I am planning a tattoo that will honour my two babes lost. Also, a little memorial (no words, or plaque, just a statue over where we will bury them that my husband and I will know) in the yard where we will bury their remains. What do you do? Is it very personal, or somewhere where you can see it regularly? Am I making a mistake, and may regret seeing it all the time later? When I started plannng these things, I found that it really helped with the grieving process. To have something I can see that says “you were real, you were lived, and I did everything I could to be a good mom to you while I held you.” What are your thoughts or experiences?