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Ages of other child(ren)?
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GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )
Re: TFAS w/o 10/15
Cycle/Month? 5/5
WTO/TWW? TWW
Ages of other child(ren)? almost 1.5
Any thoughts about this cycle? Meh. Same as always - hoping for the best, prepping for the not so best.
Any questions?
Rant/Rave/Brag: DS got the dreaded HFM. He spiked a fever on Thursday then started getting the rash on Saturday. Poor little dude. He’s in really good spirits though, so there’s that! He had a ton of fun yesterday splashing in the puddles we made cleaning off our back patio from all the dirt and icky mess that came off our roof from the rain we (finally!!) got.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )We got DS a skeleton onesie costume. OMG. It is the cutest thing ever. DH thinks it is soooooo much better than his tiger costume from last year (which I loved!). I was planning on going trick or treating at some of our close neighbors houses this year. I know he’s not going to know WTF is going on, but I just want to experience it! I’m hoping to get a matching skeleton shirt (for me - mostly because I know he’s not going to want his mom dressing up like him when he gets older!) I’m thinking it would be fun to carve the pumpkin (myself) and let DS play with the pumpkin guts.
Cycle/Month? Currently benched for testing
WTO/TWW? See above
Ages of other child(ren)? 3 y/o
Any thoughts about this cycle? Not really. Counting down the days until my first fertility dr appt.
Any questions?
Rant/Rave/Brag: DS is finally getting into his music class we do weekly. Parents leave the class for the majority of it and then are invited back. When I leave he throws a fit and starts crying, and I’m totally the mom that leaves him to cry. I know that sounds terrible, but he quickly calms down after i leave and really has a blast! He needs that time away from me and I’m glad he’s actually partaking.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween... )For Halloween ds will be blinky the red ghost from the Pac-Man game. Dh will be Pac-Man and I will be Ms. Pac-Man. I make our costumes, so I’ll be working on those this week. I found out the neighborhood we will live in doesn’t really have a lot of trick or treating, so we will be venturing elsewhere that evening. Thankfully there is some military housing nearby. Ds should do well there! We will also be doing some trick or treating the weekend before Halloween at a local attThis weekend we will hit up the pumpkin patch and do the fall festival thing as well as get pumpkins to carve. I really need to get it together and finish the porch decorations too!
What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 3/3
WTO/TWW? WTO
Ages of other child(ren)? 4.5
Any thoughts about this cycle? Timing is going to be hard because we are going camping right before O but FX we work it out somehow. If not, I'm just happy to be syncing up with the lunar cycle again since we had so many moon babies from TTGP last month!
Any questions? Not really, unless anyone has any recommendations of labs to ask for at a fertility specialist? I imagine they will know what to run but I honestly have no clue about any of this.
Rant/Rave/Brag: Rant/ DS went through a phase where he yells from the bathroom with a mouthful of toothpaste that he is done but won't spit unless I tell him to finish up. If I don't say anything he will start screaming with toothpaste in his mouth. He stopped for a while but now he's doing it again. Rave/ Took DS horse riding again on Friday and it was great. A little different setup but the woman was like a female Mr Rogers.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? DS is going to be Thomas with one of those ride-in costumes. DH and DS will carve the pumpkin that we picked up at a farm yesterday, then they'll do trick or treat rounds in our neighborhood. Last year I handed out candy in costume until some 20-something Japanese tourists or students showed up in costume for candy.. it was bizarre. Considering ditching handing out candy to go out with DH & DS but I don't want to leave the dog at home to have a heart attack every time the doorbell rings.What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 4/4 (about to be 5/5)
WTO/TWW? TWW
Ages of other child(ren)? 2
Any thoughts about this cycle? Very odd. I'm not sure when or if I O'd, and my period is late. I know most normal women would test if their period was late, but I'm holding out because I feel like it's just around the corner. Not to mention, I don't feel like I did when I was pregnant with DD.
Any questions? Those of you who have had an-O cycles - what is the breakthrough bleeding like? I've been searching the board but can't get any more info on it. Is it like a normal period?
