So my DH's neice is pregnant, due soon. She is young, still in her teens. Her boyfriend, who see had only been seeing a couple of months when she got pregnant, left her soon after she found out.
Every day almost she is either posting how bad she has it. How nothing good ever happens to her or how she wants the baby here NOW.
I just keep from rolling my eyes. I know part of it is pregnancy hormones but are the same time I want to walk up to her and say, you were careless and got pregnant, lucky you, some of us have been trying for years (and actually ready for a kid) and it isn"t happening. Please go complain to your friends who all don't seem to want to give her a reality check. She has absolutely nothing ready for this baby.
Am I a really bad person? Should just be happy for her? I want to be happy for her, but it is just hard for me. I need an outside perspective.