is anybody going thru this stage with their child? how do you deal with it? a week ago we went to visit my sister in law it was a disaster. my son was ok from time to time. but when that anxiety kicked in he would cry. he would want to run out to the front door, would not sit in our lap, cry and climb on us till we got it. it was a very stressful visit. it sucks because i feel like this stops me from wanting to do anything with anyone. my sister goes to places with her kids and the couple times i have went with her its so stressful cause my child cries like there is no tomorrow. any tips on how to ease down the process? do you have your share of stressful moments?