March 2017 Moms

Monday Bitch Fest 1/23

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Re: Monday Bitch Fest 1/23

  • Work is so slowwwwww and I forgot my crochet bag at home. 

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  • If anyone saw my rant from last week, about my company changing our maternity policy from 8 weeks short term disability (66% salary) + option to take 5 more weeks unpaid under FMLA to 12 weeks fully paid leave, I have bad news. All of us who are pregnant now fought for it to go into effect immediately or at least to grandfather in the women in the company who are currently pregnant and planning leave. But the effective date is for babies born on or after June 1 2017. They decided against including us, and we are shut out of the new policy. So my colleague who is due a few months after me gets her time fully paid, even though it's possible that both of us will be on leave the same month (June), she will be receiving 100% pay and I will be receiving no pay, or using all my vacation for the remainder of the year to receive any pay my last month of leave.  

    Understand they need to enforce a cut off date but it just seems like if you're currently pregnant, you should be included. If you've already had your baby and on your leave, maybe you're out of luck - certainly you'd be out of luck if you are back to work following your leave - but if your leave hasn't started?? Or overlaps with the date in policy change??  :|
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  • My students are plucking my nerves. Had one this morning refuse to take his hood off. His hair was cut to short. I'm like you are a senior by now you should know how to tell the person who cuts your hair how it should look. He couldn't stay and chose to leave class. 

  • @jenny0228 That blows the big one. I'm so sorry!  :/
  • @jenny0228 ahhhhhhhhh. I'm so so so sorry. 
  • @jenny0228 I'm so sorry about their decision... That is just infuriating. 
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    I know this is about symptoms, but I'm SO BOTHERED by it that it totally qualifies for this board IMO.. my arms are going COMPLETELY DEAD NUMB EVERY SINGLE TIME I lay down. If I am not sitting up straight they tingle, go numb and then full blown out PAIN ensues. I cannot find a pillow or position to help this except to sleep straight up in a rocking chair which is practically impossible for me. I haven't slept in days and I'm so pissed off by it and just want some freaking sleep! Not even that long, just give me an hour or two! 
  • @C25 have you called the doctor?
  • @c25 sounds like a visit to the chiropractor is in order. 

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  • @jenny0228 sorry to hear about that. That REALLY sucks. 

    @c25 I've experienced something similar when not pregnant when my carpal tunnel was really bad. But if it's bad enough that you're not sleeping, your dr should be Intervening in some way. What has the dr said?
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  • I'm getting no sleep bc my son keeps laying on this spot in my back (which I think is probably broken from a car accident I was in incidentally when we found out we were pregnant) and its causing me enough pain it makes me nauseous. It also makes my legs and specifically toes go numb.

    The exhaustion is overwhelming at times...plus I chase around a 17 mo old everyday after work.

    Short on patience

  • Damn @silverbulletband ... now I want tacos.... ha ha
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  • @rw3190 holy cow...that sounds miserable! Is there some way to help that pain? Have you seen a doctor about a potentially broken back? 

    @npaulie right?! Or nachos even. Im exercising my feminine wiles on DH trying to bargain for tacos. Which is super easy because he loves to feed me haha 

    @mecoats that made me laugh out loud! Your hubby and FIL are wise men! 
  • My students are plucking my nerves. Had one this morning refuse to take his hood off. His hair was cut to short. I'm like you are a senior by now you should know how to tell the person who cuts your hair how it should look. He couldn't stay and chose to leave class. 
    This is why I'm happy my school district allows hats. No battle for me to have to enforce. 
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  • @C25 You can get braces for your wrists to wear at night that help relieve the carpal tunnel. 

