Well, I finally came out on FB-I thought tomorrow being appropriate. I know everyone has a different way of doing things but here is my post:
"A kind reminder that tomorrow is International Bereaved Mother's Day. I stand with those who have suffered miscarriage, infant loss/stillbirth, or any circumstance in which a child was taken from them too early. Not everyone's path follows the way they imagine it to be. For me it was developing Graves Disease immediately after mine in early 2016. I'm a lucky girl with a family already-me, J--- and Pooka. And we deal with whatever life brings our way. While I think I speak for most women in that we don't like shouting these things from the rooftops of social media, I don't believe we should hang our heads in shame, either. Thanks."