Testing Plans: Well, I got a BFP this morning! Now I feel bad for bitching so much about my cycle this month. I ovulated late, but it turns out I had good news. Ran out in my slippers to buy 3 more tests, which I'll be taking shortly.. haha ETA: 3 positive tests total. I guess it's real
R / R / CS: My first reaction this morning was to be terrified (TTCAL and I'm scared it'll happen again). It's a totally different feeling than my first BFP that ended in loss, but I'm still so excited and grateful. Whatever happens will happen. Thank you ladies for all the support - I'm not the most frequent poster, but these boards helped me so much in October and they helped me get excited to try again.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? My mind is going right to Harry Potter, which definitely isn't the most creative answer but who doesn't love some HP?
Me: 29, DH: 31 Married: October 2014 Began TTC: April 2015 BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w) BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w) BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17 BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
Thanks for adding the date this time @kns1988 - someone resurrected last week's thread and it's confusing peeps.
Month / Cycle: 5/5
CD / DPO: 27/12
Timing: doesn't matter
Testing Plans: all bfn
R / R / CS: tomorrow is my last lp day and temps declined again this morning. Looks like I'll be moving into the 6 month slump and it's already hitting me hard.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
I would like to live with bear in the big Blue house, I was obsessed as a child and I just feel him and tutter could cheer me up.
R / R / CS: So I've been up since 3:30AM, thank you very much restless puppy. I keep telling DH that it's good practice if things ever work out. I'm already itching to test even though it won't mean anything now. Gotta stay sane and avoid the SS. Also, I'm so nervous about hitting this cycle. If things don't work out, my doctor wants me on Clomid which I'd rather not do but if it's my only choice, I'll do what I have to. Another loss means dealing with an OB/GYN, MFM, and an RE. I'm almost more afraid to get a positive test. I just never expected it to be this hard. Guess it's just going to be one of those days today. DH and I are going to take our puppy on a long walk at the forest preserve so hopefully that helps keep my mind off of things.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Marvel world for sure.
yea, sorry about that! I unintentionally bumped the old one by responding to an old comment....whoops! Still learning these things over here.
I opened both TWW threads to lurk, confused about why there were two, then realized it was my fault for reviving the other one...sigh.
FX for BFPs to pop up for all of you in the TWW!
ETA: to be explicitly inclusive
TTGP history (*TW*):
Started TTC Oct 2015 BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016 Re-started TTC Aug 2016 Started IF testing Nov 2016 Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017 BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
R / R / CS: My temp had a huge drop this morning to below the cover line. I know it could still come back up, but more than likely this is it and AF is on her way. Trying not to let it get to me and to stay positive! On the bright side, if AF does come I just got a new menstrual cup in the mail yesterday (a Skoon cup) and I am so happy! I somehow managed to lose mine over the Christmas holidays (praying I accidentally threw it out while it was wrapped in kleenex during my travels and didn't leave it in some relative's house haha I don't know how you lose one of those things). After using one of these for almost 7 years now, tampons every day just don't feel good and I've always hated pads. I'm also headed to my Saturday morning yoga class now, which I really enjoy! So despite the temp drop, I'm hoping for a good day.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hmmm if I'm trying to be creative and could do crazy stuff like move from one place to another by jumping down tunnels and ride Yoshi then I'd live live in Super Mario world. Although @kns1988 HP would probably be my first choice too.
@kns1988 congratulations!! @babymish sorry for the BFN @nwegman7878 walking always helps reset my mind. I hope it does the same for you today!!
Month / Cycle: 3/3
CD / DPO: 16/3
Timing: -4, -1
Testing Plans: trying my best to hold off until 3/9 which is when AF is due
R / R / CS: FF changed my CH's today like I expected it would from CD10 to CD13. I definitely am team FAM setting now.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hmm this is a hard question for me bc I'm not really into video games of watch a lot of movies. I was going to say super Mario brothers but then flashes of dodging moving mushrooms popped into my head. I'll have to think more about this lol
R / R / CS: Soooo im not patient. AF where aaaare youuuu??? I am NOT suspicious that I'm pregnant (not good timing and the two stark white BFN I have received) so what is your professional opinion?? Last cycle I had a short LP (9 days) and this month I was like yay a normal LP. Now I'm on CD 14 with no signs of AF. Yes I know it's crazy to worry but TTC took away my anxiety meds and this is what happens ***i got obvious BFP at 11 DPO with my two boys, and also this is to be my third cycle after D&C (first cycle 30 days and second cycle 27 days) so I guess I'm just regulating from D&C
Testing Plans: BFNs 10 and 11dpo, just waiting for AF at this point.
R / R / CS: My temps are wonky because travel and inconsistent sleep, I thought today would be CD1, but apparently not (I usually start middle of the night/first thing in the morning). So I'm just hanging out here with you guys until AF shows! Sooooo excited to see so many BFPs while I've been traveling this week!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? My first thought was Pride and Prejudice or Emma, but then I think about how badly everything must have smelled then and it becomes less appealing!
@kns1988 Yay, congrats!!! @babymish So sorry for another BFN. I feel you on the 6 month slump, super big hug for you today.
Month / Cycle: 6/7
CD / DPO: 26/13
Timing: -5,-3,-2,-1,O,+1
Testing Plans: Done.
R / R / CS: Still waiting for AF. Really thought CD1 was going to be yesterday as I had cramps and all, but still hanging out here for now. Of course I tested again this morning to confirm. I just kind of feel numb right now with all of this.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Inception, watch out for me in your dreams, muahaha.
R / R / CS: what kind of notification do you get on FF for a triphasic chart? Does anyone know how many days temps need to be in the 3rd phase for it to alert me?
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? I might be going rogue with this answer, but Top Gun. My favorite movie.
@kns1988 Congratulations!! I'm happy to have one less member in the long cycle club lol!!
@babymish BFN can suck it. I'm on the cusp of the six month slump as well. If I wasn't on mobile (which never lets me gif) I would totally have a massive big middle finger gif, sigh.
R / R / CS: Firstly my dad made my cry last night, we had gone out to dinner and in the car ride home he (preface: he's a total sap in his old age and I'm his youngest), told me how I'm the joy of his life, he'll always be a parent first, watching me get married and bloom into such an amazing person (his words not mine) makes him the proudest, happiest a person could be. Having kids was the end all be all for him. Yeah, that broke me. I want that so badly. It hurt to hear almost, despite him coming from a really good place. Second, I don't know what possessed me but I had a dollar store cheapy HPT in my cabinet and took it this AM. No surprise it was a BFN. Not totally bummed because I knew it would be. But ugh ME!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hands down agree, Harry Potter. I'm a huge HP fan.
CD/DPO: 35 / no clue... due to anxiety I'm not temping yet
Timing: who knows.
Testing Plans: BFN this AM.
R/R/CS: I could handle the dinner nausea if it meant I was KU but this just sucks. I guess my body is deciding to go to longer cycles... last one was 37, and for years my cycle was 28-30. I'm still in it but just feeling defeated right now.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Firefly would be a lot of fun
Edited to changed dpo and timing. I have no idea anymore
@kns1988 congrats! @babymish sorry about the BFNs. Hugs! @Sparty18 I'm sorry you're having a bad TTC day. Waiting for AF is often worse then actually starting it. @DiFazette you need to have three elevated temps after 6dpo for it to alert you as possibly triphasic
Month / Cycle: 8/8
CD / DPO: 25/10
Timing: -3,-1,0+,1
Testing Plans: Probably not although my acupuncturist made me a little crazy yesterday...
R / R / CS: At my acupuncture appt yesterday she said I had a very "calm" pulse. I asked her what she meant by that and she said that during early conception pulse rate is very calm and slippery. So naturally I'm now BSC. Plus temp went up today.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? The Truman Show? Everyone seemed so happy even though it was all fake lol
Me: 29 years old, DH:31 years old
TTC #1 since July 2015
SA Feb 2016 & May 2016: Excellent count and motility, 3% morphology Surgery Dec 2016: submucosal fibroid removed Awaiting RE appointment
@kns1988 Yay congrats!! H&H 9 months!! @babymish I'm sorry you're down
Month / Cycle: 1/1
CD / DPO: 24/unknown
Timing: crapola
Testing Plans: BFN this morning, out of Walmart cheapies so just waiting for AF.
R / R / CS: Since getting off BC, my cycles are almost always 28-29 days, and this month feels like it's no different. I've already started craving steak lol which is my go-to sign. So, just waiting impatiently for AF to come so we can get cycle 2 on the road! I'm also going to buy some wondfos off Amazon because I know I'll want to POAS every day next month haha.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Movie world--I would love to be a character in Clueless.
R / R / CS: BFN. I think I'll wait until Monday or Tuesday depending if temp stays up. Trying to stay optimistic since it's only 10 dpo but seeing that BFN sucks.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Chronicles of Narnia.
@kns1988 congratulations!!! @babymish and @houseofsetters my DPO buddies! sorry to hear about your BFNs. i'm right there with you!
Month / Cycle: 1/1
CD / DPO: 25/12
Timing: -4, -1
Testing Plans: BFN this morning.
R / R / CS: I know this was only our first cycle TTC, but I'm totally bummed about this morning's BFN. I know it was ridiculous to even hope to get KU on the first try, but a girl can dream, right? Le sigh. No more testing until AF shows her unwelcome face, which should be tomorrow or Monday.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Ooooo. Not a big vidoe game or movie buff so this one's hard. Gonna need to get back to you on this one haha.
Together 2007 | Married 2011 | Me: 36 | DH: 38 Adopted Furbaby: 2014 TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17 TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
Timing: -1,0,1,2,3 ( my RE freaks out if I suggest having sex the day before ovulation, but we did it anyways because DH has amazing sperm, and our last scan was 2 days before ovulation so you just don't know)
R / R / CS: I have a headache that will not go away, and a gender reveal to go to today, as well as I still need to buy a present for a baby shower tomorrow. I've been putting it off.
GTKY: What your top three moments in life so far?
1. Marrying my husband. We had a nice wedding, but it honestly could have been in the courthouse and it would have been just as memorable.
2. My god children/nephews birth. Technically that's two moments, but it was very special for me.
3. Buying our home. It may sound a bit materialistic, but we worked so hard to be able to buy it. My husbands mother had opened credit under his name and destroyed his credit. It took us years to be able to be in a position to buy a home.
2 Laps and 1 Abdominal Myomectomy 6 rounds of clomid 5 rounds of iui Several HSG's sprinkled throughout the years to up my chances of a BFP Several dilation of cervix because they suspect the scar tissue is hindering it from fully opening (partially adds to the severe cramps all month) IVF #1 Gonal F, Menopur and Cetrotide ER 12/1/2016
ER-Retrieved 22 eggs 10 fertilized 4/4 day 5 embryos were normal for PGS!!! 2 boys/2 girls FET 1/10/2017 Gallbladder surgery 1/10/2017 FET estimated end of Feb, beginning of March
R / R / CS: Got my big AF-is-here temp drop this morning. I'm feeling really upset about it. I know that I haven't been TTC for that long, but I can't help but feel so defeated. I know it can take up to a year - but it has me wondering if this will ever happen for us. I know 4 months isn't that long, so I know these thoughts are irrational. I'm just upset. On top of that, DH and I got in a big fight this morning, so it's only 7:30 and I've already cried twice today. Going to go to the gym and try and sweat this mood out.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Me: 28 | DH: 31 Together since 2006 | Married May 2015 TTC #1 since November 2015 BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
I'm so sorry, everyone feeling down today, and for all the BFNs. More creepy group hugs.
Month / Cycle: 3/3
CD / DPO: 29/12
Timing: -4, -2, -1, 0
Testing Plans: Not unless AF is way late.
R / R / CS: I'm glad it's the weekend!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? I feel like I have to include Harry Potter, but video game-wise, I'm with @Winnie81 - maybe World of Warcraft. I would also be happy (and my nerd side is about to show like no other) living in the Nancy Drew computer games series, because mystery is always afoot.
ETF: Words.
DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW, because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
@mrsdaddario still in the club! Also tested this AM. Only testing 4x in 65 days is pretty admirable! I felt so bummed out after. But now I feel no guilt having a few drinks out tonight!
Month/cycle: 3/1
CD/DPO: 60/nah
Timing: waiting out the final possible timing so I can stop testing
R/R/CS: I'm officially NOT normal. WTF! Trying not to over think it since this is my first cycle off HBC but seriously? Ive gone off it before and went back to regular cycles immediately. Had a super weird unrealistic thought process where I determined that Im not pregnant because of joining the bump and hanging out in TTC with all the non-pregnant people. Because an online forum has that much control over my uterus! The thought was fleeting and Im still here. Love you guys!
GTKY: I so wanted to be unique but have dreamed of going to hogwarts since I was little!
I'm so sorry @babymish, I was really hoping this was your month.
Month/Cycle: 4
CD/DPO: 27/12
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Testing: BFN this am
R/R/CS: My temp dropped to coverline yesterday. I got home at 1:45 last night (Garth was so good!!) and normally temp at 3:30. I waited until 6:30, thinking that it would be better, but my temp was .7 degrees higher than yesterday! So I adjusted it, which I never do, but the high temp was throwing me off. Cramps today and expecting AF tonight (11 day LP). I'm going to stay in the TWW until I need to officially move.
GTKY: I love playing the Sims, but wouldn't want to live in that world. Maybe Sonic???
Testing Plans: None unless something on my charts gives me a reason to.
R / R / CS: This is my first TWW post, so hello! While I have been stalking daily since last September, I honestly wasn't expecting to begin participating in the WTO/TWW threads until July-is since I just stopped BCP on February 14th after 10 years and DH was deploying shortly after. I figured my body was going to geek out and I wanted to give it time to regulate while he was away, so I wasn't expecting anything remotely resembling ovulation anytime soon. FF is telling me a different story now (which is wonderful!) and if the temps don't suddenly drop or anything, this could be a NTNP TWW for us so I hope it's okay if I join you all this go-around. Even if nothing comes of it, I'll be back later this summer when we can start trying again.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Some PP'S had a great idea with Harry Potter, magic would be amazing
Testing Plans: Daily internet cheapies with BFNs, gonna bust out a FRER tomorrow
R / R / CS: Can I just say that I am super excited to try a new fried chicken joint today? Love me some honey butter. Nothing new to report CS wise, other than reading too much into symptoms that are probably just wonky post-Mirena side effects.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? I love dystopian stories, so NONE OF THEM Although, I would totally be a Hufflepuff if I were in Hogwarts.
Me: 28 | Partner: 31 Married since 2014 TTC #1 since 02/2016
hey ladies- just wanted to say hi.....there is nothing exciting going on over on the Sept board, not really anyways...
@babymish- Hugs to you lady! Sorry to see you still here. I would highly recommend a pre baby bucket list If you don't already have one or weekend get away or date nights. Something to help with the distraction to keep your mind off of it. Also, I really loved my adult coloring book. Hang in there girl....the only way to get there is to keep trying. this journey is such a trial of strength and patience.
@1017Shannon- I would say its probably your body still regulating and I wouldn't put too much stock into any of it. On a side note, it did take me to 15 DPO to get a positive test.....Depending on how you handle BFN's I'd probably wait it out another day or 2.
@mrsdaddario- Your dad sounds JUST like mine!!! Super sappy!! I love him to death, he's the best and my hubby is just like him in so many ways!! But he's so sappy! When we told him we got engaged, he said he was all warm all over.....WTF is that??? gotta love him though....He sent my DH a card this week because DH had been super sick all week last week and I called my dad to complain about what a big baby my DH was being.....and a bad patient too. So my dad sent him a card to tell him he hoped he was feeling better and that they really liked my DH. It was really sweet actually and my DH's dad is no longer with us. My DH said the card was something his dad would have done, so he really appreciated the card from my dad. \
@Rottiemom86- Have you seen or talked to your dr about your long cycles?? Are you able to use OPKS at all to help you have a better understanding of where you might be in your cycles if the temping makes you too anxious? Hope you can find a happy medium!
@juliebeannn- I think we all thought we'd magically be KTFU our first go at it!! completely realistic. When I first was on these boards, I saw all the women testing at 10 DPO and they'd get BFN's and I thought no way could I do that. Well on my 2nd month or 3rd month I had some crazy dream that was super vivid about CM of all things and it was so real, it made me test the next morning at 10 DPO. Negative.....I didn't test again after that ever until the month we got our BFP. Its a journey for sure and trial and error for what works for you!! But the ladies on this board have lots of knowledge to share!! Hang in there!
@Lecool- Sorry about the fight with DH- the gym sounds like the perfect solution!! Do you guys have a pre baby bucket list or can you get away for a weekend? Date night? Adult coloring books were really helpful for me too actually.....Hang in there girl!!
Testing Plans: was going to try and hold out to 10dpo but let's be honest... it'll probably happen 8dpo because I'm impatient
R / R / CS: CHs today for the first time! Last month I didn't start temping until O day, so it's kinda exciting to see the CHs pop on my chart today.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hogwarts/HP's world would be amazing as would Jane Austen's time. I've always loved Regency-era books/movies.
@MNturnsVA this is my second cycle ever that is long. Last month was a fluke, and this cycle might make it a pattern. I might do OPKs eventually, but not everyone turns them, or have multiple surges. I'm just hoping to figure out my cycle and get some good timing soon!
R / R / CS: I'm back : ) I took a break from this board for awhile and have been spending time on the IF board. We took a break this month from IUIs and medications. If this month doesn't work, we're moving to IVF in March.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Sex and the City! NYC with money, clothes, nice apartments!
DS#1: born Dec 29, 2013
TTC#2 since Sept 2014 - unexplained secondary IF
BFP #2: 11.7.14 M/C: 11.27.14 @ 6w3days
BFP #3: 04.19.2015 M/C 04.27.15 @ 4w3days
BFP #4: 10.05.2015 C/P @ 3w4days
Oct 11, 2015: Cycle 13. Starting Femara (2.5mg). HSG this cycle (all clear) - BFN
Nov 12, 2015: Cyle 14. Femara 5mg + IUI - BFN
Dec 10, 2015: Cycle 15. Femara 5mg + IUI #2 - BFP #5! C/P 4w4d Jan 10, 2016: Cycle 16. Femara 5mg + IUI #3 - BFN. Feb 10, 2016: Cycle 17. No IUI or meds. Taking a break - Natural BFP Mar 5, 2016!!!! EDD Nov 16, 2016 Moving to IVF March 2016 Beta at 10dpo: 21, Beta at 12dpo: 98, Beta at 14dpo: 264, Beta at 16dpo: 745 U/S 6w6d: single beautiful heartbeat of 121bpm - It's a boy!!!! Nov 3, 2016: Our family became complete. Welcome DS #2.
@1017Shannon sorry your cycle is being confusing, maybe your lp will be slightly longer this month. I have seen that for a few ladies on here with random 16 day lps etc. Or maybe it is better news - FX.
@DiFazette I'm not entirely sure but 3 seems to be the general rule with FF. It gave me a "triphasic" chart in December and I have 5 temps on total at the new high level, think it gave me the term a few temps in.
Sorry you are feeling so down @Lecool I have been having those exact same thoughts. In a weird way seeing other women are having those thoughts too makes me realise that its ok and puts things into perspective. Our hormones and emotions put us through all that but it doesnt mean it's true. We just have to keep trucking on
Re: TWW Saturday *2/27/16*
*TW: loss mentioned*
Month / Cycle: TTCAL 3/2
CD / DPO: 45/14
Timing: -4, 0
Testing Plans: Well, I got a BFP this morning! Now I feel bad for bitching so much about my cycle this month. I ovulated late, but it turns out I had good news. Ran out in my slippers to buy 3 more tests, which I'll be taking shortly.. haha
ETA: 3 positive tests total. I guess it's real
R / R / CS: My first reaction this morning was to be terrified (TTCAL and I'm scared it'll happen again). It's a totally different feeling than my first BFP that ended in loss, but I'm still so excited and grateful. Whatever happens will happen. Thank you ladies for all the support - I'm not the most frequent poster, but these boards helped me so much in October and they helped me get excited to try again.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? My mind is going right to Harry Potter, which definitely isn't the most creative answer but who doesn't love some HP?
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
Month / Cycle: 5/5
CD / DPO: 27/12
Timing: doesn't matter
Testing Plans: all bfn
R / R / CS: tomorrow is my last lp day and temps declined again this morning. Looks like I'll be moving into the 6 month slump and it's already hitting me hard.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
I would like to live with bear in the big Blue house, I was obsessed as a child and I just feel him and tutter could cheer me up.
TEAM: PINK!!
CD / DPO: 21/6
Timing: -3,-1,0
Testing Plans: 8 or 9DPO cause lots of Wondofos
R / R / CS: So I've been up since 3:30AM, thank you very much restless puppy. I keep telling DH that it's good practice if things ever work out. I'm already itching to test even though it won't mean anything now. Gotta stay sane and avoid the SS. Also, I'm so nervous about hitting this cycle. If things don't work out, my doctor wants me on Clomid which I'd rather not do but if it's my only choice, I'll do what I have to. Another loss means dealing with an OB/GYN, MFM, and an RE. I'm almost more afraid to get a positive test. I just never expected it to be this hard. Guess it's just going to be one of those days today. DH and I are going to take our puppy on a long walk at the forest preserve so hopefully that helps keep my mind off of things.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Marvel world for sure.
Previously nweg...7878
yea, sorry about that! I unintentionally bumped the old one by responding to an old comment....whoops! Still learning these things over here.
I opened both TWW threads to lurk, confused about why there were two, then realized it was my fault for reviving the other one...sigh.
FX for BFPs to pop up for all of you in the TWW!
ETA: to be explicitly inclusive
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
CD / DPO: 24/9
Timing: O, +1
Testing Plans: Maybe not at all this cycle
R / R / CS: My temp had a huge drop this morning to below the cover line. I know it could still come back up, but more than likely this is it and AF is on her way. Trying not to let it get to me and to stay positive!
On the bright side, if AF does come I just got a new menstrual cup in the mail yesterday (a Skoon cup) and I am so happy! I somehow managed to lose mine over the Christmas holidays (praying I accidentally threw it out while it was wrapped in kleenex during my travels and didn't leave it in some relative's house haha I don't know how you lose one of those things). After using one of these for almost 7 years now, tampons every day just don't feel good and I've always hated pads.
I'm also headed to my Saturday morning yoga class now, which I really enjoy! So despite the temp drop, I'm hoping for a good day.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hmmm if I'm trying to be creative and could do crazy stuff like move from one place to another by jumping down tunnels and ride Yoshi then I'd live live in Super Mario world. Although @kns1988 HP would probably be my first choice too.
edit: words
Massive congrats @kns1988 )
Month / Cycle: 2/2 TTCAL
CD / DPO: 17/5
Timing: -1 0 1
Testing Plans: 9 days!!!!!! (Not that I'm counting)
R / R / CS: partner doesn't get my impatience in the TWW and I'm like "ahhhhh be impatient with me!!"
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Hmmm probably avengers.. That'd be pretty awesome
@babymish huge hugs to you, ❤️❤️
@babymish sorry for the BFN
@nwegman7878 walking always helps reset my mind. I hope it does the same for you today!!
Month / Cycle: 3/3
CD / DPO: 16/3
Timing: -4, -1
Testing Plans: trying my best to hold off until 3/9 which is when AF is due
R / R / CS: FF changed my CH's today like I expected it would from CD10 to CD13. I definitely am team FAM setting now.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hmm this is a hard question for me bc I'm not really into video games of watch a lot of movies. I was going to say super Mario brothers but then flashes of dodging moving mushrooms popped into my head. I'll have to think more about this lol
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
Month / Cycle: 8/5
CD / DPO: 31/14
Timing: -3
Testing Plans: BFN cd 11 and 13
R / R / CS: Soooo im not patient. AF where aaaare youuuu??? I am NOT suspicious that I'm pregnant (not good timing and the two stark white BFN I have received) so what is your professional opinion?? Last cycle I had a short LP (9 days) and this month I was like yay a normal LP. Now I'm on CD 14 with no signs of AF. Yes I know it's crazy to worry but TTC took away my anxiety meds and this is what happens
***i got obvious BFP at 11 DPO with my two boys, and also this is to be my third cycle after D&C (first cycle 30 days and second cycle 27 days) so I guess I'm just regulating from D&C
edjted add chart
CD / DPO: 40/12
Timing: -5, -2, -1
Testing Plans: BFNs 10 and 11dpo, just waiting for AF at this point.
R / R / CS: My temps are wonky because travel and inconsistent sleep, I thought today would be CD1, but apparently not (I usually start middle of the night/first thing in the morning). So I'm just hanging out here with you guys until AF shows! Sooooo excited to see so many BFPs while I've been traveling this week!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
My first thought was Pride and Prejudice or Emma, but then I think about how badly everything must have smelled then and it becomes less appealing!
@babymish So sorry for another BFN. I feel you on the 6 month slump, super big hug for you today.
Month / Cycle: 6/7
CD / DPO: 26/13
Timing: -5,-3,-2,-1,O,+1
Testing Plans: Done.
R / R / CS: Still waiting for AF. Really thought CD1 was going to be yesterday as I had cramps and all, but still hanging out here for now. Of course I tested again this morning to confirm. I just kind of feel numb right now with all of this.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Inception, watch out for me in your dreams, muahaha.
TEAM: PINK!!
Month / Cycle: 4/4
CD / DPO: 22/7
Timing: -5, -3, -1
Testing Plans: trying for 10 DPO
R / R / CS: what kind of notification do you get on FF for a triphasic chart? Does anyone know how many days temps need to be in the 3rd phase for it to alert me?
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? I might be going rogue with this answer, but Top Gun. My favorite movie.
@babymish BFN can suck it. I'm on the cusp of the six month slump as well. If I wasn't on mobile (which never lets me gif) I would totally have a massive big middle finger gif, sigh.
@Sparty18 I'm sorry you're feeling numb
Month / Cycle: 5/3
CD / DPO: 65/34 (skeptical)
Timing: -1, O
Testing Plans: BFN x 4, done
R / R / CS: Firstly my dad made my cry last night, we had gone out to dinner and in the car ride home he (preface: he's a total sap in his old age and I'm his youngest), told me how I'm the joy of his life, he'll always be a parent first, watching me get married and bloom into such an amazing person (his words not mine) makes him the proudest, happiest a person could be. Having kids was the end all be all for him. Yeah, that broke me. I want that so badly. It hurt to hear almost, despite him coming from a really good place. Second, I don't know what possessed me but I had a dollar store cheapy HPT in my cabinet and took it this AM. No surprise it was a BFN. Not totally bummed because I knew it would be. But ugh ME!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Hands down agree, Harry Potter. I'm a huge HP fan.
Edit: Words
Month/Cycle: 4 (7 months benched)
CD/DPO: 35 / no clue... due to anxiety I'm not temping yet
Timing: who knows.
Testing Plans: BFN this AM.
R/R/CS: I could handle the dinner nausea if it meant I was KU but this just sucks. I guess my body is deciding to go to longer cycles... last one was 37, and for years my cycle was 28-30. I'm still in it but just feeling defeated right now.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Firefly would be a lot of fun
Edited to changed dpo and timing. I have no idea anymore
@babymish sorry about the BFNs. Hugs!
@Sparty18 I'm sorry you're having a bad TTC day. Waiting for AF is often worse then actually starting it.
@DiFazette you need to have three elevated temps after 6dpo for it to alert you as possibly triphasic
Month / Cycle: 8/8
CD / DPO: 25/10
Timing: -3,-1,0+,1
Testing Plans: Probably not although my acupuncturist made me a little crazy yesterday...
R / R / CS: At my acupuncture appt yesterday she said I had a very "calm" pulse. I asked her what she meant by that and she said that during early conception pulse rate is very calm and slippery. So naturally I'm now BSC. Plus temp went up today.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
The Truman Show? Everyone seemed so happy even though it was all fake lol
Surgery Dec 2016: submucosal fibroid removed
Awaiting RE appointment
@babymish I'm sorry you're down
Month / Cycle: 1/1
CD / DPO: 24/unknown
Timing: crapola
Testing Plans: BFN this morning, out of Walmart cheapies so just waiting for AF.
R / R / CS: Since getting off BC, my cycles are almost always 28-29 days, and this month feels like it's no different. I've already started craving steak lol which is my go-to sign. So, just waiting impatiently for AF to come so we can get cycle 2 on the road! I'm also going to buy some wondfos off Amazon because I know I'll want to POAS every day next month haha.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Movie world--I would love to be a character in Clueless.
CD / DPO: 28/10
Timing: good
Testing Plans: today
R / R / CS: BFN. I think I'll wait until Monday or Tuesday depending if temp stays up. Trying to stay optimistic since it's only 10 dpo but seeing that BFN sucks.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Chronicles of Narnia.
@babymish and @houseofsetters my DPO buddies! sorry to hear about your BFNs. i'm right there with you!
CD / DPO: 25/12
Timing: -4, -1
Testing Plans: BFN this morning.
R / R / CS: I know this was only our first cycle TTC, but I'm totally bummed about this morning's BFN. I know it was ridiculous to even hope to get KU on the first try, but a girl can dream, right? Le sigh. No more testing until AF shows her unwelcome face, which should be tomorrow or Monday.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
Fur-children: 3 dogs + 2 cats (all rescued)
6 rounds of clomid
5 rounds of iui
Several HSG's sprinkled throughout the years to up my chances of a BFP
Several dilation of cervix because they suspect the scar tissue is hindering it from fully opening (partially adds to the severe cramps all month)
IVF #1 Gonal F, Menopur and Cetrotide
ER 12/1/2016
4/4 day 5 embryos were normal for PGS!!! 2 boys/2 girls
FET 1/10/2017
Gallbladder surgery 1/10/2017
FET estimated end of Feb, beginning of March
CD / DPO: 29/11
Timing: -5, -2, 0
Testing Plans: None.
R / R / CS: Got my big AF-is-here temp drop this morning. I'm feeling really upset about it. I know that I haven't been TTC for that long, but I can't help but feel so defeated. I know it can take up to a year - but it has me wondering if this will ever happen for us. I know 4 months isn't that long, so I know these thoughts are irrational. I'm just upset. On top of that, DH and I got in a big fight this morning, so it's only 7:30 and I've already cried twice today. Going to go to the gym and try and sweat this mood out.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Me: 28 | DH: 31
Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
TTC #1 since November 2015
BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
I'm so sorry, everyone feeling down today, and for all the BFNs. More creepy group hugs.
Month / Cycle: 3/3
CD / DPO: 29/12
Timing: -4, -2, -1, 0
Testing Plans: Not unless AF is way late.
R / R / CS: I'm glad it's the weekend!
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? I feel like I have to include Harry Potter, but video game-wise, I'm with @Winnie81 - maybe World of Warcraft. I would also be happy (and my nerd side is about to show like no other) living in the Nancy Drew computer games series, because mystery is always afoot.
ETF: Words.
then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
@mrsdaddario still in the club! Also tested this AM. Only testing 4x in 65 days is pretty admirable! I felt so bummed out after. But now I feel no guilt having a few drinks out tonight!
Month/cycle: 3/1
CD/DPO: 60/nah
Timing: waiting out the final possible timing so I can stop testing
R/R/CS: I'm officially NOT normal. WTF! Trying not to over think it since this is my first cycle off HBC but seriously? Ive gone off it before and went back to regular cycles immediately. Had a super weird unrealistic thought process where I determined that Im not pregnant because of joining the bump and hanging out in TTC with all the non-pregnant people. Because an online forum has that much control over my uterus! The thought was fleeting and Im still here. Love you guys!
GTKY: I so wanted to be unique but have dreamed of going to hogwarts since I was little!
Him:31
Married: Sept'15
TTC#1: Jan'16
PCOS Dx: Apr'16
BFP #1: Jul'16
DS Born: Mar'17
Congrats, @kns1988!
I'm so sorry @babymish, I was really hoping this was your month.
Month/Cycle: 4
CD/DPO: 27/12
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Testing: BFN this am
R/R/CS: My temp dropped to coverline yesterday. I got home at 1:45 last night (Garth was so good!!) and normally temp at 3:30. I waited until 6:30, thinking that it would be better, but my temp was .7 degrees higher than yesterday! So I adjusted it, which I never do, but the high temp was throwing me off. Cramps today and expecting AF tonight (11 day LP). I'm going to stay in the TWW until I need to officially move.
GTKY: I love playing the Sims, but wouldn't want to live in that world. Maybe Sonic???
CD / DPO: 18/4
Timing: A lot better than I was expecting.
Testing Plans: None unless something on my charts gives me a reason to.
R / R / CS: This is my first TWW post, so hello! While I have been stalking daily since last September, I honestly wasn't expecting to begin participating in the WTO/TWW threads until July-is since I just stopped BCP on February 14th after 10 years and DH was deploying shortly after. I figured my body was going to geek out and I wanted to give it time to regulate while he was away, so I wasn't expecting anything remotely resembling ovulation anytime soon. FF is telling me a different story now (which is wonderful!) and if the temps don't suddenly drop or anything, this could be a NTNP TWW for us so I hope it's okay if I join you all this go-around. Even if nothing comes of it, I'll be back later this summer when we can start trying again.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Some PP'S had a great idea with Harry Potter, magic would be amazing
CD/DPO: Either 25 or 18 / ~11DPO
Timing: Surprisingly good
Testing Plans: Daily internet cheapies with BFNs, gonna bust out a FRER tomorrow
R / R / CS: Can I just say that I am super excited to try a new fried chicken joint today? Love me some honey butter. Nothing new to report CS wise, other than reading too much into symptoms that are probably just wonky post-Mirena side effects.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
I love dystopian stories, so NONE OF THEM Although, I would totally be a Hufflepuff if I were in Hogwarts.
Me: 28 | Partner: 31
Married since 2014
TTC #1 since 02/2016
****Lurking from Sept 16****
hey ladies- just wanted to say hi.....there is nothing exciting going on over on the Sept board, not really anyways...
@babymish- Hugs to you lady! Sorry to see you still here. I would highly recommend a pre baby bucket list If you don't already have one or weekend get away or date nights. Something to help with the distraction to keep your mind off of it. Also, I really loved my adult coloring book. Hang in there girl....the only way to get there is to keep trying. this journey is such a trial of strength and patience.
@1017Shannon- I would say its probably your body still regulating and I wouldn't put too much stock into any of it. On a side note, it did take me to 15 DPO to get a positive test.....Depending on how you handle BFN's I'd probably wait it out another day or 2.
@houseofsetters- Can you post your chart? How long is your LP?
@mrsdaddario- Your dad sounds JUST like mine!!! Super sappy!! I love him to death, he's the best and my hubby is just like him in so many ways!! But he's so sappy! When we told him we got engaged, he said he was all warm all over.....WTF is that??? gotta love him though....He sent my DH a card this week because DH had been super sick all week last week and I called my dad to complain about what a big baby my DH was being.....and a bad patient too. So my dad sent him a card to tell him he hoped he was feeling better and that they really liked my DH. It was really sweet actually and my DH's dad is no longer with us. My DH said the card was something his dad would have done, so he really appreciated the card from my dad. \
@Rottiemom86- Have you seen or talked to your dr about your long cycles?? Are you able to use OPKS at all to help you have a better understanding of where you might be in your cycles if the temping makes you too anxious? Hope you can find a happy medium!
@juliebeannn- I think we all thought we'd magically be KTFU our first go at it!! completely realistic. When I first was on these boards, I saw all the women testing at 10 DPO and they'd get BFN's and I thought no way could I do that. Well on my 2nd month or 3rd month I had some crazy dream that was super vivid about CM of all things and it was so real, it made me test the next morning at 10 DPO. Negative.....I didn't test again after that ever until the month we got our BFP. Its a journey for sure and trial and error for what works for you!! But the ladies on this board have lots of knowledge to share!! Hang in there!
@Lecool- Sorry about the fight with DH- the gym sounds like the perfect solution!! Do you guys have a pre baby bucket list or can you get away for a weekend? Date night? Adult coloring books were really helpful for me too actually.....Hang in there girl!!
Big creepy internet hugs to all you lovely ladies that are having a rough TTC day: @babymish
@nwegman7878 @Sparty18 @mrsdaddario @Rottiemom86 @juliebeannn @Lecool
Month / Cycle: 2/2
CD / DPO: 17/3
Timing: -1
Testing Plans: was going to try and hold out to 10dpo but let's be honest... it'll probably happen 8dpo because I'm impatient
R / R / CS: CHs today for the first time! Last month I didn't start temping until O day, so it's kinda exciting to see the CHs pop on my chart today.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Hogwarts/HP's world would be amazing as would Jane Austen's time. I've always loved Regency-era books/movies.
CD / DPO: 18/2
Timing: O-1, O+1
Testing Plans: 11DPO
R / R / CS: I'm back : ) I took a break from this board for awhile and have been spending time on the IF board. We took a break this month from IUIs and medications. If this month doesn't work, we're moving to IVF in March.
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be? Sex and the City! NYC with money, clothes, nice apartments!
Jan 10, 2016: Cycle 16. Femara 5mg + IUI #3 - BFN.
Feb 10, 2016: Cycle 17. No IUI or meds. Taking a break - Natural BFP Mar 5, 2016!!!! EDD Nov 16, 2016
Moving to IVF March 2016
Beta at 10dpo: 21, Beta at 12dpo: 98, Beta at 14dpo: 264, Beta at 16dpo: 745
U/S 6w6d: single beautiful heartbeat of 121bpm - It's a boy!!!!
Nov 3, 2016: Our family became complete. Welcome DS #2.
TEAM: PINK!!
Month / Cycle: 4/4
CD / DPO: 31/11 or 12
Timing: O-4 or O-5
Testing Plans: tested a few days ago and then never did again, but I have spotting and a temp dip today so today or tomorrow will be CD1.
R / R / CS: What day do you all count as CD1? First day that requires a tampon?
GTKY: If you could live in any video game or movie world, what would it be?
Harry Potter
Dx: Both tubes blocked, PCOS, DOR, RPL
IVF Cycle #1 Dec. 2016 - 11R·11M·5F - Transferred 2 - BFP - Miscarriage - 0 Embryos Left
Thanks @Flamingo777 @Marley629 @khbear @mrsdaddario @jmr1515 @writeress @LittleStreem
@1017Shannon sorry your cycle is being confusing, maybe your lp will be slightly longer this month. I have seen that for a few ladies on here with random 16 day lps etc. Or maybe it is better news - FX.
@DiFazette I'm not entirely sure but 3 seems to be the general rule with FF. It gave me a "triphasic" chart in December and I have 5 temps on total at the new high level, think it gave me the term a few temps in.
Sorry for the BNF @NurseMarie9 and @juliebeannn
Sorry you are feeling so down @Lecool I have been having those exact same thoughts. In a weird way seeing other women are having those thoughts too makes me realise that its ok and puts things into perspective. Our hormones and emotions put us through all that but it doesnt mean it's true. We just have to keep trucking on
Thanks @wino929 me too. sorry for CD1
Welcome to TWW @Sirius37
Sorry for the temp drop @PennStateCait
Thanks for the checking in @MNturnsVA I treated myself to a Kate Spade handbag today so there's that. Hope all is good with you
TEAM: PINK!!
@pennstatecait Boo, I'm sad to see that, LP buddy. Hugs. For your question, yeah I count CD1 as the first day that a tampon is needed.