My husband was over seas for our first 3 boys an he is now inactive .. im so excited hes home now for good but.... he is clueless about a baby .. like this is our 4th he should know but he dosnt .. last nights argument while packing our diaper bag just in case... why do we need so many diapers in here? ... its warm out she dosent need mittens!... 4 outfits for what? We arnt playing dress up!... i cant wait to use our tula an take her on a motorcycle ride! Just curious if any other mommy to be is going through this i had to explain to him every tid bit ... he refuses to go to a class or read a book... guess ill just be a paranoid mama... the night ended with me eating casys pizza on the floor of the nursery as hes wearing my breast pump reading the deirctions .. an yes it was on!!