Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss


i just lost our seeet little girl at 20weeks on Wednesday. I had no symptoms and only found out from a routine ultrasound. We are completely devastated ans I am having trouble with all the emotions involved. My DH has been amazing and I have tons of support but I still feel alone. 

They had to induce labor and I had todeliver my baby knowing I wouldn't be able to take her home with me. It took so long to conceive her this time around it made it that much harder to learn of our loss. 

This is the first time I have had to go through something like this. I am hoping time will heal and as the days go by it will be easier to go through the days without her.

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  • @jamies2girls I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also going through a M/C (at 11 weeks). It's the hardest and most painful thing I've gone through both physically and emotionally, but I'm told it gets better. Someone had suggested on another thread to commemorate your baby with something like a piece of jewelry you can keep on you or something for your house. I thought it was a nice idea. You could also think about a memorial or some kind of service for your baby even if it's just you and DH. Again, I'm very sorry you're going through this. All the hugs. 
    Me: 34 | DH: 33
    Married Aug. 2013
    TTC #1 Sep. 2016
    BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d
    BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
    BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
    All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
    BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
    My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d

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    so sorry for your loss :(
    Siggy Warning--------

    CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
    cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
    iUI #1- BFN
    IUI #2-BFN
    IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
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  • SP128SP128 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.   I know it's unimaginable right now, but it does get better with time.
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18

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