
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  • @holly321 what in the actual fuuuuuu...? I can’t get over how self absorbed people are. 

    @cmdesigner @kbrown2385 LMAO at “first person fetus.” 
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    so, my friend actually did this last year after my last loss.  She came over to tell us she was pregnant and really brushed off my loss.  Then she made several rude remarks along the lines of “I don’t know how you do it!” In regards to raising my autistic children (one was improperly medicated and being a terror, but wtf?)
    I am still in the group because the absurdity of it amuses me.

    Me: 30 DH:32

    DD 3/11  

    MMC 2/12

    DS 1/13

    TTC #3 since 2/17.  Malignant molar missed miscarriage 8/22/17

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  • @holly321 Wow. I'm at a loss for words, which doesn't happen often.
  • @holly321 yeah she sounds like a horrible friend... :disappointed:
  • @holly321 wtf that is insane. Some people just don't get it. 

    @kbrown2385 honestly it is a little crazy to me that your sis feels the need to update everyone so much. I can see quick texts after big appointments to tell the group everything is okay, but beyond that is too much IMO. Especially since she is on #2. I don't think being annoyed makes you a bad sis at all.


    Me: 29 │ DH: 34 
    TTC #1 since 12/16
    MMC dx @ 11w 6/18
    EDD 9/23/2019  <3


  • @holly321 that is truly terrible that she said those things to you.  :(  

    @kbrown2385 I don't think it's bad at all. I know I wouldn't want to be part of a group message that was about someone else's pregnancy, family or not. 
    TW
    I just hid a few people on social media, including family, because I just don't want to be bombarded with pregnancy updates or pics of their newborn. Sometimes you have to put yourself and your feelings first. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP October Signature Challenge: Hocus Pocus, Betches!




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  • @emeraldduchess I definitely muted notifications for a while in a group chat that includes all of my mom's side of the family because of an announcement. It hurts to read all the congratulations for someone else.
    TTGP October Siggy Challege - Hocus Pocus, Beeches!


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained but low morph

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19....BFN
    "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"

    FET #2 - Tentatively January 2020 after loss, ERA, and Receptiva testing 


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  • kbrown2385kbrown2385
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    @emeraldduchess that’s why I deactivated my fb. I needed a break from it all! All the announcements around the holidays just sent me over.

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    As for my sister, I don’t think I’d be as annoyed if she didn’t FaceTime me to tell me she was pregnant. Especially after us talking about how I’m finally going to see an re after my 5 losses the night before. I have zero control over my facial reactions and it just ended terribly. 

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  • @kbrown2385 I am so sorry you had to go through that. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP October Signature Challenge: Hocus Pocus, Betches!




    kbrown2385
  • I just got a call from someone looking for my grandfather.... he died 20 years ago. I know it's an honest mistake but makes me wonder what the heck kind of contact list this company has for cold calling people. Also, this is his business number soo.... *shrug* The guy was suuuper apologetic lol. 

    Me: 32  MH: 36

    TTC since Dec 2017

    Aug '18: PCOS dx

    Nov '18: SA - 19mil

    Dec '18: Letrozole + TI - BFN

    Jan '19: 30lb total weight loss since Aug '18. Natural monitored cycle + TI - BFN

    Feb & Mar '19: Letrozole + TI, BFN

    Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN.  Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)

    May '19: Natural cycle. MH reaches 50lb weight loss since Jan '19. BFN.

    Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)

    Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol. (MH: 16mil)

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  • Are there any ultra runners in the group? I recently read "Reborn on the Run" - fantastic book. I mostly run shorter distances but would love to run a 50K or 50miler this year.


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  • @cdnrunning, I am an ex-runner (have serious health issues eg ehlers danlos) and was told to stop running.  I have been trying to run a bit here and there lately.

    Me: 30 DH:32

    DD 3/11  

    MMC 2/12

    DS 1/13

    TTC #3 since 2/17.  Malignant molar missed miscarriage 8/22/17

  • @holly321 I've had to stop numerous times because of surgery, life, whatever. Sometimes, even when I'm going slower than molasses, it's still just the same amazing feeling!



  • @cdnrunning, I have been trying to walk on the treadmill regularly and hate it, so I keep sneaking in short runs when Dh isn’t home to fuss at me.  

    Me: 30 DH:32

    DD 3/11  

    MMC 2/12

    DS 1/13

    TTC #3 since 2/17.  Malignant molar missed miscarriage 8/22/17

  • @holly321 I feel ya with the treadmill. Yuck!! it's so hard to stay focused and interested.


  • @cmdesigner Arie and Lauren (from the TV show the bachelor) do that and then keep up the whole first person thing in the comments. It's really bizzre.
  • DH is on yet another business trip. I need a good rom-com or teen love story (ie The Fault in Our Stars which is qued for tonight). What's good on Netflix?
  • @kiki047 ; I cant stop laughing at your cat licking armpit hair! My cat gets made every morning at 5:30 am that the dogs have drained the water bowl, so she sits on my nightstand and knocks my water bottles, thermometer, book, etc. off until I get up and refill it. Its hilarious and annoying.



    kiki047
  • @prpl11butterfly Super cheesy but have you seen To all the boys I’ve loved before?
    TTGP October 2019 Siggy Challenge- Hocus Pocus, beeches!

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  • @prpl11butterfly Dumplin" on Netflix  :) :) :)

    Me 30 DH 31
    MC 1/4/18 @ 21 weeks 
    CP 5/6/18 @ 5.5 weeks
    MC 6/22/18 @ 6.5 weeks


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  • @prpl11butterfly Oh my god, I bawled so so so hard at that movie.  I'm currently watching Gossip Girl because I didn't watch it when it was on.  Definitely teenage drama, and makes for good mindless watching.  Love Actually is always good.  I just watched it because it's one of my annual holiday movie traditions, but MH has zero interest in it.  I'm not big on rom-coms in general, so I don't have a ton of recs.
    **TW**
    Me: 34 | H: 39
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS: Nov 2016
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19 at 12 DPO
    EDD: 5/3/19  *please stick, baby*


  • @cdnrunning ; I run... and do triathlons. I did a 70.3 last year. I am aiming for a marathon this year, I would eventually like to do an ultra, but right now training for a marathon seems unrealistic, much less 50 MILES! 

    @prpl11butterfly ; Have you watching Dumplin or Birdbox? I really enjoyed both. Dumplin was amazing. Also, if you have not seen these rom coms on Netflix they are both great. The Kissing Booth, To All the Boys I have Loved Before.



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