Any STMs+ feeling the pressure from family (and/or loved ones, friends, etc.) about hoping for one sex or the other? There are so many girls in our family and everyone is drilling into me that I MUST be having a boy, and everyone is feeling so confident that I am that I feel like if its another girl, they are going to feel sorry for me! We weren't going to find out the sex but now we are going to have a small reveal at our home on Thursday, and I cant shake this feeling of when we share the news that the excitement will be lost if "its another girl." I think all the "boy" hype is also building up my husband and I am really scared he is going to feel let down if its not. I mean, I know he is going to be outwardly happy regardless the outcome, but I am sad to think that in silence he may be disappointed that he'll never have his son. For me, I never had a sister and I think having a sister for my DD would be awesome. I also know everything girl, so I'd be very comfortable in my element once baby is here, which is still besides the point because truthfully I would be happy with either. In retrospect, I wish I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant until after we found out what we are having so that way there wasn't so much anticipation for what we are having. Sorry, i'm kind of just rambling on about this.
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