WTF to my dog - she's all over me lately. She's getting runs and walks and food and snuggles. Get off my face pup! I wonder if I smell different to her.
The guy who showed up at my door this AM for the drywall repair.
Him - hi I'm here for the drywall work order Me - um, that's not us, we didn't call him - well, it says X address me - okay, but that's not for us him - I'm contracted through the builder me - great. him - okay, so maybe your husband called me - nope. Sorry boss, you're at the wrong house him - but it says right here X address (shows it to me) me - sure does, but I don't know what to tell you- we don't have a work order, and you're not coming in him - so... me - please get off my property
What the literal f? I get your paperwork says my address. File that under not my problem and please go away. And stop arguing with me on my front porch.
Holy bloat! I am so bloated and gassy, and nothing is helping!
Also, one of the people we told about the baby (and swore to secrecy) slipped and told his mother. She's not someone we really wanted to tell, so DH was POed. The friend called and apologized profusely, but DH hasn't been able to talk to him. He feels betrayed because this is our news to share. There's other issues and drama going on with this friend, so DH is just over it.
Married 4/12/13 TTC since 6/13 Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016 SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
My coworker who said that none of us were really affect by our insurance not working with Hospital A (the best one, and only one within 1 hr that delivers babies) because all of our needs could be easily filled at
Hospital B. When reminded that I was expecting her response was 'why should my insurance have to change or go up because you want a kid?' Seriously??!!!! Just because you are older and done having kids doesn't mean that everyone in the entire 500+ employees is.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
My WTF is whatever has given me a sore throat. I woke up in the middle of the night in so much pain. I gargled warm/hot salt water and almost passed out I was so hot. My temp was only 98 so no fever thank goodness. But all I am taking is honey, lemon and ginger and I wish I could take something else! The Dr told me to go to a walk-in to get a strep culture but I don't feel like getting off the couch.
@phoenix870509 people are such jerks about spreading news. I told daddy too early, and he keeps calling me a guilting me about not telling grandma yet. He is worried she will find out but the only people that know are my mom and sister, neither of whom would tell grandma. Of course I want to tell her but i want to wait until I know everything will be OK!
IN GOOD NEWS my HGC levels are over 20,000 which the nurse at my dr office said was really good! I had some spotting over the weekend so I was really worried something was wrong. The office did convince me to wait until our original u/s appointment which will be at 8w4days, because she said I would really freak out to do it now and not see a heartbeat. So although I really wanted to have one I actually took her advice.
Me: 38, DH: 36 Married Jan 2008 DD Baby Bells born Dec 2016 5 lbs, 12 oz, 18" so in love Due with #2 Baby Arya EDD February 2020
I'm pissed off every day of the week. But today because I manage the conference rooms at work and all of a sudden i'm informed that a vendor will be bringing by lunch for some form of presentation. Ummmm......excuse me there's a schedule to keep and maintenance crew are not your man servants who can drop everything and set up your effing lunch. I am so pissed it's not even funny. I tell them I need a weeks notice for any new event or meeting. But noooooo......everyone thinks they're so damn special the rules don't apply to them.
P.S. it's not the Vendor's fault, it's staff's. They knew ahead of time and didn't bother to tell me.
Met DH - 9/2003
Dating - 9/18/2012
Married - 8/16/2014
NTNP - 7/2014-5/2015
TTC #1 - 5/2015 (CP October @ 4w2d)
*PCOS/Hypothyroid/Ectopic Kidney/High DHEA-S* HSG - All clear, ectopic kidney didn't affect uterus (yay!) CT Adrenal Scan - no tumors! SA - sperm count excellent, 2% Morphology March/April IUI scheduled - surprise BFP w/ help of Progesterone - 3/18/2016 Beta #1 @ 11dpo - 45.7 #2 @ 14dpo - 163 #3 @ 18dpo - 997 #4 @ 21dpo - 3799 EDD 12/1 based on O, 11/28 per Ob/Gyn (but he's wrong lol).
