Thank you

suzycupcake

Thank you to all of the ladies here who have fought and who are still fighting, even loved ones of those.
Thank you all for sacrificing so much  

meggyme

monikadavid said:

Thank you to you for posting this. Today has not been an easy day for DH and I. I logged into my account to get some motivation. I am glad I found your post. Sometimes it all gets too much. I just want to give up now I am honestly done. I was diagnosed with DOR which is literally the worst infertility disorder. As there are no chances of anything to work. However, in the start, I didn't let that affect me entirely. I decided to opt for IVF. However, I honestly have been discouraged at every point. I was told I shouldn't opt for it because it has the same chances of success for me as does naturally trying. However, I thought with the help of assistance and medication thing might work. I was also warned that if it does work might lead to MC. Today I am sitting here 2 cycles a complete fail I am going to opt for the last one not sure if it will work or not.  

Huh?

nitnat007

@meggyme was that a dirty delete? Where did it even come from?

meggyme

@nitnat007 it was a DD, but idk how.

general_organa

If you click on the username you can see that person was banned after only posting once. Seems fishy? 

lulu1180

The user posted about 4 or 5 times total, all other posts were on the IF board.  It was a biotex scammer or something like that (from the Ukraine, I think).  @adirat could explain it better than I could.  They are on the IF board frequently and when reported, the BGs ban them

adirat

Thanks for the tag @lulu1180 -- this has been my greatest fight on the IF board (other than infertility itself). There is a fertility clinic in Ukraine that posts bizarre like these all the time with a goal of luring desperate women to their clinic for IVF, donor egg, surrogacy, etc. They pretend to be western women going through infertility who just so happen to need this sort of care and have found a miracle clinic in Kyiv! It's completely despicable. They are preying on women going through what is often the lowest point of their whole lives. 

You can spot them because their English is always slightly off and they usually have very dramatic stories. One was about how she used to be a fashion model and therefore couldn't have a child (didn't follow the logic there). 
One recently said she had "hysterectomy cancer" as though that's a type of cancer? 

Anyway, it's disgusting, and when I see it, I call it out and report it to the admins.

suzycupcake

Maybe a mod saw it and got rid of it. 

general_organa

Wow, that is really awful and predatory.