odd advice from doctor

jaysgirl1707

Ok. So had a check up today. Everything with the baby is fine.

Spicyweiner

jaysgirl1707 said:

Ok. So had a check up today. Everything with the baby is fine.

Dafuq? 

jaysgirl1707

Omg.....i wrote like 3 whole paragraphs......

Spicyweiner

Are you familiar with our board at all? I don't recognize your SN. 

jaysgirl1707

I just browse most of the time. This is the first time I've had a legitimate question. I've only commented on two posts before because, my phone doesn't have an app and the mobile site is so hard to use.

jaysgirl1707

But when he pulled my pants down, looked at my scar (previous c section DD is 2.5 years old) he proceeded to tell me I am not allowed to be shaving down there. Because I might "nick" the scar.......i tried looking online. I can not find anyone else who was told this. Aside from a woman saying her doctor said to wait 6 weeks after her c section before shaving. And this was never said at my two week follow up with him 2 YEARS AGO. so I've been shaving it the whole time obviously. And I basically think this is complete crap......not to mention he then tried to (what I felt) scare me into having a second c section, which had me in tears at home. This is the same doctor who did my c section. And I don't know if I trust him anymore. Thoughts?

jaysgirl1707

I am so sorry about all these comments. Like I said, is soooooo hard to use on my phone, and on the web it wouldn't allow me to create a new discussion

Spicyweiner

You know, this really could have gone in any of our weekly threads. 
It really didn't need its own post. 
We generally frown upon people making their own posts for random questions as it clutters up our boards. 
I'm not really sure what your question even is...

birdiejo

He pulled your pants down? 

Spicyweiner

homemake said:

He pulled your pants down? 

And spanked her for being a naughty girl. 

jaysgirl1707

It erased everything else that was written because i wrote emojis. -_-

birdiejo

I've never had a c-section so I have no idea but that does sound weird. 

jaysgirl1707

He pulled them down to get to my pubic bone to measure. Are you serious right now? This is exactly why I never talk on these things. I was asking if it was a real thing that I can't shave my self down there. I'll delete it. Jesus Christ

Spicyweiner

Um, are you serious right now? 

birdiejo

jaysgirl1707 said:

He pulled them down to get to my pubic bone to measure. Are you serious right now? This is exactly why I never talk on these things. I was asking if it was a real thing that I can't shave my self down there. I'll delete it. Jesus Christ

Just a little humor. Like I said above, it sounds super weird to me. 

jaysgirl1707

What the fuck ever. This shit is supposed to be to support one another and all I ever get is hostility. I cannot delete it, it will let me edit it. So screw it. I'll just delete my damn account because fuck this site.

Spicyweiner

jaysgirl1707 said:

But when he pulled my pants down, looked at my scar (previous c section DD is 2.5 years old) he proceeded to tell me I am not allowed to be shaving down there. Because I might "nick" the scar.......i tried looking online. I can not find anyone else who was told this. Aside from a woman saying her doctor said to wait 6 weeks after her c section before shaving. And this was never said at my two week follow up with him 2 YEARS AGO. so I've been shaving it the whole time obviously. And I basically think this is complete crap......not to mention he then tried to (what I felt) scare me into having a second c section, which had me in tears at home. This is the same doctor who did my c section. And I don't know if I trust him anymore. Thoughts?

QFP

birdiejo

@jaysgirl1707 if you saw one of our other threads, we're talking about ticks in vaginas. It's all meant to be lighthearted. 

PerraSucia

This was amazing. 

Spicyweiner

homemake said:

@jaysgirl1707 if you saw one of our other threads, we're talking about ticks in vaginas. It's all meant to be lighthearted. 

Yeah, maybe if you lurked a little or got to know the culture of our board, you wouldn't have your panties in a wad....

Patience7150

jaysgirl1707 said:

What the fuck ever. This shit is supposed to be to support one another and all I ever get is hostility. I cannot delete it, it will let me edit it. So screw it. I'll just delete my damn account because fuck this site.

At least you won't delete the baby. 

I'm sorry you're not getting the support you were seeking. What your doc said does seem odd. The presentation of this question is really humorous though and I'm sorry I'm not sorry for laughing at your expense. 

foxrosy

I kinda needed this tonight.

WinchesterGirl

Errr... what?

expandcontract

I can't stop laughing! 
In all seriousness though,  @jaysgirl1707, I would seek out another OB. This dude sounds weird. I've had a hysteroscopy twice and my OB never told me that I should avoid shaving down there once it healed. 

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