Rant/Rave/Brag: DD is all of a sudden using the potty! I don't think I'm as ready as she is, hahaha. Don't ask me how this happened.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )We are going trick or treating and we all dress up together. DD will be a princess, I'm going as a scarecrow, and DH is going as a robot. We took her trick or treating last year and she loved it. She is obsessed with Halloween, even the scary stuff! DH and I carve pumpkins but personally I think DD will just get in the way so my preference would be to do it without her, but knowing DH, he will want her to barge in on our fun (I know, I'm a mean mom). We love Halloween! I'm excited about it.
This will be my first cycle since my loss. Not going to lie, I'm nervous. Because of that we are taking it easy and just seeing what happens.
@lillywonderland oh no! HFM suuucks. I hope he feels better ASAP! Totally enjoy coordinating while you can!!!
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Cycle/Month? 1/1
WTO/TWW? TWW
Ages of other child(ren)? 2
Any thoughts about this cycle? This is my first cycle, IUD was removed 2 weeks ago. I started with some spotting today, so I'm sure AF is on her way soon. I'm only CD 19, so my body is totally out of whack.
Any questions? None, just riding it out till next month.
Rant/Rave/Brag: None
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )We live in a rural area, so we drive to our local palliative care home, where they do a "pumpkin trail" and the residents all hand out candy. We went last year, and to see the faces on the seniors - it killed me with all the emotions. We are doing that again this year, big win - we don't have to worry about the weather!
Our daughter and myself are dressing up as bees, and hubby is the beekeeper. She LOVES bees right now, but won't step foot in her costume. She hasn't seen mine yet, can't wait to show her!
Married 11/21/2018
Me: 33 / DH: 33
TTC #1 since 2012, finally successful in 2016
BFP 11/29/2013 - EDD 8/9/2014 - MMC 12/31/2013 8 weeks 2 days - Tried to MC naturally for 4 weeks, D&C 2/2/2014
IUI 01/25/2016 - BFP 2/5/2016 - Natural Home Delivery to our DD 10/8/2016
IUD removed 10/3/2018
Ready to TTC for #2
Cycle/Month? 6/6
WTO/TWW? WTO
Ages of other child(ren)? 1 year old
Any thoughts about this cycle? I think we are going to try for ED this time. We've been doing EOD with an occasional extra day in there, but time to step up our game!
Any questions? When was your first LO's dentist appointment. I've been reading that it should be around the first birthday, but we didn't pay for dental insurance for her this year, so I'm wondering if it would be terrible to wait til next year?
Rant/Rave/Brag: DD added a few more words to her vocabulary over the weekend! She was saying mama, dada, and bye. But she said "Go get dada" and "Gaga" for Grandpa, and "Gigi" for Grandma.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )This will be our first year celebrating with DD. We think we want to dress up as Owen and Claire from Jurassic World and have DD be a dinosaur. She won't care what she is, so this might be our one chance to do what we want. We're going to go trick-or-treating around our neighborhood with her cousins.
ETA: Will be back to tag in a bit!
Edited for clarity.
@marebear15 DD hasn't had a dental appointment yet (she's 2 years, almost 4 months old). She freaks out at the doctor's office so bad that our doctor actually suggested holding off! We do our best to brush her teeth and stuff and are just hoping for the best.
What number are you trying for? #2
Cycle/Month? 6/7
WTO/TWW? WTO
Ages of other child(ren)? 18 months
Any thoughts about this cycle? Im trying to be extra diligent with my eating habits and limiting my caffeine. I normally get horrid migraines towards the end of AF (I think due to low iron maybe)..I’m only on CD 4, but so far so good
Any questions? None right now
Rant/Rave/Brag: I nursed DS for the last time over the weekend. I’m not quite sure how I feel about it yet. I didn’t really have a set date to stop but decided to try and see how he’d do (he figured it out pretty quickly). Since it wasn’t planned, I wish I had let him snuggle a bit longer the night before.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )I don’t have a creative bone in my body! I need to either think of something quick, or get my butt to Costco. I think we’ll at least do pumpkins this year..DS will have fun with that.
@lillywonderland poor DS! We’re always getting emails from daycare about HFM...we’ve been lucky so far! I heard now is the time to spoil them with food just to get something in their bellies.
