Pregnant after a Loss

Saying Goodbye, Hopefully I'll Be Back (loss mentioned)

I went in yesterday for a second ultrasound before my RE would graduate me onto my regular OB and the heartbeat was gone at 10w2d.  It was a complete shock since I had felt fine and had no symptoms of miscarrying; I knew I wasn't in the clear yet but felt really good about making it to 10 weeks.  The hurt, anger, frustration and sadness run deep and I am still trying to make sense of it all.  I know there is nothing I could have done differently and DH has been beyond supportive.  He's slowly telling the few people we had shared our pregnancy with...I am just happy I don't have to do it.  So it is good bye for now, hopefully I will be able to rejoin in the coming months but right now I can't fathom going through another loss and heartbreak.  I am hoping to miscarry naturally, but if it doesn't happen in 10-14 days I will go for a D&C.  Hoping you all have healthy pregnancies and babies! xo

Re: Saying Goodbye, Hopefully I'll Be Back (loss mentioned)

  • oh honey, I'm so sorry :'(  Please be easy on yourself, we have all been there.  I wish the best of luck to you in the future.
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
  • I am so sorry. I had a MMC this spring the waiting is terrible, please take care of yourself
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  • I am so so sorry. I know nothing anyone will say will make you feel any better. I've been there just a few weeks ago and the hurt is so so intense. I'm so happy your husband is there for you. They can make all the difference. Hugs.
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  • Creepy internet hugs here... I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself. Xx
    TTC #1 - Started 7/2015
    MC #1 - 1/10/2014
    MC #2 - 10/15/2015

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  • So sorry for your loss.
  • This just broke my heart for you. I am so so sorry. No words will help, everyone's loss is completely different because each little miracle is unique to us. But I will say a prayer for you. Please take care of yourself.

  • Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this! I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. My heart goes out to you. Hugs. :( 
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)

  • My heart is aching for you. I hate this so much. There are no words. I'm so so sorry.
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  • I am so so sorry you have to experience this again. It's cruel and unfair. My heart breaks for you. Hugs.
  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. I've experienced a mmc and it is so hard. Take your time to heal and be kind to yourself. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way!
  • Oh no! I'm so very sorry! ((Hugs)) Sending you thoughts & prayers!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. The wounds I fear will never disappear but time does good things to help heal them. My thoughts are with you and your family xx
  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(:'(
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