@eggplantface Yes to the "should of"!!!!!!!! Like, you are a well educated adult that spent thousands of dollars on a quality education and you cannot put together a coherent sentence!
@soemthingclever In the weekly randoms thread earlier this week, someone mentioned that some of the BMBs had posts that mentioned previous posts on TB or BC with high drama. There was one on the July 14 BMB that outed a catfish who was on the board for over a year that wasn't actually KU. It was high entertainment!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
1) I agree with all things grammar related. 2) I agree - don't leave your 7 month old on the bed solo...and certainly don't FB post about it. 3) @haylsbayls I want to hear your theory! You also now have me wondering about my theory...hmm. 4) @Kiki75 I agree with @LuND, I think I need some inspiration...or just laughter in my life. Also, those FB posts. See my point above about laughter.
ETA: I have not had time to check out this alpaca thread or dive too deeply into the catfish threads, but I need to start making a list of this stuff!
My FFFC? I plan on propping my feet up, pouring a glass of wine, and spending far too much time reading other people's drama to avoid my own this evening!
Wow. I go grocery shopping and clean my house and I miss all sorts of things. I agree on the grammar stuff. But in that topic, while my phone gives me all types of grammatical errors, I admit I don't proof read before hitting post reply. Oops.
Also who the eff leaves their kid alone on a bed for longer than say it takes to scratch your ass?!?
My FFFC is I will judge you. I will judge you on how you present yourself, how you speak, how you take care of the things you own, and so much more. Judgie McJudgerson here.
@zwink1 Glad I'm not the only one with a theory! Haha
@soemthingclever I don't know who it is -- or even if there is one, I was just saying that I made up my mind about who I think one could be. I think most catfish schemes aren't started with malicious intent. Most probable (like with the one on the BMB) it's a woman who is bored or lonely, looking for a community to be a part of.
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@eggplantface@soemthingclever I rarely use semicolons. If I do it's because I'm walking the line between seemingly fragmented sentences, and run-on sentences and I'm feeling too lazy to reword enough to avoid the semicolon LOL
@canonmom I, too, can be a Judgie McJudgerson. I will say, however, that it's almost 100% directed at people I don't know. Once I'm familiar with you, I'm far more gracious.
Still on mobile so sorry if this is huge (and blurry) but with the way this conversation has been going I thought I should share this one. DH actually got me this mug as an anniversary gift ha ha. He really knows the way to my heart...proper grammar and swearing.
@haylsbayls I agree, I am always suspicious of catfish on here. I also have people that I refuse to comment on because in my mind they are catfish. This is me with all newbs
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
My FFFC is I shamelessly love gossip (judging by some of the above, I'm not alone!) I don't like to spread it but MAN do I love me some good juicy gossip.
@LuND may I have some examples of "white trash" grammar? Because I'm extremely curious to know if it's what I'm thinking of.
I may have used improper grammar. I apologize. :X
Me: 29 DH: 32 Married 9/27/2014 TTC Since 1/1/2017 BFP: 2/6/2017 Due Date: 10/13/17
@hartmich you'll never figure it out!!!!! muwahahahahahaha
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
@juneroseruby You're right! Because my FFFC is I am really bad at remembering screen names. Like obviously there are those of you that I "know" but sometimes I'll see someone comment @ someone and I'm like HOW did they know that, I've never seen this screen name before! And then I click on it and they've been around for weeks/months...
@JuneRoseRuby Hahaha yes! I've never responded to this particular person because I've always thought it was a possibility. I'm so happy that others are chiming in and proving I'm not alone! This is how I thought the conversation would go, not being put on the spot to spill
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Yes to all the grammar things! I also hate "try and" instead of "try to."
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
@feeislove stuff like "I don't got time for that," or like what @dogdisnylovr said: "I seen that." I certainly don't think you're a "white trash" grammar offender
Don't get me started on Welfare insurance covering EVERYTHING! one time a patient wanted her IF US billed to Medicaid, I though oooooh no way are you getting away with this, her DR. even told her that it could not be done. Anyways she came in and was supposed to give us her new insurance, but when I asked she said to bill the welfare one.....I was like umm we can't do that. Anyways her Dr. lets us know she isn't referring her for any more and three months later she calls to make an appt and says that the same Dr. referred her, so I called her Dr. to get a referral and her DR. tells me that she told her she isn't referring her here because of the insurance she wants billed and we can't do that in this state. Anyways she is a difficult person to deal with so I didn't feel bad doing all that just so she doesn't get away with it.
