I'm pregnant with my second while getting to know my first. I started everything later in life, and knew I wanted #2 before 40. Didn't think I'd get my wish! Anyway, going through a bit of a bump with my sister, which I'm very close to both relationship wise and proximity. Ever since my baby was born, she has been obsessed to the point of wanting me to leave her with her and telling me what I should or shouldn't do with the baby. I want to be with my baby every day and am not comfortable just leaving her with anyone. She is 7 years older and childless. When the baby was only 3 days old and a relative told her to pass the baby to my husband, she said no he lives with her. DH was insulted but didn't say anything.It has been uncomfortable for a while, but this weekends' incident at my home caused me to say something today even though I hate confrontation and didn't want to hurt my sister.
I told my husband to change the baby's diaper because my sister was talking to a friend while holding the baby and I didn't want to interrupt the conversation. He took her to the changing station and my sister got up and ran behind him asking why he took the baby away. That she was going to change her. She took over and he was obviously bothered. I told her today via text that I had sent my husband to change the baby because I was cooking and that anyone else would have been upset by her taking the baby from him, but he took it well. She said that she was surprised by my text, that she was only trying to help and that she feels she never sees the baby and he does. She sees the baby at least twice per week. She also said that I'm too sensitive. I felt very guilty afterwards. Any insight would be appreciated. My hormones are going crazy, am taking care of my dd and growing #2. New mom problems!
I'm wondering if I overacted and what would you have done in this situation? Anything similar happen to you. I didn't foresee these problems.