First off - congrats to all of you in this group!! I'm still early in my first tri, but I have a wedding about two months after the expected due date. We're doing a lot of wedding stuff now and haven't told anyone yet, waiting until second tri most likely. I realize I probably can't have a huge role in planning her shower that will be two weeks after the due date, which stinks. The bride is sweet, I only see her being understanding. But I want to be realistic about my limitations so I don't agree to do something and then I can't. And the bride and I are both big planners.
Those of you who are about eight or so weeks into true motherhood, what concerns or problems do you think I may run into? I know dress alterations will be fun, so the dress shopped advised me to go one size larger. And I also assume my husband will have to be there with the baby so I can feed (assuming I can breastfeed)...and maybe just hide outside of the chapel. am I crazy thinking I can do this?