@DoctorDonna , @housewifehobbyist @mylove071407 Thanks so much for the thoughts & well wishes. Much appreciated.Guys. Should I add a trigger warning to my siggy? I see you have one @MommyForTheFirstTime I feel like triggers are overly used for loss. It's a reality of TTC. I understand if I was posting in a BMB, but for TTC it just seems a bit like overkill. It's my history and I'm not ashamed of it, but I also don't want to be insensitive either.Thoughts welcome!
question for you ladies....if I quote something with a picture (of a dreaded pee stick), is that a do or don't. I know we like to quote things so that others can see what is frowned upon, but the pee stick is still in my quote.... QBF Stuck in Quotebox!@zoey1019 Admin took it down and it's gone from your quote too...so you don't have to worry about the quote
Guys. You have no idea. I was telling my work friends about it this morning because they all know everything about my losses and all that (kinda hard to hide when the m/c starts at work...), but anyway there is a relatively new girl that was with the group of us as I was talking about it and I think this is the first she heard of my "issues." Anyway, she was one of "those people" and kept saying things like, "well maybe you should relax a little" and "oh, you're only 25, you have time." So, as we are breaking up to go and actually do our job, she said "well maybe this is God's way of saying you'd make a bad mom, so maybe you should just stop trying and listen to Him."Like. Wow. What a flipping great week so far. Edit because Mobile sucks
@Mommyforthefirsttime The ignorance of people really does shock me sometimes. I am so terribly sorry for both encounters. Please let some of what the women on here are saying soak in. It is not you. It is them. They are idiots. You WILL be an amazing mother someday. If you need me, I'm happy to come Melissa McCarthy your co-worker. For realz.
@clover28 Happy Birthday!!
@MommyForTheFirstTime I am so so sorry for the horrible insensitivity you have had to deal with! I am constantly shocked by the number of people who don't filter the things they say! I am glad that you turned to this board for support! Hoping you get the chance to get out and do something that makes you smile today Those children at the nursery are so lucky to have you there for them and don't let anyone make you feel differently about that! Sending creepy internet hugs to you
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
@MommyForTheFirstTime I think the director should have told that lady who reported you to stop being such a loco biznitch, instructed her to go consider why reporting you was even an urge in her heart, and never mentioned it to you. I want to respond with something more sailor-terms but you said this was at church so I'm trying to clean it up. What? Like you're going to snatch a baby and run in front of three other people? Sooo much stupid. And back-stabbing girl stuff. Who does that where they be all sweet to your face and then think, "WWDJ? I know! Go report her as a threat!" That sucks and it really pisses me off that someone would do that to you.
So I'm a total newb...what is J17?
greattttttt...so much to look forward to in J17!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!