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UO Thursday

I will only judge you a little. 

TTC #1 since September 2014
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog 
Check out my Infertility Instagram

Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
        

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  • @mrsstuessy I have to agree. I love my kitty more than anything and I treat her like my baby...but I hate the word furbaby too. No real reason why...I just do. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • My UO is I kind of hate this thread. UO is pointless to me. All the things here can be said on FFFC...
    Thursdays are always the most boring to me on this site...
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
    Check out my Infertility blog 
    Check out my Infertility Instagram

    Loss History (TW):
    BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
    BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
    BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
    BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
    BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
    TTC History (TW):
    3 losses in 2015
    Met with OBGYN in January 2016
    Me: all clear, H: OAT
    November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
    January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
    February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
    March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
    Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
    December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
    January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
    Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
    FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
    FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
    BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
    Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two
    Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
    Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
    Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
    Next Up:
    TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
    ER#2 ~Jan 2019
            

    PepperATpicklespleaseMegzb510jessicark99
  • @PepperAT  I hate that too.  I am generally a happy person but that question makes me feel like I always have to be smiling which is ridiculous.  I'm allowed to not have a smile on my face.  



    Me: 32 DH: 31
    Married:  July 14, 2007
    TTC #1:  January 2008
    Surprise BFP:  November 2009
    DD Born: July 10, 2010
    TTC #2:  April 2016
    CP:  September 2016
    Chart Stalk Me




    picklespleasePepperATjessicark99
  • @housewifehobbyist @TheJerilu ;
    Most of the time salad is just "eh" to me. I'll eat it if it's served or comes with a meal I order but I never go out of may way to eat it. With one exception. I make a delicious black bean salad. It has tons of nutritional value, plus it's VERY filling. But I am obsessed with black beans, so any excuse to eat them... 
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
    Check out my Infertility blog 
    Check out my Infertility Instagram

    Loss History (TW):
    BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
    BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
    BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
    BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
    BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
    TTC History (TW):
    3 losses in 2015
    Met with OBGYN in January 2016
    Me: all clear, H: OAT
    November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
    January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
    February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
    March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
    Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
    December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
    January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
    Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
    FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
    FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
    BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
    Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two
    Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
    Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
    Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
    Next Up:
    TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
    ER#2 ~Jan 2019
            

    TheJerilujessicark99
  • KristoB said:
    @housewifehobbyist @TheJerilu ;
    Most of the time salad is just "eh" to me. I'll eat it if it's served or comes with a meal I order but I never go out of may way to eat it. With one exception. I make a delicious black bean salad. It has tons of nutritional value, plus it's VERY filling. But I am obsessed with black beans, so any excuse to eat them... 
    @KristoB ;
    Black beans are my jammmmm.  If you're talking a black bean salad where black beans act as the base, I totally agree.  I just think the lettuce + misc + croutons type of salad is highly overrated.
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
    BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
    picklespleasejessicark99
  • I guess my UO is that I don't get the warm and fuzzies about TTC.  Like I don't have a secret Pinterest board with baby stuff, I don't have a cutesy way I plan on telling DH if I end up pregnant or any fun ways to let people know on facebook.  I find most announcements played out and cheesy.  I don't get excited about gender reveal parties. Maybe I am just the scrooge of TTC:(
    @HurricaneAmelia ;
    Announcements are fine by me (we'll probably do one because we're so far removed geologically from our friends and family, so otherwise they wouldn't know), but gender reveal parties make me roll my eyes so damn hard.
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
    BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
    HurricaneAmeliajessicark99
  • PepperAT  right? and of course, it's only ever women who get told to smile, or asked why they're NOT smiling. have you ever heard of anybody asking a man that?? i sure haven't. 

    TheJerilu  i'm with you on the gender reveal parties. they're just so....self involved. 
    Me: 29 | DH: 31
    TTC Since: Nov. 2015
    Dx: PCOS
    Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
    Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
    Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16


    TheJeriluSenoraKahlojessicark99
  • @babymish I know! I laughed at myself. I did it out of obligation... haha. I just think we should replace the Thursday thing. But it still needed to be up for today... ha. 

    @TheJerilu - My salad still has the lettuce in it, but not much. Mostly I add it for the color and as a bit of a filler. But it's all black bean, for the most part. Black beans, corn, chipotle dressing, tortilla crisps instead of stupid croutons. Yummmmy. I would literally choose it as my last meal. 
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
    Check out my Infertility blog 
    Check out my Infertility Instagram

    Loss History (TW):
    BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
    BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
    BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
    BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
    BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
    TTC History (TW):
    3 losses in 2015
    Met with OBGYN in January 2016
    Me: all clear, H: OAT
    November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
    January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
    February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
    March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
    Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
    December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
    January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
    Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
    FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
    FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
    BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
    Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two
    Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
    Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
    Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
    Next Up:
    TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
    ER#2 ~Jan 2019
            

    babymishTheJeriluvirginiahamjessicark99
  •  @sammajane19  Yeah, never thought of that! 
    But that reminded me of a time I was walking down the sidewalk and I had a guy say to me "you would be so much prettier if you were smiling"  Oh really!? Thanks jackass! I will keep that in mind for next time I'm walking all alone! 

