PAGING:
@aeb1116: dx: unexplained Rx: IUI
@allisona66: dx: waiting for testing
@amac2313: dx: unknown Rx: Clomid
@Asampson87: dx: unexplained + MFI Rx: metformin + testing
@BWhitta: dx: PCOS, low AMH and endo Rx: letrozole
@Bababatty: dx:Low Motility Rx: IVF
@Bgreenfield10: dx: anovulatory PCOS, LPD Rx: Clomid + trigger
@Brooke4131: dx: Secondary unexplained Rx: in testing
@BenJay: Dx: PCOS/unexplained Rx. Metformin + supplements
@beec2421: dx: PCOS, hypothyroidism Rx: metformin, synthroid, clomid
@bbtobumpie - dx: irregular cycles, in testing. Rx: pending.
@ChristinaV2015: dx: blocked tubes, PCOS, endo + MFI Rx: lap, OPKs + TI
@ChristenMA83 : dx: MFI Rx: IVF w/ISCI
@Charligirl28: dx: unexplained Rx: Clomid
@courtneyh2013: dx: MFI Rx: IUI + clomid
@drewsdarlin: dx: RPL, PCOS, Hashimotos, low vitamin D and Iron RX: ?
@echocharlietango: dx: Unexplained Rx: trying naturally
@emgem819 dx: PCOS, Rx: provera, femara + Bravelle
@emmasemm: dx: DOR & autoimmune Rx: IVF
@eranvo27: dx: anovulatory PCOS Rx: metformin
@floridanursegirl: dx: unexplained anovulation Rx:Metformin, IUI+Femara+trigger
@fluffybookworm: dx: Anovulation + insulin resistance Rx: Metformin + prometrium + testing
@funkykey dx: unexplained Rx: IVF
@hannahlce: dx: anovulatory PCOS Rx: metformin + letrozole
@Happyin14: dx: unexplained, RPL Rx: IVF
@inthewoods23 - dx:MFI. Rx: pending.
@jrm_14: dx: Adrenal/overian insufficiency, Borderline-low AMH, Low progesterone Rx: IUI w/ injectables.
@jmr1515: dx: Mild MFI/morph, fibroid Rx: Surgery + TI
@kgabhart: dx: Unexplained/PCOS Rx: letrozole + IUI
@Kate437: dx:anovulatory Rx:Letrozole + trigger
@Knottie1467155066: dx: unknown Rx: letrozole + trigger + TI
@kls2016 - dx: in testing. Rx: pending.
@ladystout08: dx: unknown Rx: waiting for testing
@leafyarch: dx: MFI, no thyroid Rx: IVF
@linz36: dx: Low AFC, MFI Rx: testing/IUI
@manhattanmama2: dx: unexplained Rx: IVF
@mirabelle33 dx: DOR, possible endo Rx: TBD
@meganttc3: dx: PCOS, unexplained Rx: waiting to test
@mrsjcrane: dx: unexplained Rx: femara + trigger + TI + 2nd HCG booster
@mighty-mouse: dx:pcos & HA Rx: provera/letrozole + trigger
@mackenzie07 dx: PCOS and Endo Rx: metformin, letrozole, ovidrel
@MicahDahn: Dx: irregular cycles Rx: preparing for testing
@moloninge Dx:PCOS, hypothyroidism, insulin resistance, fibroids. Rx:Metformin,Synthroid,IUI w/letrozole, ovidrel, and progesterone.
@mandasand: dx: low AMH Rx:IVF (Lupron, Menopur + Follistim)
@Mythril: dx: PCOS (anovulatory) Rx:levothyroxine, metformin and femara + TI
@nurseerin2012: dx: unexplained Rx: letrozole + IUI
@oklahomak: dx: PCOS Rx: metformin/letrozole/estradiol/progesterone+ trigger
@rachlee2010: dx: DOR Rx: IUI
@rmarble23: dx: MFI Rx: IVF
@Samanthaarielxo dx: anovulation Rx: still in testing
@sarah0985: dx: PCOS, possible blocked tubes Rx: Lap
@SM746830: dx: PCOS, blocked tubes Rx: Surgery, Clomid
@starlitfae dx: MFI & balanced translocation, thyroid Rx: ivf with pgd testing
@SP128: in testing/unexplained
@serownarain: dx: in testing
@sarahven dx:anovulation and PCOS. Rx: femara
@sincethelastday - dx:irregular cycles, low morph. Rx: Femara.