I'm pissed at DH at this morning. I've been sleeping like crap lately, and he knows how tired I am. He came home from work last night, ate dinner, and made our DD's lunch. After that he went straight to bed(at 8:30) and just woke up at 10:30. I asked him last night if he could get DD up and to school this morning, but his answer was no, that he was going to get up and go into work for a bit, even though he was supposed to be off. I was surprised and pissed when he was still asleep when I went to get dressed this morning.
My boss is on vacation the rest of the week (on a work trip for the great work our team has done and he gets credit for, ya know... how it usually goes), which means the "know it alls" on the team will boss everyone around with their opinions/thoughts that are usually unnecessary.
Oh, one of the coworkers has already been her snotty self. Great. This is why I keep to myself, and it sucks that I can't find a new job at the moment.
Me: 37 years old
DH: 39 years old
Married: October 17, 2014 TTC Since: November 2015 BFP: March 31, 2016 DS: November 21, 2016
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I'm pissed at DH at this morning. I've been sleeping like crap lately, and he knows how tired I am. He came home from work last night, ate dinner, and made our DD's lunch. After that he went straight to bed(at 8:30) and just woke up at 10:30. I asked him last night if he could get DD up and to school this morning, but his answer was no, that he was going to get up and go into work for a bit, even though he was supposed to be off. I was surprised and pissed when he was still asleep when I went to get dressed this morning.
I think I would have "accidentally" made a loud noise to wake him. Or even better, started vacuuming and then when he got up said, "Oh sorry, honey. I had no idea you were still sleeping. I thought you were at work!"
I'm pissed at DH at this morning. I've been sleeping like crap lately, and he knows how tired I am. He came home from work last night, ate dinner, and made our DD's lunch. After that he went straight to bed(at 8:30) and just woke up at 10:30. I asked him last night if he could get DD up and to school this morning, but his answer was no, that he was going to get up and go into work for a bit, even though he was supposed to be off. I was surprised and pissed when he was still asleep when I went to get dressed this morning.
I think I would have "accidentally" made a loud noise to wake him. Or even better, started vacuuming and then when he got up said, "Oh sorry, honey. I had no idea you were still sleeping. I thought you were at work!"
I actually shook him and was yelling at him at 6:30 this morning. He didn't even budge. So I started slamming doors, and that didn't even phase him.
I'm pissed at DH at this morning. I've been sleeping like crap lately, and he knows how tired I am. He came home from work last night, ate dinner, and made our DD's lunch. After that he went straight to bed(at 8:30) and just woke up at 10:30. I asked him last night if he could get DD up and to school this morning, but his answer was no, that he was going to get up and go into work for a bit, even though he was supposed to be off. I was surprised and pissed when he was still asleep when I went to get dressed this morning.
I think I would have "accidentally" made a loud noise to wake him. Or even better, started vacuuming and then when he got up said, "Oh sorry, honey. I had no idea you were still sleeping. I thought you were at work!"
I actually shook him and was yelling at him at 6:30 this morning. He didn't even budge. So I started slamming doors, and that didn't even phase him.
I would have been livid! My DH is a heavy sleeper too. When all else fails I flick cold water on his face.
I'm pissed at DH at this morning. I've been sleeping like crap lately, and he knows how tired I am. He came home from work last night, ate dinner, and made our DD's lunch. After that he went straight to bed(at 8:30) and just woke up at 10:30. I asked him last night if he could get DD up and to school this morning, but his answer was no, that he was going to get up and go into work for a bit, even though he was supposed to be off. I was surprised and pissed when he was still asleep when I went to get dressed this morning.
I think I would have "accidentally" made a loud noise to wake him. Or even better, started vacuuming and then when he got up said, "Oh sorry, honey. I had no idea you were still sleeping. I thought you were at work!"
I actually shook him and was yelling at him at 6:30 this morning. He didn't even budge. So I started slamming doors, and that didn't even phase him.
I would have been livid! My DH is a heavy sleeper too. When all else fails I flick cold water on his face.
I'll have to remember the cold water for next time.
@Kate08Young you might want to try changing insurance, go on the open market to see what you can get. My fiancé got a new job as we were unknowingly concieving, and his insurance changed from $450/mo for a family of 4, to $1,500/mo for a family of 4! So we went on our states (WA Apple health) "obamacare" website, and found insurance for $300/mo for me and my daughters (hubby is free on his insurance). Plus! My new insurance is accepted at the obgyn I went to previously, as well as the hospital. It's worth a shot to check out, I've given birth in an "ok" hospital and an outstanding one, let me tell you that it makes a world of difference!