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  • kap1988kap1988 member
    edited January 2017
    The girl I've been training for the last 6 weeks to replace me during my leave came to me today and said she's worried about having enough time to learn how to do my job.  I basically taught myself how to do the job with no training because they had some problems with staff right before me and there was nobody to train me. And she's had 6 weeks and she gets, hopefully, 5 or 6 more.  I am the only full time employee, there is one other paralegal who is part time and the company is bending over backward to allow me to have 3 months off and they hired this girl specifically to cover my leave.  There is literally nobody else to do my job, except the part time person who has three kids and just can't work more than 20 hours, let alone cover my 40.  I already feel guilty about taking the time and all that they've done to make sure I can and now I'm freaked out she's going to quit and we will all be screwed.

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    Metformin + Femara + Gonal F + Trigger = BFP 6/24/16 

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  • @kap1988 she will be FINE!  And if she isn't, then they need to hire a more qualified temp.  Do NOT let her inability to pickup on things keep you from spending time with your baby that you will never get back. Hang in there, I know how frustrating this can be. <3

    Additionally - I would take crazy amounts of "maternity notes" incase they do need to hire someone else in her absence and yours.
     I really just need to do my best to train her and then come March 2nd it's not my problem anymore.  I love my job and the company I work for but you're right, I will never get those three months with my baby back.  Thank you for the perspective. 

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    TTC #1 since March 2015

    Metformin + Femara + Gonal F + Trigger = BFP 6/24/16 

    EDD 3/3/17

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  • C25C25 member
    edited January 2017
    @disneybaby84 @npaulie @DrillSergeantCat

    i went to the chiro last week and and it didn't go away but I'm thinking of trying another one (new to this area so trying out new doctors)! 

    Ive had carpal tunnel and DeQuarvains syndrome with my other babies so this numbing is fairly normal to me..but the pain and no sleep consistently is just getting too much. I'll be asking the OB for sure about it next week but I have a feeling he will say I can wait it out or go visit a specialist which all they will do is offer surgery post partum or the braces. Which i do have the braces so I should try them again! Last time I tried them I knocked myself in the face so I never wore them again hahaha
  • @C25 my carpal tunnel was as bad as you describe before I started wearing the brace on my right hand.  The pain from my elbow down was so intense it would keep me awake.   I'm now wearing braces on both wrists and the right hand is numb 24/7 but no longer painful.

    Talk to your doctor, but if you have the braces it certainly wouldn't hurt to wear then and see if it gives you enough relief to get some more sleep before your next appointment.

    My OB said that wearing them 24/7 would bring the most relief, but I don't have the patience to wear them during the day.
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  • kiyamurph said:
    samm1225 said:
    I'm feeling like I have to explain how to do everything to my husband and its getting really freaking irritating. He's not by any means dumb, he just doesn't think sometimes. Or maybe it's just that we don't think the same way. Either way, aggravating!
    I swear guys do this on purpose sometimes. I think they act dumb so we get frustrated so we can just do whatever it is that we need them to do ourselves. 
    There's an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond where he does exactly this, my husband was watching it and I swear he does it on purpose occasionally
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    @MrsBinPA that's nice to hear that they worked for someone else! I'll definitely be trying them this week
  • @direwolfmini snap and blame pregnancy hormones 
  • @direwolfmini I agree with PP, you need to stand up for yourself. They are taking serious advantage of you and putting you in a position that could hurt your career in the future. Personally I'd refuse to make any decisions above my position.
  • @vino831 who do you have for insurance? we are on tricare and my tdap is covered. where did you go to have it done?
  • So I live in the DMV area where they give us an option to use traditional tricare or John Hopkins - US Family Health Plan. (Which i have) But it's still under tricare. I'm also a disabled vet. Maybe I can go to VA and avoid the $75. Ridiculous.
  • i agree, that's nuts.
  • @C25 Not sure if you have tried this already or not but at my last prenatal massage I mentioned that I was having carpal tunnel pain and she did some extra work on my arms that made the numbness/pain go away for a couple months! It just started coming back this last week and I'm planning on making another appointment soon.

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    Married: 6/6/15 <3

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