I admit sometimes my grammar is not the best.
I have become more judgmental and I blame it on my job. How are you on welfare and have a IPhone 7 plus, a coach purse, and driving an Audi, while I'm over here paying for insurance with a $12,000 Deductible?
I'm sorry if my post offends anyone, that is not my intention.
@esmegray I'm just gonna throw this out there that a little part of me is so glad that you went through all that just to make sure she didn't get away with it.....I can't stand all these frequent flyers we get at the hospital for drugs who are on welfare insurance and get whatever they want.....and as you said I'm not trying to offend anyone either just throwing it out there because I work hard and pay for my own medical bills and health insurance.
@lulu1180 + everyone else ; hahahaha I swear I didn't mean to get everyone all riled up! It's just a fun reminder to be aware of stranger danger on the internet
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@LuND that's what I thought it was but I didn't want to assume. There's plenty of that in the area I live. Everyone just excuses it by saying "well this is the South" or "well that's because we're in such-and-such county". No. You're not speaking correctly. YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG.
Me: 29 DH: 32 Married 9/27/2014 TTC Since 1/1/2017 BFP: 2/6/2017 Due Date: 10/13/17
haha @haylsbayls It's fun to think about. We'll have to see if anyone disappears after this without appearing on a BMB. This will be all of us for a little while now lol
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Oh good lord, I'm that person you most likely hate because my grammar is absolutely horrible. I try but damn english is hard sometimes. Feel free to correct me because I'll keep doing it if I don't know it's wrong.
I guess I knew it was possible (catfish). I also guess I just never really cared that much. This is the internet, so it is what it is.
I read that BMB thread. Daaaang. I am a real person really trying to have a baby, but I'll never care to share any recognizable details about myself or photos of myself or my (hopefully) future children. If that makes me look like a catfish, oh well!
SN used to be soemthingclever Me: 28 DH: 35 Dx PCOS May 2015 Baby #1 due 12/7/17
Holy wow I got back from my SHG and saw 30 new posts here and I was so excited thinking someone had actually been exposed haha. I would be sad if I found out someone who posts regularly was a catfish
@haylbayls you have me so paranoid now! Lol Also, when you said "stranger danger" all I could think of was a movie my Dad made me watch when I was a kid about "stranger danger". I remember crying uncontrollably after watching it. I just spent 10 minutes googling 1990's Stranger Danger movie...I will find it!
All the ladies commenting on grammar reminded me of my other FFFC:
@eggplantface Yes to the "should of"!!!!!!!! Like, you are a well educated adult that spent thousands of dollars on a quality education and you cannot put together a coherent sentence!
@soemthingclever In the weekly randoms thread earlier this week, someone mentioned that some of the BMBs had posts that mentioned previous posts on TB or BC with high drama. There was one on the July 14 BMB that outed a catfish who was on the board for over a year that wasn't actually KU. It was high entertainment!
::::lurking::::
I was on that BMB with my 2nd pregnancy. It was a shit show. You can never be too careful.
hahahay @bluejeanbabi05 I tagged you in a comment yesterday I think!! Besides the members of TTGP, anyone that has the screen name Knottie####### is immediately a catfish to me. I never respond to a Knottie. It always seems like Knotties are assholes anyways. They are always getting flamed.
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
The thing is that his quotes are all so inane. As for the rest, I don't have that USB with me today. I had to start a new holding place doc for today. This one is funny because he's really surly and mirthless. And this is today's gem. Proofread before enlightening me for crying out loud.
@jess0211 The catfish don't bother me, it's all the lurkers that never post or even have accounts. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but everything we say is out there for the entire world to see!