@Mamax2 I'm with @doodleoodle. That is pretty messed up that he slept that long, while leaving you with your DD. Not cool, bro.
He's usually not like this, so I don't know what's going on. I'm hoping he'll let me get to bed early tonight.
@Mamax2 - you're nicer than me. I'm a vengeful bitch so I would announce I'm going to bed and let the chips fall. Then I would pretend to be deep asleep if anyone needed me and I wasn't sleeping yet. Fair is fair!
@yellingbanana All of my insurance is paid through the district. If I get my own, I don't get paid what the district pays for my insurance. So if I take the $ the district won't pay me plus the premiums for L, H, and I it ends up costing me about $1200 a month. Whereas through my district it only takes $500 to cover all 3 of us.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
I was super pissed earlier because I planned my day around making cupcakes and buttercream for DH's birthday tomorrow....cleaned up the house, vaccuumed, got dressed, headed to the kitchen...and DH had eaten all of the eggs! I know it was an honest mistake and I should have reminded him I was making everything early but ugh.
My energy is a limited resource right now. I got the eggs, but made sure to swing by Panera to grab some lunch because reasons. Now to gather energy to actually make the stuff...
@slartybartfast my cat has been the same way. He's been sleeping on my stomach the last week and he never does that...he usually sleeps next to dh because he likes him more lol. I said something to dh about it and asked if the cat might know I'm pregnant lol.
It's so damn hot that the frosting I made is falling flat on the cupcakes. The colors look cool but damn I should have known that would happen. Come ON.
Whatever. They will taste good and that's what matters....
@phoenix870509@Kate08Young Thank you! I know you're right. It just sucks spending all the time for it to fall flat. But! Those eggs and the models will steal the show and he will be so blown away he won't notice the frosting. Thank you for the encouragement.
@dmontgo - First thought I had? Mmmmmm, frosting!! Second thought? Mmmmmm, cupcakes!!! Everyone will love them :-) We are our own worst critic!
This is so true! Sometimes I do get way too hard on myself. It's the thought that counts and I know DH will be happy I took time to make him something special, even if the icing isn't perfect!
Guys - I'm posting all over this board right now and asking for forgiveness...
My WTF right now - we're having twins!!!! I went in to check viability today since I measured 6 days small last week and there's 2 freaking beautiful, strong heart beats in my belly both measuring 7+ weeks. I'm dumbfounded right now.
I was gonna post here again a WTF about DH being lazy at home and not straightening up or whatever (he's SATH dad today) but that doesn't really hold up to TWINS!
@sourlemon - yup! Last week I was supposed to be 7w based in LMP. I measured 6+1. They wanted to see me today (a week from last appt) and there's TWO FREAKING BABIES. I went from wondering if the one would be viable to 30 seconds into the ultrasound being shown two heartbeats. I don't mean to sound shitty about this, but talk about a mind-f. What an emotional roller coaster of a day!
@DiFazette I know it's obviously such a huge surprise, but did anything feel different? Does anything feel different? Exaggerated symptoms or anything?
I don't think it's shitty to be blown away by such news! Pretty sure I'd shit my pants if I found out we're having twins haha.
so my wtf Wednesday. I bought seabands last night (along with a whole arsenal of antisickness remedies), wore them today and just realized that they bruised my wrists where the acupressure ball lays. is this normal???!!! I know I could read the box or google it, but I would rather rant and wtf about it here.
@DiFazette I know it's obviously such a huge surprise, but did anything feel different? Does anything feel different? Exaggerated symptoms or anything?
I don't think it's shitty to be blown away by such news! Pretty sure I'd shit my pants if I found out we're having twins haha.
@dmontgo - no signs. Especially surprising since there was only one last week!!! No, I'm lucky with symptoms so far. Mild nausea, sore boobs and lots of peeing. Feels no different than my PG with DS up to this point. That was a wonderful pregnancy until 30 weeks so I'm hoping my body just handles early pregnancy well and I stay feeling good!
