Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

24 hours

I have one beautiful daughter, she's almost 3. I now have not one, but two children who never got to feel the sun. A thousand voices have told me that this wasn't my fault but its hard to feel that way when there are concerns that my blood dyscrasia caused it. We saw a heartbeat on 1/25 at 6 weeks. I should have been 6 weeks 6 days based on LMP, but there was a strong heartbeat. We just assumed I had ovulated a day or two later than usual. I felt fine from the moment I tested on 1/13, 4 days late until 2pm on 1/26. In 24 hours, we lost so many new dreams. After several hours at the emergency room on the 26th, and multiple at my OB on the 27th, we were sent home and told to hope for the best. My bloodwork said I was "pregnant", it was 474. My ultrasound at the hospital indicated I was 4 weeks, no evidence of fetal pole or heartbeat. My husband and I all ready knew, and I miscarried at home yesterday. My follow up bloodwork today had my HCG at 120. I'm devastated, my husband is so sad. We lost another pregnancy just a few months ago. They are referring us back to hematology because I was diagnosed with a blood defect following my daugther's labor and delivery and now to a fertility specialist for recurrent miscarriage. I have a follow up US on Valentines day to make sure my body has passed everything, its just a little more insult to injury to be that day.

I'm sorry that we all have to be here. 

Re: 24 hours

  • I am so sorry you're having to go through this! Los is never easy, but it certainly stings a bit more when they come one after the other. I had a chemical pregnancy back in march and a m/c recently at 7 weeks due to a lighted ovum. While  I ha e an incredible 5 year old at home, I can't help but feel sad about the little ones that never got to live. 

    I am hoping that you are able to get some answers and a plan in place that will help you bring a healthy rainbow baby into this world. Sending you lots of hugs. 
    Me 36 DH 38
    Married 1/22/10
    BFP #1 3/11 m/c 7w 3d blighted ovum
    BFP #2 5/11 DD born 1/12
    BFP #3 3/16 Chemical Pregnancy
    BFP #4 12/16 m/c 7w blighted ovum
  • @Yankee8884 Sorry for your losses. I hope you heal quickly, both emotionally and physically. 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
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  • @yankee8884 I'm so sorry. Sending hugs your way.
  • I'm sorry for your losses :( it's so hard, sending positive vibes your way. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • I'm sorry that you have to go through this again. It's so incredibly difficult. Take care 
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18

  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope these new doctor appointments provide some answers. 
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I am so sorry for your losses. There is still hope, though if you have "only" had 2 losses. Still every reason to hope. 
    Siggy Warning--------

    CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
    cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
    iUI #1- BFN
    IUI #2-BFN
    IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
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