Got a last minute invite to a Halloween "party" (adults drinking, kids counting candy until bedtime). It's my DH's best friend and his wife, so I figure it'll be fun.
We started playing games after their kids went to bed. With alcohol involved, of course, it gets inappropriate. Someone makes a joke about "pulling out" and then DH's best friend turns to DH and said, "That's what you're doing wrong!"
DH said something to this friend after he kept asking about us having kids, and he finally said that we've been trying for a while and that it's stressing me out. I thought that this would stop the questions, the jokes, the comments. Because once this friend knows, everyone DH is close to will know.
What should I do? I ended up making a comment like "Great, everyone knows..." because I was too embarrassed to do anything else.
Married 4 years, TTC 3 years
Dx: Unexplained infertility, hypothyroidism/Hashimoto's, MTHFR Mutation
DH - low motility
Rx: Levothyroxine, misc supplements