November 2018 Moms

Goodbye, Ladies

Two days after joining this board, I lost my little bean at 5w4d. I started spotting on Friday night and developed bad cramps on the right side (low down, close the groin) over the next day. I called my OB and he sent me to the ER. My hcg was only 389 and an ultrasound found the baby growing in my right tube. We are trying to save the tube by doing methotrexate. I am just devastated. I’ll be taking a break from all this for a while, but I hope you all have a healthy and happy nine months. 

Re: Goodbye, Ladies

  • So very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and rest up. Saying a prayer for you and your little angel.
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  • I’m so, so sorry that this happened to you. I hope you get your rainbow soon. 


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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself. I know there are no words that can help, but my thoughts are with you!
  • I am so sorry and pray for your recovery. 
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  • So sorry for your loss, I hope your recovery goes as smoothly as possible
  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
    *TW*
    Me:35 DH:35
    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

  • I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Please be kind to yourself and remember that it's okay to not be okay. If you need some support, I have some good friends on TTGP (Trying to Get Pregnant) on TB who have had ectopics and they would be happy to talk to you and support you during this time, whenever you are feeling up to it. PM me if you want more info. I'm hoping and praying the methotrexate works for you. Again, I'm so so sorry.  :'(
    *TW*
    Me: 31 | DH: 33
    DD1: 8/2014  <3
    TTC #2: 6/2017
    BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
    BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
    BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
    BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
    DD2: 10/2018  <3
  • I’m so sorry for your loss

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    I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you are able to find some peace and take the time that you need to get better. 
    Me: 31 I DH: 31
    Met: 9/8/08; Engaged: 9/8/11; Married 6/30/12
    TTC#1: 8/2013; BFP: 9/30/13; born June 2014 (boy)
    TTC#2: 2/2018; BFP: 2/26/18; MC 4/4/18.
    TTC#2: 4/2018; BFP: 5/12/18; EDD: 1/19/19 (boy)
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I have taken methotrexate in the past and also have had an ectopic pregnancy. Sending you lots of hugs. 
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    i am so sorry for your loss. TW* I just recently went through an EP so I echo @offtoneverland by saying if you need/want support there are a few of us in TTGP this who have gone through this or if you’d like to PM me. Either way though, please take the time to grieve and heal, both emotionally and physically. 
  • I am so, so sorry. 
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    BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
    BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
    BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
    BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
    BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
    BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018


  • Im so terribly sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you, and I hope the methotrexate saves your tube. Take care and big virtual hugs to you. 
  • Oh this is just terrible. I am so sorry for your loss, and I truly hope they can save the tube. Big hugs. 
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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    Loss History (TW):
    BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
    BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
    BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
    BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
    BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
    TTC History (TW):
    3 losses in 2015
    Met with OBGYN in January 2016
    Me: all clear, H: OAT
    November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
    January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
    February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
    March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
    Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
    December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
    January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
    Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
    FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
    FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
    BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
    Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two
    Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
    Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
    Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
    Next Up:
    TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
    ER#2 ~Jan 2019
            

  • So very very sorry for your loss!  <3
  • I'm so saddened to hear this. Take care if yourself <3 I'm so sorry

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    Married: March 2016
    TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
    PCOS dx January 2018
    Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
    BFP 3/10/2018! 
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  • sorry for you loss.
  • *also lurking from ttcal on ttgp
    I also had an ectopic in Nov.  If you have any questions or just need support I've been there. I didn't have the shot but I know the pain of an ectopic all to well.  I really hope they can save your tube.  You can pm me anytime or join us on ttcal when you're ready.  I know how scary this is to go through and I just wanted you to know you're not alone.  ((So many hugs)) and I'm so sorry you're going through this.  
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