July 2017 Moms

Calling all lurkers!

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Re: Calling all lurkers!

  • Thank you @Caribbeanmama!!   <3

    And I totally agree with everyone, @shanana1234567 if you plan on keeping your lurker status then why did you feel the need to post that comment?  This thread has been really wonderful for those of us who really wanted to jump back in, but didn't know quite how to do it.   You apparently are not someone that fits into that category, so you really could've just continued on lurking without posting.   
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Agree!!
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         due to previous issues.
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  • @caribbeanmama I was a member of the July 15 board. Seems like forever ago, but I was totally a lurker then as well. 
    caribbeanmama-2
  • Eta: I saw this thread when it first posted and began my response immediately after but never got to finishing it till just now. I swear there are a ton of threads that I've left a saved draft on and never have come back to them. I'm horrible, I know. 
    I've done this,too.  I just went back to read new intros on the Intro/EDD thread and my intro was sitting there, since November!  I've done it on other threads as well where I've gotten busy and by the time I come back what I was saying had been said and the conversation has moved on.  I am also an over cautious commenter where I will read and reread what I'm going to say so I don't ruffle feathers.  So, sometimes, my posts never get posted for that reason alone.  
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    TTC:6/2016
    BFP: 11/22/2016 | EDD: 7/29/2017


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    @caribbeanmama and @sakeefer fellow July15 mom here - I was semi-active until the exodus and just couldn't really get back into after that, plus I was close with my July14 group on FB. Apparently July is my month to have the babies lol 





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  • Yikes!! I didn't realize I could offend so many people with commenting about how lurking and minimal posting to me isn't a bad thing. I did not say I am more busy than anyone else nor that people who post more must be less busy. But given the title of the post I just thought I would throw my two sense in that I don't see what's wrong lurking or posting minimally whatever you comfort level is. Someone could post 1000 times and add no value while someone could post 5 times and add tons of value. I don't see why it has to be all or none. No one is obligated to post more or less than their comfort level. This post did call out the lurkers, just wanted to share my two cents that not everyone wants to be a "contributing member" and that's fine with me.  I can appreciate a post from the active member as much as from the lurker. Maybe this should've been in the UO thread. 
  • Lol ok ladies you win. I'll take my creepy post and bow out gracefully. 
  • Eta: I saw this thread when it first posted and began my response immediately after but never got to finishing it till just now. I swear there are a ton of threads that I've left a saved draft on and never have come back to them. I'm horrible, I know. 
    I've done this,too.  I just went back to read new intros on the Intro/EDD thread and my intro was sitting there, since November!  I've done it on other threads as well where I've gotten busy and by the time I come back what I was saying had been said and the conversation has moved on.  I am also an over cautious commenter where I will read and reread what I'm going to say so I don't ruffle feathfers.  So, sometimes, my posts never get posted for that reason alone.  
    Same here! I would hate to offend or come across as insensitive towards anyone especially when it's not my intention. I also still have my intro/edd sitting at the bottom of that thread. I should just finish it up and post it. Hopefully I'll complete that today. 
    SaphireSweetie88
  • @StacyH0507 There is still a weekly STM check in! I post it on Wednesday's so feel free to jump in this week! :)
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  • Thanks @LuLiLaEv I will look for it!

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  • I'm actually watching out for a couple names I haven't seen post in a while. 

    How's it going? @runrestrepeat
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  • Hey, @caribbeanmama! It's going well - lots of movement and a follow up scan in a week. I hope things are going well for you!
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  • @Nellin sorry to hear that you are going through that! FX that the monitoring reveals no major issues, and that she stays put inside for many more weeks. 
    nellin-2
  • @oheliza44 Thanks! Have a referral to see more specialised specialist now so hopefully she can give me some good news! 
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