This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!**
Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous?
Me: 35 H: 35
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl :'(
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19

Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Re: WTO 2/19
Month/Cycle: 4/5
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: all the things. HSG next month which will maybe provide some insight into my cycle issues.
R/R: Rant: No rants today! Rave: It's just me in the office today so it's super quiet! Sometimes I like these days!
CS/Q: Has anyone ever had an HSG? I am terrified of the procedure and just terrified of receiving bad news. Trying to stay positive though..
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? Mike "The Situation" from Jersey Shore haha. I'm pretty excited for the reunion they have coming up!
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: all things
R/R: Monday and I'm so busy! Finally getting a break to catch up with you ladies. Short week this week, I am taking Thursday off since my sister is getting engaged! Her fiance to be is so nervous trying to make it perfect but I think she has an idea whats going on. We'll see!
CS/Q: No questions!
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? Going along with @meladams10, I met Ronnie from Jersey Shore when we was at a bar in my city. He was not very friendly unfortunately. I have also met Taylor Kinney and David Eigenberg when I did some extra work for the TV show Chicago Fire. Taylor is just as attractive in real life and David was so nice!
Married: 08/2016
TTC: 10/2017
IUI #1-3 BFN
IVF 11/2018- 23 eggs retrieved, 16 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI with 7 embryos making it to freeze
FET #1 02/2019 BFN
FET #2 4/19 BFP!!!!! EDD 1/4/20
I thought he would be friendly too but I think he was there for pleasure, not promoting anything so maybe he was sick of everyone coming up to him??
Married: 08/2016
TTC: 10/2017
IUI #1-3 BFN
IVF 11/2018- 23 eggs retrieved, 16 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI with 7 embryos making it to freeze
FET #1 02/2019 BFN
FET #2 4/19 BFP!!!!! EDD 1/4/20
@kobrien827 that’s awesome you get to be in on the surprise! It’s good to hear some celebrities are nice people IRL.
Month/Cycle: 5/3
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU:
All the things plus a few more things.
R/R:
The fly on my jeans busted while at work today. Guess it was a little strained
CS/Q:
nah
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous?
My grandpa was in politics so I’ve met the Clintons, Bob Dole, Ruth Bader Ginsberg and some lesser known senators and congressman.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl :'(
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@coco2787 If everyone did, I hope we follow them!!!
It has been so slow around here!! I feel like it was just a couple weeks ago there were 50+ comments on the WTO thread before 10am! What the heck happened?! I guess it is a holiday today.
@meladams10 FX you figure out what’s going on with your cycles soon. It sucks not knowing.
@kobrien827 That’s so sweet that you’re included in the engagement! Hopefully it can be a surprise!
@coco2787 I hate when there’s a wardrobe malfunction at work! At least you can somewhat hide it.
Month/Cycle: 11/11
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: sexy time EOD
R/R: So after my acupuncture appointment on Friday I got another migraine. I decided I’m not getting anything from it and I would much rather spend my money on a massage lol. So I canceled my appointment for this week. In other news, MH has been super frisky the last couple days, which is very odd for him. I want to keep it at EOD because otherwise I know he’ll get burned out. He’s on afternoons this week so he won’t get home till after 10. And since I wake up at 4:45am I’m usually in bed by 8:30. I told him to wake me up went he gets home… I’m just hoping my lack of sleep won’t give me more headaches.
CS/Q: What would you guys do?... I probably won’t O till this weekend, the very earliest would be Friday I’m guessing, but it could be as late as next Wednesday. Would you sacrifice your sleep for BD EOD or wait and start HIO Thursday night (since I don’t work on Fridays)? I’m leaning towards sacrificing the sleep… cause I mean I’m going to have to get used to the lack of sleep at some point if this TTC crap works out, right?!
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? Nope. No one…
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
@LJMoon6 I agree! Maybe everyone is enjoying a 3 day weekend! I work for a hospital so, no holidays for us! I think you should definitely BD EOD as much as possible and sacrifice the sleep. It does get tiring, but at least you know you're giving it all you got!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: stuff
R/R: sorry I’ve been MIA. I miss you guys, I do - but work has me not wanting to touch my phone or laptop. I’m really trying to stress less and it’s impossible with these asshole bosses. Will try and be back for tags tonight, if not, hugs and love to all
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? I live in LA so yeah, haha. Uhm, Jacob Zachar from Greek, Kristen Bell, Teri Hatcher, Sophia Bush, Ed Westwick, Marcus Foster, Kevin Hart, the whole main cast of Shadowhunters and lots of my favorite authors (I think they count, lol) like Cassandra Clare, Veronica Roth, Victoria Aveyard. And I’m probably forgetting someone.
Finally TTC#1 as of 11/2017!
