This group is for those of us dealing with male factor issues. Anything from azoopsermia (zero sperm count) to oligospermia (low sperm count) and all the motility and morphology in between. Whether you are recently diagnosed and trying to make sense of it all or you have been dealing with it for years, this can be a place for everyone to share experiences, vent, ask questions etc. I personally have found IF forums more helpful than my doctors have been this far, so MFI ladies (or men! Men are welcome too!): let's come together to discuss all the issues we face such as: how to support your partner during this journey, how you are coping yourself (or not), if you are considering/using donor sperm or adoption, if you have started IUI or IVF w/ ICSI etc. etc.
Trying this out as a weekly thread..
Diagnosis (if you have one):
How long have you been on this journey?
Where are you right now in your treatment?
Any Questions??
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey
Re: Dealing with Male Infertility-week of 9/25/17
Diagnosis (if you have one): virtual Azoo, Robertsonian Translocation
How long have you been on this journey? Jan 2016
Where are you right now in your treatment? IUI with donor sperm
Any Questions?? Should I be doing OPKs for the IUI?
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey: I picked this questions because I need a reminder this week that even though its been rough lately, there is still good happening in this journey. When we found out MH results of his repeat SA after the clomid failed, he told me that he didn't want to take away the opportunity for me to be pregnant and have a bio child. We hadn't even decided on donor yet, it was actually off the table but I just thought it was sweet of him to know he knew what it meant to be to be pregnant someday.
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
Thanks for getting this started, @JuneRoseRuby
Diagnosis (if you have one): Azoo, AZFc microdeletion
How long have you been on this journey? June 2016
Where are you right now in your treatment? Our donor arrives this week! He gets in late on Thursday, so Friday we have non-stop appointments from 8AM-2:00PM. DH and I both took the day off work. The plan is to get his physical done at 8:00, grab some breakfast, and then head to the fertility clinic. From there, our donor will do his FDA-required bloodwork and make the first donation. (I really, really hope it goes smoothly, since we only get two shots at this!) Once that's done, we have to go get our power of attorney paperwork done and the day will end with my baseline ultrasound and the first of my injections. I think we will probably order out that night. Ha ha!
Any Questions?? Not at this moment. I'm hoping I've organized everything well.
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey. We've really be able to have some good talks along the way. It was really devastating when the TESE found nothing, but we took the time to just be with one another and be in love. My husband always tells everyone we are one year into our seven-year honeymoon phase. He is the sweetest.
@JuneRoseRuby Are you getting bloodwork through your clinic with the IUIs? I think you can do OPKs, but generally the bloodwork will give the best accuracy.TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
@JuneRoseRuby I've never done IUI, but I might just for piece of mind. I guess you never know how your body will react.
@AlohaKumu You have a busy day Friday! Sorry if you have said before, but why do you only have two shots with your donor? It's so exciting that everything is moving forward for you!!
Diagnosis (if you have one): low count (I never saw his actual numbers? Is that something I should request or just not worry about since I'm not a professional anyway?)
How long have you been on this journey? A month or so?
Where are you right now in your treatment? Waiting for DHs appointment (Oct 27)
Any Questions?? Do you think I should have my Dr put in orders for a repeat SA prior to DHs appointment? Initially they wanted a repeat before his appointment but said nm when they rushed to get him in so soon (which then he missed). But he still has a month before he could reschedule so that would be plenty of time for a repeat?
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey
This is a good question! I have just been frustrated lately with DH for missing his appointment and then waiting so long to reschedule. I guess as far as positive moments DH has been very reassuring that we will just take it one step at a time. It's hard for me because I'm such a planner.
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
Early on in our process, DH also missed one of his appointments. It was really frustrating and he felt bad. It wouldn't hurt to ask for orders for a repeat, but they might say that they'll just go with the numbers they already have for now.
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
Diagnosis (if you have one): Oligospermia and Teratozoospermia
How long have you been on this journey? Headed into 20mo
Where are you right now in your treatment? TWW - 7dpo and trying not to symptom spot. I seriously KNOW that I'm more than likely not PG, but I am looking for every little cramp and symptom to lead me to a BFP. We have not even gotten full swing into the Clomid yet. Someone needs to check me ladies.
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey - I liked this question and am trying on a regular basis to remind myself of my very lucky relationship with my DH. If all of this leads us to nowhere, I'm still so thankful of my journey with him. That being said, he's done stupid idiotic-male-induced-moron-related things during this journey. I tell him he's lucky he's cute or I'd have done him in a long time ago. But the other night, out of the blue, he took my hand and kissed my forehead and told me that we were meant to be on this hard journey together because no one else could endure our story but us. That was it. That's all he said. And after he just continued on with what he was doing. I of course kissed him back and when he left the room I melted into a fit of tears. He's so right. We aren't religious, so I don't have that "it's all God's plan" thing to lean on, but I do believe that things happen to certain people for whatever reason. This is meant to be our journey and who knows where it'll lead us.
JuneRoseRuby Just when I think they don't have a clue they come through with some comment that tells us they might have a better idea than we think. Sounds like you have one of the good ones.
AlohaKumu Sounds like Thursday is going to be a stressful, but very exciting day for you! I hope everything goes smoothly. Keep us up to date on how it's going.
MrsMiller8588 You certainly can request another SA. There are so many factors that go into the results that the timespan between the two can have different results. My DH missed an appointment today and I was so annoyed. We really needed him to attend.
Diagnosis (if you have one): low count (caused by TRT due to severely low T)
How long have you been on this journey? We were just informed of the low counts yesterday
Where are you right now in your treatment?
Any Questions?? Not yet, but @MrsMiller8588 mentioned this was a great board to join when I brought it up on the TWW post. I'm looking to learn how other people have processed this and get through the difficult days/weeks.
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey. We just found out yesterday, but he was so sweet about doing whatever needs to be done to get our end goal, even if it means he will have some not so great side effects.
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
Feel free to vent here as we all know how hard it is and the emotions we go through. We "get it"! You will have hard days, and there will be days that are easier.
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
Diagnosis (if you have one): MFI (DNAF)
How long have you been on this journey? Hit cycle #40 this week. Womp, womp.
Where are you right now in your treatment? WFIVF... Just a few more cycles left. Possibly as few as 3 more after this one.... Could it be that I won't get a chance to hit 45?? (Where is my fingers crossed emoji???)
Any Questions?? What do you all think of IVF med groups? Like, ones where people donate or sell the leftover meds they have?
GTKY: Share a positive moment you've experienced with YH on this IF journey, oh man, guys it's been up and down. Link, days where I though of the D word and days where I am utterly amazed by him.. it's crazy how much of a roller coaster it's been. My H is working night shifts right now (partially because he makes more money, which translates to more IVF money). So I was asleep and he was walking around the house trying to stay awake in prep for tonight's shift. And he sent me the sweetest text message.
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@MrsMiller8588 Remind me what the appointment is for? I would still ask for the numbers. Even though you aren't a professional, you want to watch the numbers trend. Keep them.. and hey, show them to us, too.
@JuneRoseRuby - I am constantly impressed by your strength, grace, and resolve. You are goals, friend. Keep on keepin' on, friend. You're a certified badass with all that you've been dealing with.
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
TTC #2 - August 2016
MFI
IUI #1-3 BFN
BFP 4/21/18 MMC 6/11/18
Also, my heart broke for MH last night. We were on the couch and he was like, 'I was thinking, maybe you should just freeze a bunch of eggs and in like 10 years, when the technology is better, maybe they will have come up with some sort of solution" and I was initially thinking, like oh you mean make more embryos with the donor and freeze, and then as he finished his sentence, I realized that he still hasn't given up on the dream of bio children and he meant finding a way to use HIS sperm... poor buddy. I mourn that dream every day, but I've accepted it that he can't have bio kids. I just felt so bad that he still has hope. I guess that is at least a healthy way of dealing, be okay moving forward with donor and hoping to have bio later?
@KristoKekerooni oh man, thanks for the love, lady! I needed that. What a love bug you have over there!
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
I know my DH also has the dream that we'll be able to use/find his sperm someday. It breaks my heart when he says he feels left out of the process at this point, but I remind him that this is just the beginning--we are doing this so he can be a daddy forever. Grief is such a tricky thing and I know we have both mourned so much throughout this process. What else can we do but just love one another?
ETA I'm sorry if that's a mess of words. I'm kind of high on cold medicine right now.
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
his appointment will be his initial consult with a urologist since his count came back low (5 mil was the number I was given over the phone).
@JuneRoseRuby Boo! So sorry for the cancelled cycle. That seriously sucks I vote next cycle if they try to cancel you - steal the frozen sample and do it at home. I'm glad that your H is moving forward even if he hasn't given up hope. I second @KristoKekerooni above that you are handling everything thrown your way with such grace. It's inspiring.
@ELeighMay Sorry for your BFN I'm in my TWW currently and full of unfounded hope so I will be right there with you in a week or so.
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
@JuneRoseRuby I'm so sorry for your cancelled cycle. Will they do it next cycle instead?
You should be damn proud of yourself with how strong you've been and the amazing things you've accomplished, even if a baby isn't on that list yet. You are a rockstar!
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
@AlohaKumu yes, we just love each other and know we are doing this for our family and we go into it on the same page. I really was thinking about the physical part of the IUI with donor last night though and it was weirding me out. Of course I am still going to do it, but I was like ugh, another man's sperm in me. I can't have sex with MH for like 2 days around the IUI, bc that seems weird. Just a weird jizz party mingling around up there... ugh. And then I went in this weird headspace where it felt like cheating, and I realize that's insane, but I had to roll over and wake up MH and double check "you're still good with donor right?" H:"yes, go to sleep now". Me: "K, Just checking"
@ELeighMay Plan for next cycle is lower dose of clomid. They started with me the standard go to. She also said possibly going with letrozol instead since it generally stimulates less than clomid. Then moving forward with IUI with donor.
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
@JuneRoseRuby I'm sorry for the rough cycle, next month will be better! It's awesome to see the messages from H and to be going through it all as a team. I have to admit though, I busted out laughing when I read "weird jizz party mingling around up there".
@KristoKekerooni those men sure can make us swoon when it really counts! Love the messages he sent. You have every right to be excited about the IVF, it may not be a guarantee, but it is a possibility and that is something to be happy about. It wouldn't be an option if there was zero chance it would work.
My DH was on TRT for just over a year. His first SA was 1mil with 4% Morph. The doc said the TRT basically is the same as a male contraceptive, all but sterilizing men. He wasn't sure if his counts would ever return from the damage it did to his system. The hard part was finding out that he shouldn't have been treated with the dosages he was given. His T was at 1500 at one point and he easily could've had a heart attack and died. That would be higher than the level that professional body builders would put themselves at to get insanely huge, and come to find out he didn't need them in the first place. His T was only slightly low and they could've treated him in another way. Did your DH go through withdrawal coming off of it? Mine was like watching an addict go through the throws of withdrawal, it was seriously horrible. We had asked the doctor that treated him, repeatedly, if it would effect our ability TC and he said flat out "no". The "hormones are just supplementing what he already has", which is total BS! No one told us once he received it artificially his system would stop producing it. Once we saw the specialist he explained how it actually works and I was so sick to my stomach I almost puked in his office. It's scary how few doctors actually seem to understand how TRT works in a man's system. Did they put your DH on Clomid or anything to help boost his levels? Mine just started Clomid and I'm anxious for his next SA to see if it's working.