@marebear15 I took DS to dentist at 12 months. He had a full set of teeth so I figured it was time. Our dentist didn’t do much...just showed me how to brush his teeth and checked the spacing. I don’t think he needs to go back until he’s 4
What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 4/5
WTO/TWW? WTO
Ages of other child(ren)? 2 years
Any thoughts about this cycle? I'm back on my serious game, now that my long (likely an-O) cycle finally ended. Soooo... started temping again, doing CM, PNV, Rasp tea, and will HIO as much as possible. (Although -- looks like FW might be while we're on family trip to Disney, so that will be interesting with toddler right in room with us)
Any questions? Nah
Rant/Rave/Brag: Rave: It's cool and rainy here today, and I just love it.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? DD is going as Vamperina. We will be in WDW the weekend before, so we'll miss the church festival, but will trick or treat to a few houses in neighborhood. Low-key.What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 2/2
WTO/TWW? WTO CD4
Ages of other child(ren)? 2
Any thoughts about this cycle? TMI: Holy heavy flow! AF can GTFO anytime
Any questions? Nope.
Rant/Rave/Brag: umm. brain fog.
GTKY: DD is going to be Calvin from Calvin and Hobbes. She has a Halloween party at school and I’ll take her around our small neighborhood. We went to the pumpkin patch Saturday. I may try letting her paint her little pumpkin.
@pugmum hi fellow 10/8 mama! I had a short cycle the first cycle after IUD was removed. I’m hoping I will feel less out of whack once AF leaves the building.
@marebear15 our pedi told us at her 2 year checkup to go to the dentist for the first time between 2 and 3. I would wait but it also may be worth asking your pediatrician their recommendation.
What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 2/4
WTO/TWW? WFA (waiting for anything)
Ages of other child(ren)? 14 months
Any thoughts about this cycle? Just the normal thoughts that I wish my body would do anything.
Any questions?
Rant/Rave/Brag: DD is late to walking but we finally found her little push walker in the boxes and she loves using it! I’m hoping this will convince her to start trying on her own!
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 ). We have her cloak from last year so she’ll be a hobbit againDH and I don’t dress up. I’m not sure what we’ll end up doing since my sister is due with her second right around then!
@lillywonderland - We've had two close calls with HFM. One from another toddler, and one from my sister's boyfriend Apparently, what used to be a "kid only" illness is becoming more common place in adults. FX it's quick-lived and he's not too uncomfortable in the time being.
@kbrown2385 - Don't feel guilty about leaving when your kid is crying! I teach a 3 year olds class at church and the kids are way easier to settle down when the parent leaves quickly. I'm sure you're doing him and the teacher a favor.
@mamanbebe - I hadn't thought about looking up the lunar cycle compared to last month's baby explosion. How is that supposed to work? Full moon around conception?
@PugMum - That sounds like a delightful way to spend Halloween! And to think about how much joy that's giving the seniors in that home.
@montee1917 - I'll bet that's bittersweet to finish nursing. Sometimes I think I'm ready to get my body back, and then other times I really like those snuggly moments. We are down to a morning and evening nurse.
Thank you, everyone, for answering my question about the dentist! I think we'll wait another year and keep up with the brushing.
Happy to see lots of activity on TFAS today! I had a rough TTC weekend and trying to put it behind me. This cycle I'm going to watch my sugar intake (lol Halloween, yes I see you) so now in addition to not having coffee and wine, I also don't get ice cream! Slowly getting rid of everything that makes life worth living... Oh well.. Hopefully it will be worth it someday.
What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle /month: 5
WTO/TWW: WTO. CD2, sigh.
Ages of other children: just about two!
Any thoughts about this cycle? Terrible. My hope is through the floor at the moment. Plus, my hubby and I have back to back work trips next week so we'll miss most of our window. Not looking great.
GTKY: Loved reading about everyone's Halloween plans! We have a skeleton costume for DD and probably check out a parade. We won't take her around for candy yet, probably, just hand out candy at our house.
@kbrown2385 Love the pac-man costumes! Show us a pic once you finish them!
@mamanbebe Sorry but I had to lol a little at the toothpaste fiasco!
@riff323 That's great about the potty, but I totally feel you, I'm not ready for potty training... diapers are too easy right now lol.
@marebear15 Good luck with ED timing!! As for dentist timing, I feel like there are so many different answers out there. Our pediatrician told us it isn't necessary until 3, I'm guessing we'll go around 2.5 or so.
@montee1917 Congrats on your nursing accomplishment! I was an emotional mess when I stopped around 14 months, it is such a hard bond to break.
What number are you trying for? 2
Cycle/Month? 12/13
WTO/TWW? TWW
Ages of other child(ren)? 21 months
Any thoughts about this cycle? More hopeful than I have been lately. It was a natural IUI cycle but I still got 2 follies, we will see...
Any questions? Any recommendations for cheaper 2 piece snowsuits to leave at daycare? Planning to buy nicer ones for home but want ones I don't care if he trashes at daycare.
Rant/Rave/Brag: Hmm... we had a gorgeous fall weekend and managed to squeeze in a lot of fall fun!
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? We went to a pumpkin patch yesterday and picked out our pumpkins... our son was more interested in the rocks than the pumpkins lol. My H and I will carve ours but we'll have our son paint his. He had a blast painting his last year. We will go trick or treating with some friends in another neighborhood. Yesterday, we went with some friends and their kids to zoo boo and our son managed to keep his chicken costume on the whole time! It was a lot of fun and he was too adorable running around as a big fluffy chicken.Cycle/Month? 6/6
WTO/TWW? WTO...but +OPK today so hopefully today or tomorrow!
Ages of other child(ren)? 3
Any thoughts about this cycle? I am cautiously optimistic...since getting my Mirena IUD out 6 months ago this is only the 2nd cycle that has seemed normal (others have been short, weird cramping, etc) and that I've had EWCM. Sooooo FX! Also, this is the cycle 4(!) year ago that I got KU with DS.
Any questions? No...I've been lurking for awhile but decided I need some support too so I wanted to post. Thanks for listening!
Rant/Rave/Brag: Super excited to be volunteering this week for my son's preschool class's field trip to a local pumpkin patch. Should be fun and interesting to see him with his class.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween... )We did some pumpkin carving over the weekend..DS wasn't super into it but I had fun! Haha I'm such a kid at heart. DS is going to be a firefighter, I'll be a dalmatian, and MH will be a fire hydrant lol. Our neighborhood goes all out (I'm talking haunted houses, crazy decorations, etc) so we'll take DS out but it could be a bit too scary for him so we'll play it by ear.
@lillywonderland so sorry about HFM. We had it in August and IT.WAS.AWFUL! I felt like I got hit by a train not to mention poor DS. FX you have some time to rest up!
@mamanbebe Camping sounds so fun! You must live somewhere warm! Makes me shiver to think about camping around here this time of year!
@montee1917 Welcome! All the hugs for your last nursing session. I remember having mixed feelings about it but some freedom was nice for sure.
@mokay19 Yay for LO starting to walk! My DS was late to walk also (14.5 months).
@jennifer_louise Sending hugs. Sorry you're feeling down about CD2. This journey is so emotional, all the ups and downs.
@marebear15 that’s exactly why I just leave! It’s easier on everyone and the teacher definitely appreciates it.
@mokay19 I don’t think 14 months is too late for walking! Ds didn’t start until around then either.
@kbrown2385 I love your pac man costume idea!! How adorable! When is your first RE appointment?
@riff323 How many days late are you? I “knew” I was KU when I was about 3 days late by the bloating and heartburn that came out of nowhere. I’m advocating for a POAS moment for you! Dooooo it! 😁😁
@mamanbebe Lol @ the Japanese tourists. I hope your appointment goes well! I don’t have any idea of what bloodwork they should run. Maybe ask the ladies in the IF thread?
@nopegoat OMG those chickens. I loooooooved all he pics you posted over the weekend - definitely a little envious of your farm and winged animal collection. Also, those costumes sound SO awesome!!
@pugmum The bee costume sounds so cute! And I love that you go to a Pallatove care place. It must be so good for all those adults in there to see tiny people running around in costumes. I hope your cycles regulate soon!
@marebear15 Ehh, PP have spoken. I keep meaning to make a dentist appt for my little guy but TBH he still needs like a lot of teeth. He has gotten his teeth a little late(ish). We brush 1x a day now, but I need to do it in the am also. FX for your ED plan. I almost killed DH when we did it back to back this cycle, so hopefully that did the trick! 🤣
@icking82 Have so much fun at WDW!! Hopefully you’ll make a little magic happen!! 😉
@smmatt08 I’m sorry about a heavy AF! Hopefully she’ll exit the building ASAP!
@jennifer_louise Yay for diet changes but boo that it has to happen around Halloween!
@mokay19 Lol @ the hobbit! That is such a cute (and nerdy!) costume. She’s just the right size for a hobbit, too!!