Thryoidectomy 2007, PCOS, disordered proliferative endometrium.
CD: Eh, who knows
WAYDTGKU: Prenatals, Myo-Inositol, NAC, and Mediterranean diet. Prepping for IUI
R/R: I've got tender tits! Maybe I ovulated. Now just gotta wait for AF and get the show on the road. The RE said last Wednesday that I had an 18 mm follicle prepping to ovulate so hopefully that happened. I haven't been charting, temping, or using OPKs so I have no idea what's going on. I just know what wretched PMS symptoms to look for and tender tits is usually the first of many symptoms. Gotta wait for the raging appetite, erratic mood swings, and perpetual bloating plus water weight gain and I'll be golden.
CS/Q: I scheduled a fertility massage. Apparently it comes with a castor oil kit. I had no idea that was even a thing. Does anyone know if that actually does anything or is it a bunch of hooey? I don't mind trying stuff if there's no harm but I don't want to get the hershey squirts because I'm rubbing a powerful laxative on my abdomen
GTKY: Have you met anyone famous? W loves celebrities so we always wait outside the venue after concerts to see if we can meet anyone. We've met Ben Folds, Mary Carpenter, the Indigo Girls, and a couple Backstreet Boys. She's met more than me. Ben Folds was my favorite
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: Charting, temping, blah blah blah
R/R: Rant: I have been so tired the last three days that I'm about to fall asleep at my desk. I have about 25 meetings for the rest of the week so I need to snap out of this. Rave: AF ends today.
CS/Q: Not yet
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? Not really. I've met people on the outskirts, but not really famous people.
@leafyarch Sophia Bush is my girl crush. (if that wasn't obvious by my pic) I would love to meet her.
@LJMoon6 I would probably choose sleep unless I'm sure I'm in my FW. But there is very little I would sacrifice sleep for. I'm not fun to be around if I haven't slept.
@coco2787 I had a wardrobe malfunction at work today too! It was more of a ME malfunction that required me to go home and change my clothes. I'm glad you were able to cover it!
@meladams10 I’ve had an HSG. It wasn’t fun, but it wasn’t terrible. It hurt when they put the catheter in, like a strong cramp, but the pain was very brief. Pretty much everyone on the IF thread has gone through this, so you’ll more advice and feedback about it if you post on the questions/chartstalk thread, because not everyone is on the dailies.
@kobrien827 Hope all goes well with the engagement!
@coco2787 I am so jealous that you’ve met Ruth Bader Ginsburg! I
her.
@LJMoon6 Sorry the acupuncture didn’t work out, but a massage sounds great!
@leafyarch Sorry work has been so stressful!
@wishiwaspreggo I’ve got no advice on the castor oil, but I’ll be curious to hear how the fertility massage goes!
@brookepdavis Being tired at work is no fun. Hope you can get some sleep tonight and feel more alert for all those meetings!
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: probably benched this month due to travel
R/R: Well, we've officially been ttgp for more than a year. Not a fun anniversary. I'm traveling for work next week, so we'll likely miss my fw. Sigh. Now we're just deciding whether to try on our own for another month after I get back, or jump right into another medicated IUI cycle. On the rave side, went shopping with a friend this weekend and had a great time.
CS/Q: No questions.
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? I don't think so! I've met some authors I like, some bigwigs in my academic field, and some classical musicians and composers, but no real celebrities.
@meladams10 Ya I think I will sacrifice the sleep. I do want to feel like I’m doing everything I can… But to be honest I think I’m at the point where I don’t think it will happen naturally for us… I would love to be wrong tho!
@leafyarch Missing you around here! Sorry your bosses are making way more stress than you need.
@wishiwaspreggo I was thinking about getting a fertility massage. When in your cycle is the best time to get one? I was thinking during the TTW?
@brookepdavis FX you get some rest! 25 meetings sounds brutal!
@darkstar42 I’m so sorry about CD1. I’m fast approaching the year mark too and I’m scared how I’m going to handle it. I feel like I'm letting myself want it more… Where will you be traveling for work? Anywhere fun?!
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
CD:8
WAYDTGKU:bbt,cm,opk,hio
R/R:Company left today we had a great weekend hiking and playing dice.
CS/Q:nope
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous? Jensen Ackles and Jared Padelecki at a supernatural convention
Month/Cycle: 9/7
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: bbt, cm, PNV, OPK
R/R: AF plus busy day is making me a grumpy bum. I literally lost my rag over recycling this morning (but seriously how many times do I have to say stop putting non-recyclables in the recycling). AF is going to give me a wee break at least from worrying about everything which will be nice, no over-analysing every twinge in my body.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: Have you ever met anyone famous?
I met Dawn French and did not tell her how much I adored her which my family could not understand but I was trying to be professional.