@sailorariel - dx: fibroids. Rx: fibroid removal surgery.
@wishing-and-hoping: dx: unexplained rx: poss. IVF
@Worldtravler0522 dx: PCOS/Unexplained Rx: IVF
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Re: TTTC Checkin 10/29/18
@inthewoods23 - I find if I tell my clinic ahead of time that I may be travelling, they are ok to schedule if I call on CD2. FX for you that you can work something out.
@ChristenMA83 - hooray for CD1!
@mirabelle33 - AWESOME NEWS!!! So happy for you! Keeping fingers so crossed for your beta!
QOTW: I want to say something smart, but I'd likely just do Beyonce, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, because I'd want the ratings.
@emmasemm - how did Friday go? Were you able to continue on with this cycle? Sending good vibes your way!
@ChristenMA83 - good luck at your baseline tomorrow!! And, yeah, it sucks about getting BFNs; just getting the confirmation from others that it sucks is helpful in a weird kind of comradery way, so thanks!
@mirabelle33 - thanks for the kind words! I am feeling better now and just busying my time with visiting friends and family and organizing the house while DH is away (distractions really lol). I’m impatient to get going with the second round of Letrozole, but trying to enjoy just the break (being able to have a glass of wine has been nice )
Oh, I am so happy for you that you were able to proceed with both the retrieval and transfer this cycle. I know you were really nervous it wasn’t going to happen, so definitely this is a victory! And I hope it continues to be an even better victory with your “supermodel” embie!! Sending you a bunch of good vibes during this waiting period before Nov 6th! I hope the waiting doesn’t drive you nuts and you find some nice distractions in the mean time!
AFM: nothing new here. DH is back in three weeks and AF should be around when he gets back, so two good things at once will be nice (yeah, I did just say that getting AF would be nice *eye roll*)
QOTW: ohh, that’s a hard one. In the spirit of Halloween, maybe some horror icons like Stephen King. I’m a huge horror movie/TV/book nerd, so could totally talk their ears off lol.
@mirabelle33 small victories are what keep us moving fwd! how are you handling the TWW?
For any newcomers, I feel so silly for battling alone for the past few years when so many IF warriors have extended such a warm welcome so please come join us.
Quick intro (more in spoiler below) I have hypothyroidism+endo, have gone through multiple failed IUIs and 1 IVF cycle. I'm also obsessed with supplements and acupuncture so feel free to ask about any of the above or anything else!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@mirabelle33 I'm so glad you got to transfer!! Fingers crossed this one supermodel embaby is the one for you!! November 6 will be here in no time.
QOTW: Johnny Depp because he was my first love, Ellen because she's hilarious and Paul McCartney because he's a legend I would love to meet and a great musical guest.
TTC History in spoiler Instagram
Married Oct 2007
TTC Since Oct 2010 - MFI Diagnosis 2012 (Morphology 1% + High DNA Frag)
IUI x2 in 2012 - BFN
IVF #1 Feb 2018 - 9 Retrieved - 8 Mature - 5 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
FET#1 March 2018 - BFP - MMC May @ 10w4d
FET#2 July 2018 - BFN
IVF #2 Nov 2018 - 10 Retrieved - 10 Mature - 8 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@mirabelle33 - I'm still thinking of you and sending lots of good vibes your way. Hope the TWW isn't too agonizing!
@sincethelastday - I cannot handle horror at all! I would love to watch people nerd out on it, though - I'd find that a little more calming that reading Stephen King alone.
Although, that being said, I do love me some true crime.
@autumnlvs - when is your second beta?
@inthewoods23 - I'm sorry, I'm totally lost - I'm sure you've shared this and I've just lost it. Are you starting treatments this next cycle? Will you do an IUI + clomid?