@difazette 100% how I felt during my ultrasound at 6+4 when I received the same news. I dropped a few four letter words in the radiology department that day congratulations!!
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Re: WTF Wednesday 4.27.16
Him - hi I'm here for the drywall work order
Me - um, that's not us, we didn't call
him - well, it says X address
me - okay, but that's not for us
him - I'm contracted through the builder
me - great.
him - okay, so maybe your husband called
me - nope. Sorry boss, you're at the wrong house
him - but it says right here X address (shows it to me)
me - sure does, but I don't know what to tell you- we don't have a work order, and you're not coming in
him - so...
me - please get off my property
What the literal f? I get your paperwork says my address. File that under not my problem and please go away. And stop arguing with me on my front porch.
Also, one of the people we told about the baby (and swore to secrecy) slipped and told his mother. She's not someone we really wanted to tell, so DH was POed. The friend called and apologized profusely, but DH hasn't been able to talk to him. He feels betrayed because this is our news to share. There's other issues and drama going on with this friend, so DH is just over it.
TTC since 6/13
Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change
BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016
SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
Seriously??!!!! Just because you are older and done having kids doesn't mean that everyone in the entire 500+ employees is.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
My WTF is whatever has given me a sore throat. I woke up in the middle of the night in so much pain. I gargled warm/hot salt water and almost passed out I was so hot. My temp was only 98 so no fever thank goodness. But all I am taking is honey, lemon and ginger and I wish I could take something else! The Dr told me to go to a walk-in to get a strep culture but I don't feel like getting off the couch.
@phoenix870509 people are such jerks about spreading news. I told daddy too early, and he keeps calling me a guilting me about not telling grandma yet. He is worried she will find out but the only people that know are my mom and sister, neither of whom would tell grandma. Of course I want to tell her but i want to wait until I know everything will be OK!
IN GOOD NEWS my HGC levels are over 20,000 which the nurse at my dr office said was really good! I had some spotting over the weekend so I was really worried something was wrong. The office did convince me to wait until our original u/s appointment which will be at 8w4days, because she said I would really freak out to do it now and not see a heartbeat. So although I really wanted to have one I actually took her advice.
Married Jan 2008
DD Baby Bells born Dec 2016 5 lbs, 12 oz, 18"
Due with #2 Baby Arya EDD February 2020
P.S. it's not the Vendor's fault, it's staff's. They knew ahead of time and didn't bother to tell me.
HSG - All clear, ectopic kidney didn't affect uterus (yay!)
CT Adrenal Scan - no tumors!
SA - sperm count excellent, 2% Morphology
March/April IUI scheduled - surprise BFP w/ help of Progesterone - 3/18/2016
Beta #1 @ 11dpo - 45.7 #2 @ 14dpo - 163 #3 @ 18dpo - 997 #4 @ 21dpo - 3799
EDD 12/1 based on O, 11/28 per Ob/Gyn (but he's wrong lol).
*TEAM BLUE!*
Oh, one of the coworkers has already been her snotty self. Great. This is why I keep to myself, and it sucks that I can't find a new job at the moment.
TTC Since: November 2015
BFP: March 31, 2016
DS: November 21, 2016
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
My energy is a limited resource right now. I got the eggs, but made sure to swing by Panera to grab some lunch because reasons. Now to gather energy to actually make the stuff...
It's so damn hot that the frosting I made is falling flat on the cupcakes. The colors look cool but damn I should have known that would happen. Come ON.
Whatever. They will taste good and that's what matters....
Right?
Right.
*ugly cry*
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
TTC since 6/13
Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change
BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016
SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
My WTF right now - we're having twins!!!! I went in to check viability today since I measured 6 days small last week and there's 2 freaking beautiful, strong heart beats in my belly both measuring 7+ weeks. I'm dumbfounded right now.
I was gonna post here again a WTF about DH being lazy at home and not straightening up or whatever (he's SATH dad today) but that doesn't really hold up to TWINS!
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I don't think it's shitty to be blown away by such news! Pretty sure I'd shit my pants if I found out we're having twins haha.
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