I've had three miscarriages in the past year and a couple months..my most recent being in September. I'm trying to to even begin to get my hopes up though. I ovulated on Black Friday (the 23rd), and my period was due on December 7th. On December 1st, I started spotting a little...enough to use a panty liner. I told my husband that I was thinking my period was about to start, but it was weird for it to be a week early. This spotting lasted from Dec 1st-4th (first and last day light spotting, day 2 & 3 a little bit more and brown/pink). I started doing some research on implanation bleeding and from what I've read, it can occur anywhere from 6-10 days DPO. December 1st was 8 DPO, so right in the middle. It only makes sense right? I took a dollar store test this past weekend and that is what is in the first picture. Am I crazy? Blind? Both? Hubby swears he can't see anything and that it was an evap line, but he's the type that wants to see two solid lines before he believes anything, especially after 3 losses. To me it looks to be the same thickness as the control line. The last pic was taken yesterday (the 10th). The last three pregnancies I was at least starting the 5th week when I got a positive test, based on calculations right now I would be at 4 weeks 4-6 days pregnant. I feel like I should definitely keep testing as long as I don't have a period!
Reported, QFP minus pics
I don't have energy for this garbage
Me: 35 DH: 28 TTC since June 2016 Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016 AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017 Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017 October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total) Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen 12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP 2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone Abnormal SIS Oct 2018 Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis. 12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN Our journey has come to an end.
I've had three miscarriages in the past year and a couple months..my most recent being in September. I'm trying to to even begin to get my hopes up though. I ovulated on Black Friday (the 23rd), and my period was due on December 7th. On December 1st, I started spotting a little...enough to use a panty liner. I told my husband that I was thinking my period was about to start, but it was weird for it to be a week early. This spotting lasted from Dec 1st-4th (first and last day light spotting, day 2 & 3 a little bit more and brown/pink). I started doing some research on implanation bleeding and from what I've read, it can occur anywhere from 6-10 days DPO. December 1st was 8 DPO, so right in the middle. It only makes sense right? I took a dollar store test this past weekend and that is what is in the first picture. Am I crazy? Blind? Both? Hubby swears he can't see anything and that it was an evap line, but he's the type that wants to see two solid lines before he believes anything, especially after 3 losses. To me it looks to be the same thickness as the control line. The last pic was taken yesterday (the 10th). The last three pregnancies I was at least starting the 5th week when I got a positive test, based on calculations right now I would be at 4 weeks 4-6 days pregnant. I feel like I should definitely keep testing as long as I don't have a period!
Not in the mood for this today. Take five minutes to read the rules of this board and you’ll see you aren’t allowed to post pictures of things you’ve peed on here or ask us if you’re pregnant.
@coreyblack17 it's literally at the top of the page where you would've clicked "new discussion". No one is discounting your losses and I'm sorry you went through that. This just isn't allowed here.
If you aren't pregnant and decide to stick around, you'll find this is a great group of women who are very supportive of each other.
Thank you for that response! I will check them out. As someone new to message boards/forums I don't know all the ins and outs. But people's rude comments are unnecessary at times. A simple "make sure you read the rules" would have been all they had to say. Sad.
Don't try to pull the pain Olympics card, @coreyblack17. You have no idea. You're the one who decided not to read the rules.
Me: 35 DH: 28 TTC since June 2016 Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016 AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017 Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017 October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total) Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen 12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP 2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone Abnormal SIS Oct 2018 Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis. 12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN Our journey has come to an end.
I'm not pulling ANY card? I'm so sorry I just clicked on post discussion and didn't see anywhere that said rules on the page I was at. If I don't even know there are "rules", how am I supposed to read them? Had no idea there were any until people started being rude! So unless you can tell me how to delete this whole post, don't be an asshole.
Oh, I see we're playing the loss game. Well OP, many of us, including myself, have had it a lot worse than you. So don't come in here and pull that crap. Andplusalso, as a loss mom, I still don't want to see your pee stick and reassure you.
@coreyblack17 Sorry for you losses. This forum is a bit different than other. The community here is very tight and very supportive of each other who participate in it every day. It would be hard to ave such a community if the forum was full of one off posts. We're happy to welcome you in, as long as you read the rules (where it says READ THIS FIRST). Sorry for your losses and I hope this is your rainbow.
Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC put on pause
When the shoe fits, wear it. I'm trying to find a way to delete this post and all the negative that came with it. I understand wanting to let someone know they messed up, but there's a nice way to say it. Like I said, when I didn't see anything about "rules", I'm not a mind reader.
Not a mind reader but are you a reader at all? lol. I understand that you're excited for a potential pregnancy but it's the equivalent of bursting into a room of strangers, asking if you're pregnant, and then getting pissed off when you don't get the reaction you want. I don't think reasoning will work here though. We're just a bunch of snobby assholes
When the shoe fits, wear it. I'm trying to find a way to delete this post and all the negative that came with it. I understand wanting to let someone know they messed up, but there's a nice way to say it. Like I said, when I didn't see anything about "rules", I'm not a mind reader.
Sorry for your loss OP, but you really should familiarize yourself with the rules and TOU. If you're wanting opinions on your tests, you can only post them in this thread.
How am I playing a loss game? I didn't come on here asking for any type of pity from anyone. I KNOW there are women who have suffered worse than me. I would love to know HOW I made it seem like I was wanting sympathy? For women who are supposed to be "a great community", you guys sure have no problem attacking another. I made an HONEST mistake. I didn't know there were rules. Plain and simple. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has made this mistake and trust my I'm trying to delete it.
@themadcamel Thank you, I really appreciate you being nice and saying I need to familiarize myself with the rules. I'm realizing now, after the fact, that I should have. What I don't understand is multiple people feeling the need to jump down my throat about it. I guess they have never made a mistake in life. Thank you, I will check that thread out!
How's everyone doing on their bingo cards? I think I'm just waiting for a GBCB.
Me: 35 DH: 28 TTC since June 2016 Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016 AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017 Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017 October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total) Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen 12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP 2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone Abnormal SIS Oct 2018 Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis. 12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN Our journey has come to an end.
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coreyblack17
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Re: Line eyes please!!
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
If you aren't pregnant and decide to stick around, you'll find this is a great group of women who are very supportive of each other.
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
Also, don't call anyone here an asshole.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
I don't think reasoning will work here though. We're just a bunch of snobby assholes
Sorry for your loss OP, but you really should familiarize yourself with the rules and TOU. If you're wanting opinions on your tests, you can only post them in this thread.
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.
Please note that we remove posts that do not follow our guidelines and will issue warnings to users who violate the Terms of Use.
To review our Community guidelines, please visit The Bump Guidelines pinned at the top of this board. Thank you.