TWW Monday 8/13

lulu1180

**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!** 

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Timing: 

Typical LP length:

Testing: 

R/R: 

CS/Q:

lulu1180

Month/Cycle: 27 months; rollover yesterday

CD/DPO: 22/7

Timing: -4, -3, -2, IUI on O, O

Typical LP length: 15 days

Testing: If I can bring myself to do it early, possibly next Monday, otherwise not unless AF is late

R/R: It's Monday, I don't really feel like being at work; at least my boss is off today, I guess.  I had a pretty great weekend and even though I didn't get to see any of the meteor shower this weekend, DH and I did get to see a decent light show from a storm in Canada over the lake.

CS/Q: link in siggy if you want to see

novaselkie

@lulu1180 Sorry you are feeling lacklusssterrr about work, I find Monday does that - I am feeling the same way over here. Treat yourself to something later for surviving Monday

harrierwife

Month/Cycle: 4/4

CD/DPO: 22/7

Timing: -2, -1, O

Typical LP length: Beats me; first O cycle. 

Testing: WFAF but I'm finding that I'm low on patience so maybe on day 10 or 12?

R/R: H and I talked a lot last night about kids. He's becoming less and less passive as things go on - before he was happy to let me time everything and initiate the timed sex. Now, he's asking when FW is for this month, or next month, etc. He also refers to our future child(ren) as "she" or "her" because he's a military pilot (Israel did some studies that showed that their fighter pilots had far more girls than boys) and then divulged that he would love to have a daughter in particular, but would take what he could. 

Counting this as a win. 

CS/Q: No. Just struggling with this waiting game. Chart below. 

klmcguire

@lulu1180 I am having a case of the Monday's as well. I do not want to be working, I just want another Sunday.

@harrierwife do you have FF VIP? I am interested to see if it has give you the triphasic pattern? Your temps look great! FX


Month/Cycle: 3/2

CD/DPO: 22/8

Timing: -5,-3,-2

Typical LP length: 12-14

Testing: 10DPO

R/R: I have a super busy week at work, traveling a couple of days and I am glad that the week will go by fast! 

CS/Q: chart in spoiler.

rikiteacup

Month/Cycle: 4

CD/DPO: 31 / 13DPO

Timing: -2, -1 , 0 , +1

Typical LP length: 12-14 days depending on cycle

Testing: I tested this morning at 13 DPO and it was a BFN. My temp is still well above my coverline but I have no history re: temps and AF showing up since this is my 1st cycle using FF. The app I've been using for a few years before FF is saying AF is expected tomorrow. No more testing unless AF is 3/4 days late.

R/R: I was mad at my H yesterday. We went on our honeymoon a couple months ago and he wanted to wait to TTC in case I would be pregnant during the HM. I like to remind him that we've been trying for 4 cycles already and I am still not PG so there was no need to wait. Plus he and I are old for TTC (36) so who knows what this journey has in store for us.

CS/Q:

harrierwife

@klmcguire - Yeah, I'm pretty stoked on my temps this cycle! The 3 previous cycles looked like the Rocky Mountains. I only have the free trail of the VIP version of FF right now, so I'm not sure if it'll show the triphasic pattern. It did give me a prompt to keep an eye out for it, but think it mentioned that that feature was only available for the paid VIP version? Not 100% on this. 

FX this week flies for you - and for everyone!

@rikiteacup - Girl. I totally hear your R/R. My H wanted to wait to TTC, too, because of a ski trip in December. He wants me to ski with him, and while I want to ski, too, I'd gladly sit on the sidelines for one year if it means we're expecting. I think we all (but men especially) think that its just a matter of having unprotected sex and BOOM, Baby On Board. 

So many FX for you! 

rikiteacup

I think we all (but men especially) think that its just a matter of having unprotected sex and BOOM, Baby On Board. 

So many FX for you! 

Exactly!! I think it's eye-opening for him. Doesn't work quite like that. He does (now) know that chances of conceiving are less than 30% each cycle with EVERYTHING done perfectly.

whitealbum29

@harrierwife That's so nice to hear that you had a nice talk about it after he was feeling nervous!! Definitely a win.