@professormama that was our discussion last night lol:
DH: yea, it'd be awesome, she can chill on my chest all day while I play games and stuff.
Me: that's a really pretty delusion you've dreamed up
@sheknows6 and @professormama when DH told his boss that we were having twins, his boss immediately said "Oh so your wife is going to quit her job and stay home?" DH laughed and told him no, if anyone did, it would be him. I currently out earn him, have more room for advancement, and carry better benefits. Plus, I think he would enjoy it more, though I'm sure our house would be constantly a wreck.
That's the part I don't think DH understands; I am fine to come home and do the cooking still, but if he wants to be the SAHD he has to clean, run the errands, and take care of the baby. He thinks it's just taking care of the baby.
While we'd end up losing some $, it'd still be worth it considering once I'm hired on I'll have way better benefits, I already outearn him, and more growth potential. Same situation basically. I told him we'd revisit the idea once I'm hired and no longer contracting.
Me: 29 DH: 30BFP #1: 3/16/2016 MC 12w5dBFP #2: 1/25/2018 MC 4w3d