    10/2/10  <3
    Me:29 H: 31
    TTC#1: Aug 2015
    https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072

             

    ChaoticWolfPrimRoseMama20Tjessicark99
  • @PaukMeKiande I agree with you there, if you're coming on a site called the bump to talk about TTC you need to expect to see people
    mention BFP's, children, other people's pregnancies. The only time I really find them necessary is for mentions of domestic violence or abuse etc, the kinds of things where you're llikely not prepared to stumble on them talking about TTC
    Me - 22  |   DH - 32   |  Married - 24 May 2014
    DS - January 2014 
    TTC#2 - December 2015
    BFP - 6 March 2016  |  MC Confirmed - 21 March 2016
    TTCAL  |  April 2016
    CP  |  June 2016
    CP  |  July 2016
    BFP - 25 August 2016  |  Due Date - 11 May 2017
    mylove071407ChaoticWolfjessicark99
  • My UO is that I hate it when people use their social media profiles to try to sell me stuff or push their opinions.  I'm just trying to snoop on your life and your vacation photos I don't want to buy your damn weight loss products or read your political rants!  I doubt that anyone has ever changed their opinion about a controversial topic just because they saw a well written rant on FB about it...

    Me: 26 Hubs: 28

    Married: 6/6/15 <3

    Baby Girl: 3/22/2017


    Megzb510katesmama0706jessicark99
  • @mrsstuessy  ugh. Furbaby. Gag.
    @PaukMeKiande I'm with you. When I was on the TTC before DD there was no such thing as TW. I was so confused by what it was when I came back. 

    My UO? I really hate Benedict Cumberbatch. Everyone I talk to is like "OMG HE IS SO SEXY" and I think he's super ugly and creepy. 

    ChaoticWolfjessicark99
  • For those of you who don't like Gender Reveals...my Mom has requested one if I do get pregnant this time around.  If I just do it with my immediate family members who actually care, is that less obnoxious?  So basically not really a party...just like, a cake with coloured icing...nevermind, now I sound boring as heck.

    My UO is that I don't trust people who don't like animals.  I am not talking about people who are indifferent or "just not pet people", but people who actually dislike all animals freak me out.  I think there must be something wrong with them.  


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  • Oh one more....I was an bump member in the past when things were different and I actually don't like how there are almost no personal posts anymore *ducks under desk*  I liked when people could ask whatever question (within reason - the "am I pregnant" ones were of course obnoxious) even if it meant some repetition.


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  • katesmama0706katesmama0706
    500 Love Its 500 Comments Second Anniversary Name Dropper
    member
    edited April 2016
    @HopingForOneAgain DH comes from a super huge family so even though I was anti-gender-reveal we did one for just close family. It felt less creepy and gift grabby that way. Just my feelings on it. 

    @DoctorDonna sorry girl! ;) the good news is we won't have to fight for his affections! He's all yours! 

    ETA: spelling
    mrsdaddariopicklespleasejessicark99
  • But Benedict Cumberbatch has the coolest name ever.  I don't care how creepy he is :P


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  • mylove071407mylove071407
    Ninth Anniversary 500 Love Its 100 Comments Name Dropper
    member
    edited April 2016
    Oh one more....I was an bump member in the past when things were different and I actually don't like how there are almost no personal posts anymore *ducks under desk*  I liked when people could ask whatever question (within reason - the "am I pregnant" ones were of course obnoxious) even if it meant some repetition.
    I am prone to agree with that as well.  The Bump was very different in 2008-2009 in that you could post individual questions which got repetitious at times but it was cool and expected.  The drive bys were never cool and some got really ugly.   



    Me: 32 DH: 31
    Married:  July 14, 2007
    TTC #1:  January 2008
    Surprise BFP:  November 2009
    DD Born: July 10, 2010
    TTC #2:  April 2016
    CP:  September 2016
    Chart Stalk Me




    izza2
  • yeah, we also did a gender reveal with our immediate families. They did truly care and were excited to know so it was fun. I also don't get trigger warnings. But I have never had a loss or been through IF, so I don't feel like I get a say.

    Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula
    DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer 
    Married: October 8, 2011
    DD1: September 24, 2013
    BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
    DD2: April 16, 2017
    BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Also, @KristoB , I agree that UO Thursday and FFFC do have a lot of potential for overlap, but I love reading the UOs! I was thinking that I good way to make both two distinct topics is that UO Thursday should be things that people think while FFFC could be reserved for confessions about things people have actually done.
    Me: 30 H: 34
    Sep 2015: TTC #1
    June 2016: SA = MFI (<1% morph)
    August 2016: HSG + Bloodwork = all clear
    September 2016: Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    Nov/Dec 2016: IVF (ICSI + FET)
    12/5: Transfer (1 embryo); EDD:8/22/17






    PepperATKristoKekeroonijessicark99
  • @CoonMom  I love that idea.  



    Me: 32 DH: 31
    Married:  July 14, 2007
    TTC #1:  January 2008
    Surprise BFP:  November 2009
    DD Born: July 10, 2010
    TTC #2:  April 2016
    CP:  September 2016
    Chart Stalk Me




  • My UO is people who ask others their opinion on their "baby names"  I was bored and started lurking on the baby name board!  People are so concerned that everything is too trendy, too overused, too this or too that.   This is your kid's name!  Who cares if people thinks it's too trendy!  You're the one that has to call the child by that name for the remainder of a lifetime!  If you like it, name your kid that and forget about the rest of the world!  
    CoonMomjessicark99
  • CoonMom said:
    Just a thought. ..We could do a thankful Thursday. 
    I started a Woot Wednesday for stuff like that about 2 months ago and it wasn't terribly popular. So a Thankful Thursday probably wouldn't be either
    Me: 27   H: 26
    Foster Care process
    Licensed: June 2017
    FS 1 placed with us: January 2018
    FS 2 placed with us: March 2019
    Megzb510babymish
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