@ChristenMA83 - GREAT NEWS! 17 follies is awesome! When will you start stimming?
@Bababatty - thinking of you, sending you lots of love.
@Worldtravler0522 - thinking of you too, hope all is going well! xoxoxox
AFM: Looks like I'm going to transfer on Sunday. I can't quite believe it. I decided not to hope on the Nov FET board this month. I'm feeling a little more shy this time round- maybe I'm just going through the motions, or something.
What's typical for the first cycle after blood work?
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
TTC History in spoiler Instagram
Married Oct 2007
TTC Since Oct 2010 - MFI Diagnosis 2012 (Morphology 1% + High DNA Frag)
IUI x2 in 2012 - BFN
IVF #1 Feb 2018 - 9 Retrieved - 8 Mature - 5 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
FET#1 March 2018 - BFP - MMC May @ 10w4d
FET#2 July 2018 - BFN
IVF #2 Nov 2018 - 10 Retrieved - 10 Mature - 8 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
@christenma83 that sounds like a perfect number of follicles!
@Worldtravler0522 @bababatty also thinking of you both
@sincethelastday when you’re not in treatment you dread AF arriving, when you’re in and especially waiting to start you celebrate AF arriving! For me it also signals I’m still ovulating which is always a relief!
@autumnlvs I seem to have an ever increasing list of auto immune conditions - is your hypothyroidism caused by an auto immune issue? Especially if you have endo too this would make me suspicious...
We just talked to the doctor and finally decided to cancel this IVF cycle.
I just wish we’d done it a week ago...
We have one 20mm, a 14mm and a 6mm follicle. We need follicles over 24mm to get mature ones so no chance to get more than one as if the 14mm is ready then the 20mm will be fried...
Will trigger to avoid an endless cycle, and of course we will give ourselves a chance naturally though chances are super low as I also had my annual thyroid testing today - and TSH is down to 0.16... it’s always been above 0.8 before which was low but stable. Now I need an appointment with my family doctor to get some meds ASAP...
Biggest problem with my follicle development is the two blood and tissue filled sacks left over from last cycle. They have both stayed around 15mm and take up more than half of my left ovary... We’re hoping the trigger might “pop” them if not we might have to have them drained... and need to navigate the next cycle to avoid the annual lab closure...
Married 12/2016
TTC #1 since 04/2015
AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
7 retrievals, 3 transfers
Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
Feb18 - second opinion and additional testing
Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
May/Jun18 IVF4 - 4ER, 0M, 1F, 1 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - 5 ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - 4ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (good quality)
Aug/Sep18 IVF7 - cancelled (cyst)
Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
Oct18 IVF8 - Cancelled (cyst and too low TSH)
Oct18-Jan19 bringing TSH under control
Feb19 ERA and hysteroscopy
Mar19 Investigation for fibroid and adenomyosis
Apr19 adenomyosis confirmed, polyps removed
Jun19 FET after 2 months Lupron, autoimmune protocol, transferred two day 3 frozen embryos
Nov17 IVF2 - Pergoveris 2-14 Nov, Orgalutran 5-14 Nov, Ovitrelle 15 Nov, ER 17 Nov for 3 follies, 1 mature egg, did not fertilize
Jan18 IVF3 - Pergoveris 30 Dec - 8 Jan, Orgalutran 5-8 Jan, Ovitrelle 9 Jan, ER 11 Jan 3 eggs, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, ET 1x 4d 12-cell embryo 15/01, 24/01 BFN
May/Jun18 IVF4 - Rekovelle 25-29 May, Menogon 30May - 2Jun, Zomacton 25 27 29 31 May and 2Jun, Cetrotide 30May - 3Jun, Gonasi 3Jun, ER 5Jun 4 eggs, none mature, two matured overnight, 1 fertilized with ICSI, Frozen day 3 but not good quality
Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - Rekovelle 21-24 June, Menogon 25Jun-3Jul, Puregon 4-5Jul, Zomacton 21 23 25 27 29 Jun, Cetrotide 25Jun-5Jul, Gonasi 6Jul, ER 8Jul 5 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 but not good quality
Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - Rekovelle 26-29 Jul, Menogon 30Jul-7Aug, Buserelin 26Jul-7Aug, Zomacton 26 28 30 Jul 1 3 Aug, Gonasi 7Aug, ER 9Aug 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized (normal IVF), 2 frozen day 3 good quality
Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - Menogon 19-30Sep, Buserelin 19-30Sep, Zomacton 19 21 23 25 27 Sep, Ovitrelle 1 Oct, ER 3 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 excellent quality
Fav Quote: The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return
I do think it's autoimmune based on family history. My prolactin was really high for a long time with borderline thyroid testing before my new RE started me on synthroid - they didn't test for antibodies though. Are you on an autoimmune diet (AIP)? I found this endo supplement protocol from a NY RE in combo with NAC cycling from the Italian trial really decreased pelvic pain tremendously.