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Re: FFFC 1/13
@soemthingclever In the weekly randoms thread earlier this week, someone mentioned that some of the BMBs had posts that mentioned previous posts on TB or BC with high drama. There was one on the July 14 BMB that outed a catfish who was on the board for over a year that wasn't actually KU. It was high entertainment!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
2) I agree - don't leave your 7 month old on the bed solo...and certainly don't FB post about it.
3) @haylsbayls I want to hear your theory! You also now have me wondering about my theory...hmm.
4) @Kiki75 I agree with @LuND, I think I need some inspiration...or just laughter in my life. Also, those FB posts. See my point above about laughter.
ETA: I have not had time to check out this alpaca thread or dive too deeply into the catfish threads, but I need to start making a list of this stuff!
My FFFC? I plan on propping my feet up, pouring a glass of wine, and spending far too much time reading other people's drama to avoid my own this evening!
Also who the eff leaves their kid alone on a bed for longer than say it takes to scratch your ass?!?
My FFFC is I will judge you. I will judge you on how you present yourself, how you speak, how you take care of the things you own, and so much more. Judgie McJudgerson here.
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
@soemthingclever I don't know who it is -- or even if there is one, I was just saying that I made up my mind about who I think one could be. I think most catfish schemes aren't started with malicious intent. Most probable (like with the one on the BMB) it's a woman who is bored or lonely, looking for a community to be a part of.
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@canonmom I, too, can be a Judgie McJudgerson. I will say, however, that it's almost 100% directed at people I don't know. Once I'm familiar with you, I'm far more gracious.
Married since: May 2015
TTC #1 since August 2016 (also TTC for 3 months in Fall 2015)
Still on mobile so sorry if this is huge (and blurry) but with the way this conversation has been going I thought I should share this one. DH actually got me this mug as an anniversary gift ha ha. He really knows the way to my heart...proper grammar and swearing.
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
This is me with all newbs
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
@LuND may I have some examples of "white trash" grammar? Because I'm extremely curious to know if it's what I'm thinking of.
I may have used improper grammar. I apologize. :X
Married 9/27/2014
TTC Since 1/1/2017
BFP: 2/6/2017
Due Date: 10/13/17
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
DD born: 3/31/19
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
@haylsbayls @JuneRoseRuby ooooooooooooh I have a strong feeling I may know who it is!!!!!!
@feeislove stuff like "I don't got time for that," or like what @dogdisnylovr said: "I seen that." I certainly don't think you're a "white trash" grammar offender
ETA clarification
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Don't get me started on Welfare insurance covering EVERYTHING! one time a patient wanted her IF US billed to Medicaid, I though oooooh no way are you getting away with this, her DR. even told her that it could not be done. Anyways she came in and was supposed to give us her new insurance, but when I asked she said to bill the welfare one.....I was like umm we can't do that. Anyways her Dr. lets us know she isn't referring her for any more and three months later she calls to make an appt and says that the same Dr. referred her, so I called her Dr. to get a referral and her DR. tells me that she told her she isn't referring her here because of the insurance she wants billed and we can't do that in this state. Anyways she is a difficult person to deal with so I didn't feel bad doing all that just so she doesn't get away with it.
I admit sometimes my grammar is not the best.
I have become more judgmental and I blame it on my job. How are you on welfare and have a IPhone 7 plus, a coach purse, and driving an Audi, while I'm over here paying for insurance with a $12,000 Deductible?
I'm sorry if my post offends anyone, that is not my intention.
I really can't figure out who it might be! You all now have me checking to see who you're not commenting on and love titting lol
edit to add gif
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Married 9/27/2014
TTC Since 1/1/2017
BFP: 2/6/2017
Due Date: 10/13/17
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
I read that BMB thread. Daaaang. I am a real person really trying to have a baby, but I'll never care to share any recognizable details about myself or photos of myself or my (hopefully) future children. If that makes me look like a catfish, oh well!
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
My rant is that they show up and it's a mother and her two kids - is this even legal?! What the heck?!
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
All the ladies commenting on grammar reminded me of my other FFFC:
I was on that BMB with my 2nd pregnancy. It was a shit show. You can never be too careful.
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
This one is funny because he's really surly and mirthless.
And this is today's gem. Proofread before enlightening me for crying out loud.
ETA: Dude is a full on adult. He's 51.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks