Hey Ladies,
I had a few questions- sorry to be using you all to see if anyone is in the same boat but I haven't really found anyone else going through the same thing. And you've all given some pretty amazing advice along each others journeys!
Some of you may have remembered my scare at 20weeks. Baby girl had bilateral choroid plexus cysts etc. Everything was ruled out and the cysts thankfully eventually disolved. Well, since they had sent me to a perinatologist from the beginning with that issue..I've continued to see them throughout the rest of this pregnancy this far. One very odd symptom that has progressed lately is my ocular migraines with aura's. The specialists thinks it's a warning sign of Pre-E....although so far, BP is perfect and my 24 hour urine has also come back fine. All office visit urine tests also have been fine.
Basically what happens is 30 minutes before I get a horrible migraine....I can't see right. My vision becomes blurry and I really can't do any reading or driving because of it. Then 30 or so minutes later I get a horrible migraine, two tylenol seem to help but definitely don't take it away and I end up going to bed (they all seem to happen later in the evening) with a bad headache.
I guess my few questions are these; Anyone else experiencing these specific ocular migraines with or without auras? If you did/do....did it end up being related to Pre-E? Also, the doc has recommended I get weekly NSTs and US's. This is worrisome to me. I want to make sure baby is ok....but I also don't want to do unnecessary US's on her, as many have talked about the very real possibility of us just not knowing the long term effects of them. I'm grateful that they are being proactive, don't get me wrong. And yesterday....seeing my little girl in 3D at the office...was just about the most amazing thing I've ever seen in my life (I'll link a pic- just in case anyone cares lol), but I also just want to be sure that it isn't getting to be "too much"?
Any suggestions, past experiences etc.....all welcomed and appreciated.
DH - 24; Me: 26
Married 3/7/15
Expecting Baby #1: 06/06/2016
Re: Ocular Migraines with Aura's
I had two of them a few weeks ago - I don't know that the ensuing headaches were migraine material, but my peripheral vision went completely blurry - like I was underwater. It started with a floating blurry spot and the spot kept getting bigger and bigger until my peripheral vision was completely blurred. Lasted about 30 mins and then I got a dull-ish headache not too long after.
I hope it's not a sign of pre-e - like you, my BP has been basically 120/70 or under this entire time, so there's no indication that's what it would be.
I haven't gotten one in a few weeks, but I'll check in with you if I do!
FX it's just another annoying, yet harmless, part of pregnancy.
Have you brought yours up to your doc? If so, were they concerned? Say anything? Thank's for replying...I'm hoping it's just a less common pregnancy symptom and my BP will stay normal and this baby can come when she wants. I'm 33w5d...they keep scaring me saying I'll probably go early. What exactly do they base this on?? Like I've said, BP has been perfect. Ugh
TTC since 10/2010-BFP 12/23/2011
Baby 2.0 BFP 10/16/2015
TTC since 10/2010-BFP 12/23/2011
Baby 2.0 BFP 10/16/2015
But here is what I know, and what you probably know as a nurse, it is NEVER ok for a medical provider to belittle or demean a patient. EVER. I work in a counseling role for a school district and I deal with all sorts of people who make bad choices; they abuse their kids, they bring horrible people into their homes, the subject their children to trauma, they have substance abuse problems they won't acknowledge.... I could go on. But the point is, even when I'm mentally at my worst and mentally snarking to myself, my job is to be professional, to treat people respectfully and to focus on solutions rather than blame. Most of the time, when people have a problem, piling on shame or blame only makes things worse and destroys any chance of creating a relationship where positive change can occur. Does my doctor think I need to lose weight? Of course she does; but she knows I work at it, she knows I'm aware, and she knows that when I'm 7 months pregnant and already feel like I am large enough to be visible from space it's probably not the best time for that conversation. That hasn't prevented her from addressing it if she thought it was relevant to the topic at hand but she includes it in a list of possible factors and doesn't just basically say "hey, everything that's wrong in your life is because you're fat. And fyi, it's going to ruin everything in your future too." F that noise. I'm sorry you're being subjected to this treatment and it just goes to show a medical degree (or any other degree) doesn't come with any guarantees of empathy, compassion or basically not being a bad human being. If you have to stick with her, do what you have to do to get through this pregnancy, but remember that just because she's trying to sell you a load of bs, doesn't mean you're obligated to buy it.
My husband and I debated switching doctors but I'm worried if I burn the bridge with her now- should could still very well be on call and end up delivering the baby anyway. We see a practice with five doctors and we had to make our rounds through all of them because we don't know who will deliver if it's on a weekend they aren't on call or nights etc. I think the best thing for me to do is to politely and respectfully let her know how she's making me feel the next apt I have with her. I'm going to try to not become emotional (super hard for me lately). My self esteem is at an all time low as it is.
Thank's for being so encouraging
This pregnancy i am getting them again. More often, i think because im expecting twins so double the hormones. Im almost 32 weeks and no blood pressure issues so far.
Good luck with everything and thank you for posting this. Its really reassuring to know other people are dealing and managing these symptoms too.
My obgyn said her only concern would be if I was to get them numerous times a day everyday.
Fortunately it's once in a blue moon unfortunately the actually migraine after the ocular is the worst.
Just wanted to say that I'm sorry you're having them- I know how much it sucks wen you can only take Tylenol. Hopefully everything continues to come back negative and you can finish out a healthy, full term pregnancy
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20