@Sparty18 Have you looked into one of those consignment stores/Salvation Army/online app Let Go or whatever? Sometimes they have super cheap stuff. I’m keeping my FX for you this cycle!!
@montee1917 All the hugs for you and your last nursing session. We are *almost* there and I am going to be a mess when it finally happens.
@lilyan1522 awwww so cute about your matching family costumes! There’s no way in MH would every match us (Halloween or Christmas PJs) .but I always ask every year!!
*edit to add tag
Thanks for all the love about CD2, TFAS! I think I'm in a better place now. Plus, DH is doing bedtime so I get to hide in the basement for a bit. Bedtime at our house goes much better if DH takes care of it and I stay far away. Anybody else have that experience?
ETA tags for everyone ahead of tomorrow's blackout!
@kbrown2385 envious of your costume making skills! And I'm definitely the mom who leaves her kid to cry too. No shame!
@mamanbebe good luck with timing - you just never know how it will work out. Glad you had a better horse riding instructor this time!
@nopegoat your costumes sound super fun! I wish we could just tell our kids what to dress as forever. Take care of yourself this cycle.
@PugMum your costumes and Halloween plans both sound amazing!
@montee1917 I suffer from migraines too, but mine usually come at O or right before or at the start of AF. Magnesium is rumored to help, but I didn't have any luck with it. I need the heavy duty triptans for mine.
@lcking82 glad your long cycle ended! Hopefully you can find a way to squeeze in some whoopie during your trip.
@smmatt08 Calvin & Hobbes is the best!!!
@mokay19 14 months is right in the normal range for walking. She'll get there!
@jennifer_louise I'm sorry you had a bad TTC weekend.
@lilyan1522 fingers crossed for a good cycle! The pumpkin patch trip sounds fun too!
We are going trick or treating at the mall and in our neighborhood. Last year was the first year we did both (we normally go with my sister and her children). I wish we would've know that some of these people are awesome. There were a lot of hot chocolate, food, and adult drinks.
Dd wants to be a witch (I still have to make it). We dress up as as well. I'm going to be witch too and dh is going to be a warlock. We are going to the pumpkin patch this weekend to get some to carve. We get one big one to carve and some tiny ones to paint.
@riff323 please don’t be jealous haha. T-shirt’s and puff paint are amazing things I’m also glad I’m not alone on leaving my kid to cry.
@jennifer_louise I’m jealous of your bedtime routine. It’s the exact opposite at our house. Ds listens to me better than dh, so I have to be there or Ds would be up all night.
@asupernovablizzardstorm Hope the testing goes well!
You all have inspired me to get more into Halloween... Decorating pumpkins this weekend!
Cycle/Month? 4/ 10
WTO/TWW? WTO
Ages of other child(ren)? 2
Any thoughts about this cycle? Waiting on some testing!
Any questions?
Rant/Rave/Brag:
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 ) He is into animal sounds right now, so he is going to be a cow or a penguin, depending on which animal sound he is more into that night. We'll trick or treat locally until he sits down and yells at me, because, two. This is actually his first halloween, he was in the hospital last year with the measles. And a baby the year before, so he slept in a sling.What number are you trying for? 3
Cycle/Month?1/1
WTO/TWW? I think TWW. I just had my IUD out on Monday, so I haven’t tracked closely yet.
Ages of other child(ren)? DS1 is 4 and DS2 is 21 months
Any thoughts about this cycle? First cycle TTC, so just trying to pay attention to my body. I had the paragard IUD so cycles should be the same off of it.
Any questions? Not yet! Rant/Rave/Brag: DS2 has had night terrors the last two nights. It’s so awful to watch because there’s is nothing to do but let him be, and wait until it ends. He had a fever for 3 days, so we’re hoping that is what caused them, and it won’t be a regular occurrence.
GTKY: What are your Halloween plans? What is LO going to be? Do you dress up also? Do you carve pumpkins together? (Basically, just talk to me about Halloween...🎃 👻 )
DS1 is going to be a fireman and DS2 is going to be a Dalmatian! We don’t really decorate for Halloween, but we go trick or treating at a friends neighborhood, and paint pumpkins! We also carve a pumpkin, but in this awful FL heat it usually doesn’t last long! Can’t wait to go through my kids candy and grab all of the Reese’s pumpkins!