I'm 25 wks 4 days pregnant. Well, recently I found out my sister is also pregnant. She is 16 wks and some days. I'm mad because my sister is supposed to host my baby shower which is July 9th and she might steal the spotlight. I didn't congratulate her. I just said this is supposed to be my moment. For goodness sakes she has an 1 1/2 year old who isn't potty trained. He didn't have no time to be the baby. I'm I being selfish and mean?