I have a dilemma. My husband and I are having a Co ed Baby Shower. This is my second child and his first. My son in 7, so essentially we are starting over. We would like the "shower" to be more of a fun celebration for our first baby togther. A friend is hosting the event and we are doing a backyard BBQ and beer theme. We have many friends and family with children (whom we love to pieces).
Our dilemma is that there are quite a few parents that during events like this do not watch their children, for some I end up being the care giver (for instance at my wedding). We are thinking we would like it to be adults only, it may be much more relaxing for my husband and me and other parents as well. It would be far from a traditional baby shower, so is it wrong for us to exclude children?