Hi all, FTM mom here, also 40 years old which makes things extra never-wrecking for me. For those 2nd, 3rd, etc time moms who bought fetal dopplers, did you find it helpful in terms of getting reassurance or did you find it causes extra anxiety if at times you couldn't find a heart rate after initially finding one? I'm considering getting one for some peace of mind between doctors appointments, but I worry that I will a) become OCD over it and check all the time and panic over every change in heart rate, or b)have major panic attacks if for some reason I couldn't pick up a h/b. Are there times because of baby's position that you just can't pick one up? I also have a SCH with bleeding with this pregnancy so I'm always worried and sometimes would like some additional reassurance.