Okay I know this is the Infertility board but I need to vent! I have a sprinkle and a baby shower im co-hosting in April. Which I want April to be as stress free as possible for my FET. With that said I am trying to get things nailed done to take care of before hand. Long story short im stressed as [email protected]
One the sprinkle turned into a shower (Never had one so no clue but I'm pretty sure it's not a shower) where my friend is having two and being a diva. The second is a shower for a friend having twins who I think lost her mind. I found out two weeks ago it was around 40-50 people. To me that's a ton so I was nervous then I was told she wanted it out at a restaurant which was charging 600 for 40 people. Yesterday the guest list turned to 65-70 I almost threw up. She knows I'm doing IVF and money isn't growing on trees so now I feel I am in a situation there is no cap on money which I don't have unlimited funds to spend?!! What is an acceptable amount to offer to pay? I made it clear this won't be 50/50. I never agreed to 70 people. Thoughts would be greatly appreciated
Married: 5/09 ~ TTC Since: 10/10 ~ PCOS ~ Progesterone from 10/10 - 2/11 ~ HSG on 3/18 - Clear ~ Started Metformin 1000mg & Clomid 50mg 2/11 ~ Metformin upped to 1500mg 4/6 ~ 6/7 Now going to SG and put on Clomid, Ovidrel, Gonal F, Prometrium, Estrace ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP!!!!!! March 6th our little man was born.
6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived
10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP