My fiances father told him today that he shouldn't look when im delivering the baby and to use Vicks vapo rub because the birth smells terrible and I'll probably sh*t myself. Like maybe I would find this amusing if it wasnt such an intimate traumatic event but i don't find it amusing the least bit. For one i don't appreciate people discussing my vagina and my childbirth. Like im going to be straining my body to deliver a baby so im not really concerned if it doesn't smell like roses. Am I being sensitive? Or are my feelings valid on this?