DH has already made it quite clear that he’d rather not have kids than do IVF. His
words were something to the effect of, “IVF is the cost of a new car, and we
don’t even have a guarantee.” So apparently to him, a new car is superior to a
chance to have kids. So, at least we know where he stands? *sigh* (to be fair,
at the time he said it, his old car was having issues and he needed a new car.
Now he has the newer car, so I don’t know what he’d say now. But… grrr that he
compared a CHILD to a freaking car) Ugh… sorry your insurance isn’t paying for
the karyotyping. WHY is something like this ‘experimental’!?!? Just… how??? Stupid
insurance. I hate insurance. Maybe check to see how it was billed. Was it
billed under Infertility or Recurrent Pregnancy Loss or something? If not,
could it be?
Fingers crossed you get PG and have a successful pregnancy before April! Some
of us RPL ladies need a win, since I feel we’ve ALL just been shat upon
throughout all of 2017.
Me: 34 DH: 38
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)Married: Nov. 7, 2015MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)RPL testing November 2016-January 2017MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)Additional RPL testing March-November 2017Possibly giving up because I just can't even anymore...#BitterHagPartyOf1
BFP 1/16/2019 HCG blood qualitative test - between 5 and 25... FML...
Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis / conditions surrounding loss, etc. 4 losses
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? At home recovering from uterine septum removal
Any testing coming up/any recent results? I guess I’ll find out in a couple weeks if this surgery was a success
Thank you. Yes, having multiple losses with no live child is such a dark place
to live in. The insensitive comment really threw me. I was crying and just
frankly let her know how it is. Hope your recovery is going well! Glad you were
able to take some time off for it.
Fingers crossed they just didn’t code the karyotyping for RPL then! Hopefully
once they do all of that it will be easy-peasy!
So far DH and I have worked through it. I mean, he did agree to go through all
of the testing and see an RE (which he never would have done if it were solely
his choice). So at this point, we’ve already ‘compromised’ in that we’ve done
the testing and tried to get an answer. It’s just hard because we have NO
answers… And sorry about the big decision you have to make about TTCAL and the
degree. It sucks to put your life on hold for TTC, when all you’ve received is
loss and heartbreak. Good luck making a decision!
Me: 30 DH:32
TTC #3 since 2/17. Malignant molar missed miscarriage 8/22/17
coco2787 I have
ALL of my BFP tests. They’re the only things I have from my PGs that prove I
was actually even PG. I used to have them in a drawer in my bathroom, but DH
has put them in a box somewhere in the basement. (my shrink was concerned they
may be ‘triggering’ to me and I think was afraid I would regularly pull them
out and stare longingly at them, which is NOT the case. But whatevs)
Congrats on the job!