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Bad news (tw, loss)


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  • I am so sorry for your loss, sending you lots of positive thoughts.   
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  • I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. At this point it is important for you to take care of yourself emotionally and physically. However you feel the need to grieve is how you should spend the next little while. Whatever you feel right now is ok. Just remember that we are here for you if you ever need to talk.
  • LecoolLecool member
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    So, so sorry for your loss, and for the way you were treated. That's completely unacceptable. 

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  • My condolences ): Really be sure to take care of yourself.  
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.

    I had a similar experience with a prior pregnancy and the tech wouldn't say anything to me, saying the dr would call me and talk to me that day or the next day if something was wrong. But the dr didn't call me for 4 days, I had to call her repeatedly and the office person told me over the phone. 
  • Incredibly sorry for both your loss and the incredibly rude communication. Hoping you find comfort and peace!  :'(
  • awknycawknyc member
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. That tech really needs to understand the importance of professionalism. How incredibly insensitive of her! I would've punched her.
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  • vssbrmvssbrm member
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    So sorry for your loss. I wish you lots of comfort as you heal over time. Prayers for you and yours.
    Married May 2009, TTC since November 2012 (Together since 2006 ish - had my eyes on him since 2001)
    Me: 32 (33 in May), Him: 37 (January)

    DX: Me: High Prolactin, Possible Autoimmune Disease Issues, though RE not concerned (?)  New RE has a plan!!
           Him: Minor Varicocele, low morphology, slightly low count


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    3/22/16 - Sono Saline ultrasound cyst to be aspirated on 4/1/16 if not cleared up by 3/29 US - It cleared on its own
    Retrieval 3/4/16 - 26 eggs retrieved, 23 mature, 20 fertilized, 14 embryos currently frozen
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    HSG scheduled for 1-26-16 - All clear "beautiful uterus" (though inverted)

    Switched clinics and now prepping for IVF in February / March

    Fourth IUI -  CD3-7 100 Clomid w/ Ovidrel Trigger - December, 2015 - BFN
    Third IUI -  CD3-7 100 Clomid w/ Ovidrel Trigger - November, 2015 - BFN
    Second IUI - CD3-7 100 Clomid w/ Ovidrel Trigger - September, 2015 - BFN
    Started Prolactin Medication October 15 - Levels quickly regulated to with in normal range
    First IUI - CD3-7 100 Clomid w/ Ovidrel Trigger - August, 2015 - BFN
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  • rdh33rdh33 member
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    I am so sorry for your loss and for the horrible way you were treated by the tech. :hugs:
  • I am so incredibly sorry to hear this @moonlady, and I would absolutely make a phone call about that tech, once I was in a mental place where I could handle it.
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  • i'm so sorry for your loss @moonlady
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  • ((hugs)) maybe when you are able to talk about it, call the place back and let them know how rude and inconsiderate she was. Let me know if you want to chat. I will listen, er read. 
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  • There are no words that will soften the pain in your heart. Take time to grieve, take time for yourself, and take time for you and your husband. Bless you and your family in this most difficult time. 


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry for that rude tech.
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  • I'm so incredibly sorry.  I can't believe how rude that US tech was to you.  Huge hugs.
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