@funkykey 2nd beta in the Oct FET spreadsheet FX and sticky vibes this week - lots of pineapple core, pom, avocados and warm foods/feet!
ChristenMA83 wishing you a peaceful cycle with lots of follies!
@inthewoods23 it may not be too tight but it's important to have a baseline and address any other issues (we started with a dx of MFI and then found about my endo/thyroid later). My RE does bloodwork on day3/4 (not open on the weekends) and starts clomid/femara day 4/5 for about 5 days. They'll continue to monitor your response with ultrasounds and blood tests and may start you on estrogen or progesterone. And then they'll schedule the IUI makes work/travel a little difficult but so worth it.
@emmasemm sorry that your cycle was cancelled after all that prep. I hope things get better for you and can move forward.
@funkykey I have FX for you!
@inthewoods23 I hope your work travel doesn't get in the way of testing. It's hard enough to wait for everything without life getting in the way.
@ChristenMA83 hope you get lots of follicles!
@sincethelastday yeah, I get that AF can sometimes be a good sign, however unpleasant the experience itself. Hope your H has a safe trip home to you.
AFM: officially scheduled my second surgery for 12/27. Yup, I am spending my Christmas prepping for surgery. The surgeon said if she gets a cancellation sooner, she'll give me a call, but it has to be December at the earliest because I need at least one month in BCP to thin the lining. I'm expecting AF this week (Friday, but who wants to bet it shows up early on Halloween night?), So that's when I will start bc. Just waiting for this to be over. Hoping that bc means that at least these awful periods will lighten up and maybe after I heal, they will go back to normal.
Ob said she won't be in the office til tomorrow and she'll contact me with MH's SA results then. FX that it's all normal but at this point I just want to know so we can deal with it.
Talked with my husband after. Due to other plans next year we decided that taking a break for a few months after the surgery would be best, so probably benched until April. Kind of a relief to take a break after 3 years but also disappointed. This whole year feels like a waste because I spent so long waiting for tests and surgeries. I really thought things would have happened by now. In February I turn 35 and I know the risks increase then so I didn't want to wait that long. But I can't stop aging while I feel like everyone else's schedule blocks me from actually getting what I want.
Sorry for the rant, I am still adjusting to the new timeline. I'm goin to concentrate on my health during the time I'm benched so I can be ready to try again in the spring.
Happy thoughts for everyone!
I feel like that a bit about last year - between July 2017 and July 2018 (my birthday is in July), basically, we just waited. We did a round of IVF and then I had to wait for surgery (until October), and then we had a failed transfer and then they were closed at Christmas, then 2 more failed transfers and an ERA, etc... Long story short, come July 2018, I kept thinking about all the time, money and energy I'd poured in to having a baby, and I had nothing to show for it - just a pile of receipts, interest charges on our credit card, and a much lower AMH. I actually cried all morning on my birthday. DH tried to be like: "Happy Birthday, Honey!" and I choked out (through my sobs) "I'm 34, in debt, childless, and we don't even have a dishwasher."
Anyway, you are not alone with thinking about the impending birthday and being like: "WTF. IF sucks, I can't even believe I've been at this so long." Sending you lots of love & hoping for a smooth surgery and speedy recovery!
@emmasemm fingers crossed that the extra sacks just take care of themselves and do not interfere with your cycle.
