Psychics and Baby Predictions *TW - Loss mentioned*

jwg9101

So I posted this in the TTC After Loss board and had several people reach out to me about it. I thought I'd share it here in case some of you are interested too. I don't know how it works, but I know that I feel incredibly peaceful about it.

I'm sure many of you wont be into this, but in case any of you are, I thought I'd share my recent experience. This weekend I went to a woman that I trust. She's very clear that she isn't a psychic (I just used that in the title because it's a more well known term). She's an intuitive life coach and she's amazing in many ways. Anyway, she did a reading for me before and saw my baby (the one we lost). 

I did a second reading with her and this time, as soon as we connected she told me that I was going to have another baby. It will be a girl and she described her in detail. She said that the baby isn't ready to come yet (we've talked a lot about how children carry a choice to come). I can go into that more in detail one-on-one if anyone is interested but it was painful for me and I don't want to inflict that on others. 

Talking to her brought me an incredible measure of peace. You will have to decide for yourself if you believe. I won't know for sure until next year if her predictions come true, but if anyone just wants comfort, healing, and/or answers, I highly recommend speaking to her. With the life coach side, it's very similar to speaking to a counselor and she gave me many solid exercises for dealing with the grief I've been experiencing as well. 

If if you're interested, I'd be happy to pass her info on. I don't understand how she knows what she knows, but the things she has told me before have been 100% accurate so I believe she knows something!

flashley-2

I am really into things like this !

I truly believe our life has a plan and a meaning and there are people who have this ability. 

I would love to get her information !

herewegoagain3rd

How much does it cost? I am non really a believer but curious as to what she says. 

jwg9101

Sending both of you the info to your inbox now! I'm glad you don't think I'm totally nuts!

Hoping4Success

Thats crazy i had a lady actually tell me in a couple of month i will be pregnant she has some energy and can feel it she had me squeeze her hands and close my eyes and take deep breath in and out and i swear i got something to come theough me i asked her if she was physic she said no i just have helped so many girl get pregnant  and she is certain i will be pregnant and the crazy part is that when ill be doing my transfer after the whole process of ivf   

FatPony

Interesting. Can you keep us up to date on her predictions? Very interested to see how it turns out

mskeenan

Trigger warning

* loss and pregnancy mentioned **


I believe in this stuff ! People make fun of me but I really do . A psychic predicted my first pregnancy, but unfortunately it ended in a loss very early . She knew the exact month I would get pregnant .  She told me that it was a little girl who just wasn't ready to come didn't ask her for any more predictions after that . She did tell my mil I would be pregnant again soon with a little boy that is very ready to be  and sure enough I'm currently 27 weeks with a little man . It is nice to think that there is some purpose behind our struggle but on days I felt defeated sometimes it just made me angry - like I had no control in any of this . I found in my IF journey that at diff times diff things gave me comfort . If this brings some peace to people struggling I think that's great ! 

joneser1281

I am glad you ladies are getting good news with this!  I pursued this avenue last summer and didn't find much luck.  I went to see a "psychic" (not what she calls herself, but for lack of a better word).  A friend of mine had gone to see her... She really believes in that stuff and the reading she was given about getting PG was accurate.  The psychic advised her to take some supplements from her shop and they worked... She ended up finally getting PG on her own after two failed IVF cycles.  So I was all about it... I really wanted some answers and I felt like I wasn't getting them from any doctor.  I was really nervous about going.  The whole thing freaked me out a little... Plus I didn't want to hear anything bad.

I am guessing maybe it didn't work out for me because I'm kind of a skeptic.  I have a hard time thinking positively about any situation and I'm a rational person, not much of a dreamer.  I think she knew that too because she kept telling me she wasn't sure I believed and that if I didn't, things wouldn't work out for me.  I told her that I wanted to believe... and wanted to change my way of thinking, but that it's hard.  She was spot on about a few things... What I did for a living... She knew the name of one of my brothers... Knew some things about DH's job... As far as the baby stuff goes, she told me I needed to get over the jealousy/envy I felt when finding out others get PG (that hasn't entirely happened, haha).  She also said I would either be PG at 34 or have a baby at 34.  She saw me having two children.  Well, I'm 34 now and by the time I'd have a baby (FX) I will definitely be 35, so maybe I'm due to at least be PG in the next few months.

She was really big on supplements though from her shop that you needed in order to help things.  I bought several things she recommended, but couldn't buy everything she recommended... It was pretty expensive!  Like $30-40/bottle and she was recommending like 5 - 7 things!  I guess that's also why I had a hard time believing... I felt like she was just trying to make money.  I took some of what she recommended for several months and didn't have any luck with getting PG.  I am hoping she's still right that I'll be PG at 34, but I guess I was assuming she meant it would happen on our own by taking her supplements and not from IVF (which I was hoping to not have to do, thinking I'd get PG on our own with the help of the supplements).

So anywho, not to be a Debbie Downer, I just wanted to share my experience.  I am glad you guys are having better luck with this and if it's someone you know and trust who has been right before, she must be onto something.  I hope she can give you all good info and baby dust! 

jwg9101

I totally get being skeptical. I'm the biggest skeptic and I would have been completely turned off by someone trying to push products on me. I can't wait to see what comes of all of these predictions but there is also a part of me that is still keeping a "level" head. I think that's a buffer against disappointment and I think it's completely normal!!! 

BornReady

Glad this was helpful for you! Has anyone heard of Vibrational Child? She has some cool audio on her website along the same idea of being "ready" to meet our babies and unblocking our energy to be more available.

jwg9101

I haven't heard of it, but I'll check it out! I need all of the positive energy I can get!!!

Joslynj11

I am going to check out Vibrational Child too! I was on the website after you mentioned it and it sounds nice and relaxing. 

Joslynj11

@BornReady Which episodes go into unlocking our energy? Or are there any episodes that you recommend?