@ChristenMA83 those are a great numbers! Really hoping your BFP is in that group.
AFM- *TW* I had another ultrasound this morning and DH and I not only saw a heartbeat but we heard one too!! In all of the things we have experienced hearing a heartbeat has never been one of them. I am measuring at 6 weeks 4 days, so right around what I should be based on when I ovulated. My HCG was over 61,000 which was an increase from last time when I was at 8,000. I am still in shock and can't even believe I am here. The only concern is they saw a small SCH (hematoma) but the nurse assured me it's no big deal and because of the location I may not even experience any bleeding from it. She said it mostly just causes anxiety in the mothers before it goes away on it's own. No one was concerned at all so I choose to feel the same way. I go back on Nov 9th for my final RE appointment and I'd like to wait until then to graduate myself from here as well, I hope everyone is ok with that. Thank you as always for the love and endless support!
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
@ChristenMA83 - hope you respond well to the stims and that this cycle goes off without a hitch! FX!!
@Bababatty and @Worldtravler0522 - thinking of you both! Hope things are continuing to progress nicely!!
@mirabelle33 - how are you doing with the TWW? Sending you a bunch of good vibes!
@emmasemm - sorry to hear about the sacks that haven’t gone away and having to cancel your IVF cycle - I can’t imagine how disappointing that all is! Hope you don’t have to go through draining the sacks and they just naturally go away!
@inthewoods23 - hope everything works out with your travel plans and cycle so that everything lines up well!
@sailorariel - ugh, sorry that you have to go through another surgery! And right around Christmas no less! Although I can’t relate to the surgery part, I feel like I can totally relate to the feeling of wasting a year waiting for tests and for things to just get going. I think I’ve mentioned before that it took me a year after asking my doctor for a RE referral before I was actually seen. And then almost another half a year before I finally started a treatment. The waiting just absolutely sucks!! I hate how since ttc each year has felt like it’s been defined by our failure to conceive regardless of other things that DH and I have accomplished (eg: buying a house, getting a dog). I realize how precious time is since starting ttc. There’s a chance that DH and I would be going away for a year for his work and I’ve had some friends ask why we wouldn’t just wait now until after that year to continue ttc. And I just want to tell them that they don’t understand, that once I boarded this crazy train there’s no getting off until I have a baby. I couldn’t bear waiting/wasting more time. So, yeah, I’m really sorry to hear that you feel that way, but like @funkykey said, you are not alone feeling that way. I think it’s another annoying “symptom” of IF. Hope you make a very smooth and quick recovery and that you find some peace and distraction during all this waiting!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
This story is - dare I say it - a miracle! Here I am, a woman who only "knows" you loosely from an internet forum, and I'm afraid to get my hopes up for you.... I cannot imagine how you must be feeling, just if you are feeling anxious.
Stay as long as you need, keeping fingers so crossed, I cannot even believe that this is happening - I am praying for you!
xoxox
@ everyone else - thank you for the support! xo
TTC History in spoiler Instagram
Married Oct 2007
TTC Since Oct 2010 - MFI Diagnosis 2012 (Morphology 1% + High DNA Frag)
IUI x2 in 2012 - BFN
IVF #1 Feb 2018 - 9 Retrieved - 8 Mature - 5 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
FET#1 March 2018 - BFP - MMC May @ 10w4d
FET#2 July 2018 - BFN
IVF #2 Nov 2018 - 10 Retrieved - 10 Mature - 8 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
@mirabelle33 Congratulations on your transfer! What a whirlwind after all of your waiting! I’m so happy you’re PUPO and I am so eager to hear how it all goes next week! Everything crossed for you!!
@sincethelastday Nice of your AF to time itself to YH’s arrival home! The arrival of AF before a treatment cycle is always worth celebrating because it’s so exciting just to get started again!
@inthewoods23 I’m glad you don’t need to travel! That would have been so stressful! Also congratulations on confirming O!
@ChristenMA83 Woot woot!! How are the hormones treating you?? 17 is a great baseline. Here’s hoping everything continues looking good and you get some excellent embies—and your rainbow baby!!
@funkykey I’ve definitely had cycles where I just couldn’t do the IF board. But more importantly I am SO EXCITED for Sunday for you!! I totally get the “going through the motions.” At my last RE appointment pre transfer I asked him how I could set up a follow up appointment in advance so I didn’t lose another cycle. Like screw positivity. And that is totally fine. You’re still moving forward and you’re as well prepared as you’ll ever be. So much good luck, my friend. Also, I’m sending you a PM.
And I lol’d at your “we don’t even have a dishwasher.” If I’d thought of it, that’s what I’d say to DH in one of my depressions over the past year! :-)
@emmasemm I’m so happy you’re back! Congratulations on getting 2 more in the bank, but I’m very sorry to hear that you had to cancel this cycle. So frustrating after all of your work, even when you know it’s for the best. I really hope the trigger popped those hangers on. No cool, sacs, not cool.
@sailorariel What a Christmas treat! (Sarcasm.) I’m sorry that you have to have another surgery and that the timing is so awful.
And I hear you on the aging. I turned 35 in April; I was supposed to be on baby #2 by now. How did this even happen? I’m hope the break helps, but I totally understand that the waiting just feels so endless and so disappointing. It’s really great that you’re going to focus on health. A number of us have done that during breaks here, and at the very least it makes you feel better!
@Worldtravler0522 First, OMG OMG OMG yaaaay!! This is a miracle! Such a wonderful miracle!! I am so, so happy for you! And also Super invested in this sticking as your rainbow baby. Lady, you’ve been through so much. Like so, so much. Didn’t you do a transfer in a hurricane once? For this to happen is the most amazing thing. I share all of the anxiety. I want this so much for you! And also, it would appear that we are due date twins!
AFM *TW* I ALSO had an u/s yesterday at 6w4d, and we heard the heartbeat. I’m still in shock. But I’m feeling a lot more optimistic. We graduate from our RE in two weeks and I’m am not looking forward to it. I wish they could also by my OB clinic, but alas. They’re going to need to drag me out. Claw marks on the walls.
I will also hold off on graduating until then. I really hope to see all of you on PAIF in short order. You’re the best group of women I could ask for on this journey.
7 medicated cycles (see above) = BFN
7 medicated cycles (see above) = BFN
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
@sailorariel FX for cancellations and an earlier surgery! Wishing you a peaceful and pain-free month to get that ball rolling. My RE also put me on birth control prior to my third endo surgery and it was literally the best cycle ever (and made me wonder why I had never tried OCPs prior to TTC). Also, if it helps, this age thing is a total myth based off one statistical analysis done on French women over 300 years ago. Let's debunk those myths and stay positive!
@inthewoods23 yay! glad your work trip got cancelled!
@ChristenMA83 when is your next ultrasound?
@mirabelle33 update in the spoiler below supplements wise, lets see: prior to IVF/FET, was taking
CoQ10 - egg quality
- myoinositol - good for PCOS/insulin resistance/autoimmune
- triple bee complex, pycnogenol, resveratrol, curcumin, NAC, GNC fish oil - endo specific with some intermittent melatonin (I'm a - shift worker though so didn't use too frequently)
- probiotics
- Conception prenatal, Vitamin C
In hindsight, it's probably way too much but when there's so little we can control... I was spiraling after 3 years and endo symptoms were getting worse from all the medicated cycles so having a little relief from pain went a long way.
Also had hair loss and a change in texture but didn't even connect it to meds - just thought it was increased stress! Maybe some good hairmasks / scalp oils will help make it feel better as your body recovers and help with the TWW? Rock the curls - they add volume
Updates *TW*
@mirabelle33 I noticed yesterday morning my hair loss was a TON in the shower. I've always lost hair though because it's super thick, curly and dry - but now that you mention it, it is more sever during treatment.
Yesterday was rough for me. I don't know if I'm just sad or the hormones are amplifying it. *TW* we have two men on my work team that are expecting their wives to deliver within two weeks of my original due date. The closer we get to December the more and more it comes up in staff meetings. I'm to the point where I'm almost constantly on the verge of tears - which is a big deal for me since I'm generally one of the least emotional people I know. Only two people (my boss & HR) know about the loss and treatment so I can't really ask them not to talk about this super exciting thing in their lives. I'm a bit at a loss on how to deal with this for the next 2 months. As we approach the due date, the loss is nearly always at the front of my thoughts and the fact that no one remembers or knew in the first place is excruciating. Like even in my personal life there's no one that *gets* it...maybe that's my fault because I tend to hide my feelings, but I don't like to make people uncomfortable. *end TW* Sorry for the pity party, but not sure where else to vent at this point.
TTC History in spoiler Instagram
Married Oct 2007
TTC Since Oct 2010 - MFI Diagnosis 2012 (Morphology 1% + High DNA Frag)
IUI x2 in 2012 - BFN
IVF #1 Feb 2018 - 9 Retrieved - 8 Mature - 5 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
FET#1 March 2018 - BFP - MMC May @ 10w4d
FET#2 July 2018 - BFN
IVF #2 Nov 2018 - 10 Retrieved - 10 Mature - 8 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
7 medicated cycles (see above) = BFN
@mirabelle33 - OK - I will update you for next week.
Also, re: hair loss, UGH. I'm so sorry!!! I've seen that happen to other women on these boards. They'll be dealing with the aftermath of an IVF cycle and half their hair starts falling out, and I always think: "F*ck, as if IF isn't hard enough already." I would cry every time I washed it too. I can't remember who said they had problems/if they've graduated, but if I see them, I will ping them about the hair loss and ask if it resolved for them.
A woman I've followed on youtube, after her IVF, she developed patches on her face - I think melasma. It's not so bad now, a year later (and she might have been in treatment), but it looked pretty rough. I haven't had noticeable hair loss or melasma (knock on wood), but I have had like 3-4 yeast infections plus BV (thanks to changes in my cervical mucus from treatments) plus WAY WORSE skin (think: constellations of zits). I hate IF so much.
Also, thinking of you - how are you doing with the TWW?
@ChristenMA83 - ugh, I'm so sorry. That sucks re: work. I've had moments like that too, just around feeling like no one *gets* it. I sometimes feel so isolated. I mean, with my close friends, I've been pretty open - but they really have no idea how shitty and hard it is.
For example, I have one friend who (when I see her) says things like: "whatever you need, I'm there! Just call me!" and then she gets busy with her own baby and her own work and disappears and if I text her like: "Hey, what's up?" I won't hear back for like 2 weeks. (This is when I was stimming). I sometimes catch myself thinking: "Maybe one day she will go through something shitty and uncertain like this, and she'll reach out to me, and I'll be too busy with my beautiful, happy family to respond for 3 weeks."
I feel like, a lot of my close friends, like, they "know" it would be hard. But they have no idea what it feels like to live with this day-in, day-out for years, what it feels like to carry that weight while actively going through treatments. So they can't really be that supportive, because they just don't get it, you know?
So, all that being said, I do have a bit of a coping strategy for dealing with other people's babies. Basically, I just ask myself if I'd want that baby. And the answer is, almost always: "No". So, in your situation: Would you want to have a baby with either of those two men?
For me this works because, chances are, I don't like my colleagues enough to want their babies. I want my own baby, you know?
Anyway, thinking of you - this sucks! - but hoping maybe that might help you get through some meetings over the next few weeks.
During IVF, I continued the Conception prenatals, triple bee complex, myoinositol, fish oil, CoQ10, probiotics (my RE told me to keep taking them). I've read mixed reviews with melatonin - that being said, if I couldn't sleep, I'd take it. I mention the Conception prenatals because both folate and cobalamin are methylated and there's 4000 iU Vitamin D. There have been a few studies on infertility linked to low levels of those vitamins but take it with a grain of salt.
I stopped the pycnogenol, resveratrol, curcumin as I couldn't find much literature supporting use in IVF/pregnancy.
After FET, I stopped melatonin completely and I also stopped taking high dose NAC 3days/week and started taking 600mg at night along with 1g Vitamin C (don't want too high a dose but just enough to support immune function). My RE is amused but supports my crazy.